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ex boyfriend
this guy. We went out for about a year. I think i was inlove with him. When we used to fight, i would ignore him for a while because i didn't want to deal with him, then i would talk to him later after. days later. I miss him so much. he's told one of my friends that he still likes me, but i guess i'm not supposed to know, even his best friend thought that he mite still like me because he was talking about me a lot at his school...i still love him...i can't stop thinking about him...and it makes me super jealous to know that he seems to be doing fine without me....i'm just so depressed. Life is going straight downhill, and i'm hanging in there. I just need advice about this one issue. So one of my ex's friends called me saying that my ex told him to call me. And i didn't understand why. i was so confused. and at the same time it hurt me because it was like he was calling me a slut or easy or something. And i didn't understand my why he would call me a slut because we never did it. I'm not planning on that anytime soon. We just made out and kind of grinded on each other, and it was almost like we were doing it, but not really because our clothes were on...i guess this could be counted as a slutty, but...what do you guys think? just tryna get help and get myself up... thank you!
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I was in a relationship like this not too long ago.
and yes i know how much pain your going through, especially after such a long time . But if you guys were constantly fighting, i think its best to leave it how it is .
because, its better to be in a loving relationship and that your always happy, instead of being in one when your constantly miserable.
which is exactly what i went through. Keep your spirits up, try going out with your friends, to a coffee shop, the library, the mall.. places where you can get your mind off of whats going inside and focus on the life you have ahead of you instead of what already happened, and whats bringing you down.
and thats' not really slutty, honey. you couldve done far more than that in a year :] so don't feel bad, and if you keep a positive intake on life, things will become much easier and time soothes pain, rememeber that! hope that helped <3
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Guys are like children. Hes playing games to see how far youll go thats all like a test. He wants to see if you'll hookup with him. And as far as him doing fine.. WHEN have you ever seen a man show signs of weaknesss.. Hello he wouod never show you or anyone else that its bothering him.. hello a mans Pride??....You need to find something to distract you like go hang with the girls or whatever. I know its hard but it will all fall into place if its meant to be, Show him you dont care, when you see him try to smile and act like your having the time of your life. I f he really does like you he will call.. And if not why bother with soemone who doensnt...
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Hmmm,
well im not positive cos i dont know him (obviously lol)
but i think he told your ex to call yew cos guys can be SO dumb man.
This kind of happened to me one time,
exept for my ex told me other ex that he should start talking to me again.
which he later regreted because we ended up getting together lol,
but ANYWAYS,
i think he doesn't really want you to go with your ex.
& um i honestly dont think he's implying that you are a "slut".
Haha,Dont Worry Grinding on someone that you've been with for a whole YEAR is NOT SLUTTY.
At ALL.
<3
hope i helped:)
GL!
just talkk to him.
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Do you honestly think that he would tell somebody to call you and tell you that you're a slut or things of that nature? Do you really think he's capable of that? Do you even know if your ex told his friend to call you? How do you know whether it isn't his friend just saying that? The answer to that honey is no.
He may look like his handling this breakup well, but that's just on the outside, inside, he may be feeling the same way about you: he can't stop thinking about you. And one thing which points that out to me is the fact that he talks about you. I know from experience that when you've got somebody constantly on your mind, you keep on talking about that person because you're confused as to why you're thinking about that person in the first place, even after a break up.
Talk to him about that call and see what he says and ask him whether it really is as to how he feels about you. Then tell him how you feel. I can tell that this relationship could still work, but only if the two of you are ready to take another shot at it and be a couple, not two separate people.
He needs to explain what he meant by what his friend said because it's not fair on you: he tells his friends that he still likes you, but then asks one of his friends to tell you that you're a slut, something isn't right there.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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