Ok I've liked this guy for quite awhile now. My friends boyfriend found out I liked him. I deny it but he went and told the guy I like I like him. He still talks to me but its...idk weird. Her boyfriend said he will tell him I don't like him. I don't exactly know what to do. Now I'm so nervous to even be around him. He still jokes around but her boyfriend said, "pick on her" so yeah. I don't know what to do! I don't even know what my question is! I need help. Its bugging me so much because I really do like him but I'm not freakishly obsessed but I like him. Please help. Thanks so much!
Additional info, added Saturday October 18 2008, 1:29 pm: I think I might have made this a little confusing to understand but this is it: I have this friend who has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend went and told the guy I like, I like him. Her boyfriend told me what he said to him, "pick on her" But he always has even before he knew. So yeah. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iwantthetruth answered Saturday October 18 2008, 3:18 pm: I get how it can be really awkward when someone knows you like them. But did your friend's boyfriend say whether or not the guy likes you too? Because if he does then it really just means you should hang out more since you both like eachother. But if he doesn't like you, then pretend like this whole thing never happened. Try your best to be completely normal around him and make him think that you really don't like him anymore. And eventually you will stop liking him.
A week ago, I really liked this one guy, who I had liked for like a month or so, but then I found out that he might/does like someone else. So I told myself that I wasn't going to make a big deal about it and that I would just try to stop liking him. So basically, I haven't been avoiding him, but just not exactly trying to be around him all the time. I want him to see that I have no feelings for him. That way hopefully if we ever become good friends it won't be awkward. I hope I helped you. <3 [ iwantthetruth's advice column | Ask iwantthetruth A Question ]
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