Question Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 10:05 pm
I have i bf and we been together for almost 7 months. He loves me more than anything and im questioning myself. we talked about our future and when we are going to get married. One side of me is trying hold on and the other side is giving up. We been arguing a lil more and i feel my self detached. Im afraid I may never regin it again. Every time i detach myself from someone i can never reconnect. Hes my best friend and is always there. we cant spend much time wit each other neither, How should i feel? Whats love, how should love feel. Please help me.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? katiexsays answered Sunday October 19 2008, 5:24 pm: Love is so much different for everyone. Honestly, for me, love is when I find someone that I am just always happy to be around and to talk to. It's when you're really tired at the end of the day but yet the person you're in love with calls and you suddenly feel energized and happy for a little while.
That being said, love also includes fighting and getting upset. But if you're really in love, you WANT to work these fights out, and you will do whatever it takes to do so. When a relationship has run its course, you no longer feel as though a resolution is possible or worth it.
The way you handle fighting and the stress of a relationship is a test to your relationship.
good luck! [ katiexsays's advice column | Ask katiexsays A Question ]
Inspiration4444 answered Sunday October 19 2008, 8:17 am: Well, It's normal to have downs in your relationship or have fights...the point is how you guys are gonna deal with it...Try to talk with him about what makes you uncomfortable and talk with him about your fears..and i's ok if you are not ready to have plans for the future for now...Talk together about your problems and try to figure it out...and about LOVE...you feel like you can talk with him for hours and never get bored...you feel like he is a part of your life..that you can share everything with him..it's easy to talk to him..you are Just you with him...you feel like you are so happy just to see him no matter what you guys gonna do or talk about...It's just this certain feeling that you feel in your heart...Take some time and you gonna feel what's the right thing to do...and what you really feel about him and if it's not love...then don't try to go further in this relationship..Good luck and I hope you'll figure it out:) [ Inspiration4444's advice column | Ask Inspiration4444 A Question ]
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