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Last Update: June 15, 2009
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okay well...you see im in love with this boy..lets call him Jasper...lol..but yeah like we went out for 5 mounths, but Jasper felt that he needed to be alone and that he didnt want the responsibility of me or something i didnt understand that. But yeah the first day we wnet out he told me that he would never leave me,and i believed him,stupied girl i am..but he said the reason he said that is cuz he has never had a real gf so he felt that he would never leave the one he does get. then i was dead inside like you have no idea i felt horrablie without him, he started to too i could tell he was going to crack soon.. but then like he told me that he doesnt want to date anyone for like a year which made me cry even more. Then last thursday he told everyong that he was going to aske me back out, but my friends didnt tell me anything so i was clueeless..and so my friend told me to go over to wear to tree was but i had to go to the bath room so i went there instaead. but its onky becuase he told me that he wouldnt ask me out for a hile so how was i spposed to know..im sure any girl would to the same thig,Well what im asking is that do you think he will do it again?? like ask me out agian?? (link)
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Alright so there's two possibilties you will face, either he will ask you out again or he wont. If he didnt ask you again then I think you should just try to get over him, It will take some time but you'll get there, but if he did ask you out again, and you're considering getting back to him, before you say yes I think you should talk to him about everything and make sure that he's sure of what he is doing this time and that he's sure that's what he really wants, believe me you dont want a guy who doesnt know what he wants specially when it comes to you otherwise you'll get hurt alot since he will have second thoughts all the time. So just try to talk to him and settle things down and discuss everything before starting again. Good luck :)
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So I've been "best friends" with this girl for about like 3 years now. She's SUPER clingy to me. She always needs to know where I am and who I'm with if I'm not hanging out with her. If I tell her I can't hang out with her, she'll ask why, who are you with? Anyways, she and I and another girl are all BFF's. But this girl who's super clingy, let's call her Jane. She's always talking crap about the other girl,(let's call her Sara). Jane always vents to me about Sara and how much she hates her, and yet Jane is so nice, but it's all fake to Sara's face. And Sara and I are closer, so I tell Sara what Jane says about her.
As of right now, I don't want to hang out with Jane anymore. She tells me that she hates all the people in the group that we hang out with and she can't stand any of them. She's ALWAYS fake with them if she sees them, and she's always clinging onto me. I'm so sick of her crap. She brings drama to my life. And she's so dramatic, it's sick. I mean, I don't want to be mean and delete her out of my life. But what should I do?
The thing is, if I sit down and talk to her about it, she'll be like "oh i'm sorry." And then she'll talk behind my back with someone else. Which I know she does.
What should I do? (link)
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I was going to tell you to talk to her about it since you guys are best friends but since you've done that already I don't think that she can be one of ur best friends now, I think you should just be somehow far from her, like make her a normal friend, everyone needs their space and she should understand that. So I think you should get far from her somehow, have your space. She'll feel the difference and that might change her but if she didnt then she can still be in your life just not as close as before.
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Dear YG,
I have a girlfriend, we've been together for a few weeks now, but she has already made it evident that she has secrets about her life that she is not comfortable with telling me. I was not too worried about them until her friends mother, (who she lives with) let me in on a big secret, but made me swear not to tell my girlfriend that I know. She told me last night because me and my girlfriend were fighting over sexual issues. The problem was, that I was kissing her, and touching her, and we were about to have sex, but all she wanted to do was kiss, and she was very reluctant to have sex, or touch me, but all she gave was a lot of far fetched excuses. This irritated me because this has been going on for the past week or so with her. After our fight, we still haven't truly made up, but I had time to talk 1 on 1 with her friends mother. I explained my situation, knowing that she is a very open person, and would have no problem offering her advice based on how we have talked about practically anything and everything since I have met the woman. But I did not expect what she was about to reveal to me by a long shot. We were sitting there in the living room just me and her, and she tells me that my girlfriend has some medical issues that she has been reluctant to tell me, and that might be the missing piece in this puzzle here. She then goes on to tell me that my girlfriend has heart issues, and explains them to me... I did not know how to feel about this, but it didn't seem life threatening, so I was still relaxed. Then she goes on to tell me that my girlfriend has Hepatitis C. This is a very serious condition; and I could be at a great risk of getting it from her. Since last night I have not been able to collect myself, and I've just been a wreck because now I feel like a jerk for pressuring her into sexual relations, when she was resisting, not because of me, but because she wanted to protect me, because she doesn't know if she can get me infected with the same dangerous disease. As far as I know, her knowledge on the disease is limited. Now I can't relax, because I want to tell her how sorry I am, and how I can't even explain how I feel about it, but on the same note I don't wanna blow her friend's mom's cover by saying how she revealed my girlfriends best kept secret. For this would hurt the relationship between myself and her friends mother, and she might not tell me any information ever again. I also feel upset towards my girlfriend for not telling me but I don't know what to do?!?
There's a whole bunch of emotion going on with me, I know I still love my girlfriend, but how do I handle this situation? Please help, the quicker the better..
Sincerly,
PeoplePerson27 (link)
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Well, I think you should talk to your girlfriend and try to make her feel secure and to make it up for what happened, try to make her feel comfortable that she can tell you anything, and that you guys would deal with whatever problems you'd face but it's important she would tell you. try to make her feel so secure and comfortable that she can talk to you about anything, then when she tell you what she have(since in your situation now it will be hard if u tell her that you already know). you can go to a doctor, understand the whole situation, and how you can deal with it, or treat it, I'm sure that a doctor will explain a lot of things and help too in what you guys should do. I hope it will work out for you.
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When I try to perform a song...there's a disconnect between what I'm singing & how I'm feeling. I need some advice on how to captivate myself in the emotions the artist wants me to feel.
Particularly, "I Hope You Dance" by Lee Ann Womack.
what is it about?
thanks! (link)
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I didn't know this song before and I've listened to it now before I can reply you, It's such a beautiful song, Well..I think you just need to listen to it's music alot...feel it inside of you...let it get into you...and read the lyrics...understand it...feel it...the lyrics are like someone telling a story but in a beautiful way..try to feel this story, feel the words...and imagine it when you sing it..think of this story...feel the passion of the music, Sometimes it helps too to think of someone close to you when you sing, or a certain situation that might be related to the song. Hope that I helped..Good luck with the song:)
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I have i bf and we been together for almost 7 months. He loves me more than anything and im questioning myself. we talked about our future and when we are going to get married. One side of me is trying hold on and the other side is giving up. We been arguing a lil more and i feel my self detached. Im afraid I may never regin it again. Every time i detach myself from someone i can never reconnect. Hes my best friend and is always there. we cant spend much time wit each other neither, How should i feel? Whats love, how should love feel. Please help me. (link)
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Well, It's normal to have downs in your relationship or have fights...the point is how you guys are gonna deal with it...Try to talk with him about what makes you uncomfortable and talk with him about your fears..and i's ok if you are not ready to have plans for the future for now...Talk together about your problems and try to figure it out...and about LOVE...you feel like you can talk with him for hours and never get bored...you feel like he is a part of your life..that you can share everything with him..it's easy to talk to him..you are Just you with him...you feel like you are so happy just to see him no matter what you guys gonna do or talk about...It's just this certain feeling that you feel in your heart...Take some time and you gonna feel what's the right thing to do...and what you really feel about him and if it's not love...then don't try to go further in this relationship..Good luck and I hope you'll figure it out:)
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What are some good songs about missing your ex boyfriend? He's in jail right now..but he was my first real relationship. I prefer any slow songs, rap, rock, etc.
Thanks so much :/ (link)
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When You're Gone by Avril Lavigne
Hope you gonna like it..Good luck!
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I just need a song that'll make me cry..
Preferably a sad breakup song.
I love all kinds of music.
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Goodbye to you by Michelle Branch
Please Remember by Leanne Rimes
hope you'll find what you're looking for:)
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hi there. i need to know if anyone konws like a program where i can cut songs eg.
i have like this song thats 63 minutes long. i like this one part at about 20 minutes. i want to know if there any program to like cut out that part of the song. hope you understand . Thanks (link)
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You can download (Adobe Audition)
I always use it to cut and edit songs
Good luck:)
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Whenever i use the internet, my internet goes down every 10 minutes not even kidding this is what the connection says. can someone help me?
Wireless Network Connection 6 (linksys)(unsecured)
Speed: 54.0 mbps
(as im typing this my internet went down)
Signal Strength: Very Good
Status: Connected
what does unsecured mean?
this is really annoying because when im on AIM it goes down at the worst times when im having a convo with someone, or even at the best times and i have to say "sorry my internet went down, what did you say?" then theyll tell me and itll go down again. its SO annoying! please help! and i've tried to "repair" it with that option and it doesnt do anything! (link)
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Don't worry about(Unsecured) It means that you can log in to the internet without a password..so nothing to worry about, And about that your connection goes down, try to turn off your modem and your router every once in a while for few minutes or so and then turn it on again. And even with that if the problem still exists, I think you should buy a new modem.
I hope it will work for you..Good Luck
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15/f
It was finally over with me and my ex boyfriend just over a month ago. See, up to the point that I met him, no one ever really cared about me. No one. And slowly I lost more and more people that I could talk to. For the first time in my life, I actually met someone that cared about me, that loved me, that adored me and would do anything for me.
The relationship was on and off for about a year, but he always loved me and he was always there for me.
Then suddenly, he was acting as if I didn't exist. I have never been through anything so hard in my entire life. I had no one. After this went away, and I started feeling better about myself, I realised that I was in love with him.
He has a girlfriend now. I'm happy for him, but it doesn't stop the hurt. When he started dating her, I realised that I had to let him go and move on with my life. Though I still hope we end up together.
I've liked other guys since then, but nothing to compared to what I feel for him. We've known each other for like a year and a half, and we're in the same friendship group, so we're being "friends".
Thing is, I don't know how to be friends with him. We've never been "just friends".
We get on well and even flirt sometimes, but if his girlfriend's there he completely ignores me, and she always seems to be there now.
I try not to think about him, and I don't really speak to him anymore. I love and care about him more than anyone, and I want to be there for him, but it hurts too much to see him. I can't cope with it.
So what should I do? How do I be friends with him? Should I carry on not speaking to him or will I lose him? Should I try to get him back, or will I just be wasting my time when really I should move on?
I want to move on, but when I like other guys, I feel as if I'm just in denial, and I know that deep down, I'm still in love with my ex and I don't want it to always be like that.
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Well, I can really know how it feels cause I've been there before with my ex, but I think if you still have feelings for him you won't be able to move on if you talk and see him alot, that won't help at this time, you need time to let it go, to get over him, and it will really help that you won't talk to him now, just for now and then when you can be sure that you are completely over him then you guys can be friends , and at this time it won't hurt you anymore, don't think you won't find love again or that you won't find someone who would love you that way, it's just a normal feeling after you break up but believe me, you'll find that again even in a much better way, so try to move on, meet new people, do the things that you love to do and by time you'll get over it and you'll meet someone really special.
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Ive been seeing this girl for awhile and we have a odd relationship its kinda of a friends with benifits/dating thing its hard to exsplain but ive falling for her and im not sure if she is actually falling for me or just having a good time ive talked to her a few times about it and she always just kinda tells me jsut enough to keep me on the hook i guess. its starting to get old and im not sure if i should stick it out or just break it off its hard cause i care about her alot. (link)
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I think you should talk to her about it again but in a way that you guys should decide what you gonna do..either to move forward or to break it off, tell her how you really feel and ask her how she feels about you too so then you can take it to the next level and be actually together or you better break it off cause if you keep going on like that..I think you'll get hurt since you started to have feelings for her and you don't wanna get more involved if she is not in the same place as you are..It's just that you need to make things clear and to know how she feels about it so you can decide what you gonna do.
I hope that you'll work it out...Good luck:)
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I need songs about someone that has past away and you miss them adn love them i need R&b please ? (link)
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I miss you by Miley Cyrus
Sha-la-la-la-la, sha-la-la-la-la
You used to call me your angel
Said I was sent straight down from heaven
You'd hold me close in your arms
I loved the way you felt so strong
I never wanted you to leave
I wanted you to stay here holding me
[CHORUS:]
I miss you
I miss your smile
And I still shed a tear
Every once in a while
And even though it's different now
You're still here somehow
My heart won't let you go
And I need you to know
I miss you, sha la la la la
I miss you
You used to call me your dreamer
And now I'm living out my dream
Oh how I wish you could see
Everything that's happening for me
I'm thinking back on the past
It's true that time is flying by too fast
[CHORUS]
I know you're in a better place, yeah
But I wish that I could see your face, oh
I know you're where you need to be
Even though it's not here with me
You used to call me your dreamer
And now I'm living out my dream
Oh how I wish you could see
Everything that's happening for me
I'm thinking back on the past
It's true that time is flying by too fast
[CHORUS]
I know you're in a better place, yeah
But I wish that I could see your face, oh
I know you're where you need to be
Even though it's not here with me
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Can anyone reccommend some really good music studio software that I can download?
I would like to be able to mix my own music and record etc.
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Hey, there are two softwares that I use
1)Audacity
2)Adobe Audition
Enjoy it:)
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18/M My girlfriend, who I love very much,
is still in high school, and lives about 20 minutes away, and she's depressed and stressed because I don't get to see her as often now that school's in. (weekend's are basically the extent of it, and she want's a job too)
How can we see each other more often during the week when she has homework, and how can I make her feel better? (link)
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Yeah well I can understand how she feels, Maybe you can try to show her more how much you love her, how much you care about her and what she feels even that you guys don't see each other much, simple things can make a difference, try to talk on phone more, try texting more, Just to stay connected even thought that u guys can't see each other much like the summer and you can try to stop by and see her during the week even for 15 minutes or something.
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I have had alot of ups and downs in my life so I have alot of depressing music, well now everything seems to be going right and Id like some happy songs. Something like Innocence by Avril Lavigne etc. I like acoustic, rock/punk/metal basically anything but rap and country. For some more help on what im looking for:
anything about everything being perfect
anything about a crush/new guy
anything about living life
or having amazing friends :)
Thank you
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This is my now - Jordan Sparks
A moment like this - Kelly Clarkson
Can't fight the moonlight - Leann Rimes
Kiss me - Sixpence None The Richer
I'm coming out - Diana Ross
Set me free - Michelle Branch
Well I hope that you'll find the songs you are looking for :)
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Please read all of this.
Well, me and my girl broke up a month and a half ago, a week after we broke up, i got another girlfriend. We lasted one week. I knew i was still crazy for her. I cant stop thinking about her even now, it seems like she has moved on though, she had a boyfriend..for a week.
When she broke it off she begged that we should stay friends..
So much for that.
We arnt on speaking terms, she ignores me..
we havnt spoken in so long.
but i need her back.
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Well, try to get closer to her..like be her best friend...Try to know what she needs...what she likes..what she feels..try to listen more to everything she says...show her that she is really special to you..
Just show her that you really do care about her and that she will always find you with her and then you can tell her what you really feel..
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