Member Since: September 21, 2008 Answers: 2 Last Update: September 23, 2008 Visitors: 539
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hi un i had sex for the first time with my guy in july for the first time & it did hurt. but we're going to have sex again in like 2 days. but i was wondering even though it's the 2nd time will it still hurt since we haven't done for like 2 months? please reply back asap. (link)
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That all depends on your guy, he needs to understand that it is the second time and even though he is excited about it he needs to be gentle untill your boddy adjust to it. The first time can be painful or not painful at all but if he treats you as you were sexually active before of course it will hurt.
So try to take it slow and for sure you will adjust and it will be pleasurable as it supposed to be.
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Do you think that it is wrong to talk to an ex while dating someone else? I am with this guy right now and he doesnt trust me so he went into my cell and checked my text messages and found that an ex had been text messaging me. We are in a big arguement now about weather or not its ok to talk to an ex. Please help (link)
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I don't say it is wrong but there is something else to consider, is the ex still interested in her? does the ex only wants friendship? I can understand the actual boyfriend point of view.
If you love your boyfriend why to open the pandora's box with an ex? Unless you make it clear to the ex that you have a boyfriend you love and that he has to be aware that there will be nothing else but friendship then u tell your boyfriend about the friend to put things in the clear. That avoids many problems including jelousy.
just my 2 cents..
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