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ok well. me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago, i ended it... i was prob the best girlfriend i could ever be.. like not to sound cocky of myself. we had been fighting for awhile about stuff, like he one time kissed a girl so cheated on me, and then other things "rumors"were told to me along our relationship.. that might have or might have not been true. Either way im not a stupid girl, so eventually i ended it. I wont lie, ususaly when we were together i could def tell how much he loved me, and some things he did for me... but a couple months ago before our relationship ended.. he had been drinking a lot, and it bothered me so much, causehe would drink everyday and somtimes by himself.. idk, so when i broke up with him he got with a girl that exact night, and has gotten with many since... he hasnt really said anything to me once, at all.. like i dont want to talk to him anyways.
i just dont understand it... we had tried breaking uptwo weeks before we actually did, but he would call me every night, explain how much i was his first love, now its this.
i am def moving on though this time, i just dont understand what hes thinking. idk maybe if some guy or something could explain to me why hes already out fuckin so many girls and not trying to get me back? (link)
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this is what i think. i think that he liked you a lot and everyone has there different ways of getting over girls this is his , as you said he liekd you a lot ,and you shouldnt feel bad about that, so he doesnt know how to cope with any of this and he probly doesnt have anybody really to talk to as the sounds of it , and if he does they dont listen . so he just goes with what he thinks would make him get over you easier , to move on and fuck girls , but really hes not over you and hes using that to cover up his true feeliungs , hope i helped
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Hello there.
I was just wondering... what are some fun ways to kiss? Like one example would be to put an ice cube in your mouth and pass it back and forth. BUt i was wondering what are some fun ways to kiss someone else? I am trying to get some new ways to make kissing more exciting for me and my boyfriend, just so we can play around with it.
I rate high for GOOD answers! =]
Thanks
Madd. (link)
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oh kayy.. make out with pop rocks in your mouth .. it feels soo cool!
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when a guy says "i want you" what exactly does it mean? my bf said it to me (link)
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i want you can me lots of different things it can mean
a. he wants in your pants ....
b. he wants you right there to kiss you and hug you and share the moment with you.
it could go both ways
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15f. I like this guy whos nice at times and can be a jerk too. Hes a jerk in a kidding around way but i just wish he would be more serious. He says like rude things and not just to me. He told me he liked me and i told him i liked him .. and i know guys can act weird when they like a girl.. but do they sometimes act mean too? (link)
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yea they do act mean, some of them. the reason for that is they feel weak and they have no control because they like you. so they bug you and be mean to you to have a barrier, and some control. it has happened to me you just have to get them comfortable around you and they will put the barrier down..
hope i helped
loveboys
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What are some signs that a guy likes you? Preferrably a guy you're friends with/talk to a lot in school? I've never had a boyfriend and no one's ever liked me as far as I know so I don't know this stuff too well lol. (link)
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okay signs that a guy likes you is if he always goes out of his way to touch you or hes always caught looking at you and if you think he likes you your probly right because guys arnt too good at hiding it ..
and if you really wanna know you should ask him even though its really hard its something you kight just have to do to find the answer
hope i helped
loveboys
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Hi. well i think im alright with guys but i dont know how to branch out and meet new guys. i already know all the guys in my classes and stuff and im not intereste. i know there must be amazing guys out there but i dont know how to meet them. please help! how should i get to know guys i dont have classes with/ and how should i flirt with guy i just randomly meet and how do i branch out? thank you so much! i'll rate :] (link)
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go to the mall or up to people at lunch and be yourself and see where it goes from there
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so this boy and i have been "talking and having a thing for each other for like over a year" but ive had other hook ups and crushes during that but recently in the last 4/5 months we have got so much closer and no guy matters, like hes all i want. he took me on a date in july, it was amazing. and we just went to homecoming together, and it was even more amazing. plus we just hooked up for the first time at homecoming (making out) so we are taking it extremely slow, but when he took me out he paid for everything and was such a gentleman. i loved it. plus he knows i like him and i know he likes me. im not sure if its time for an offical realionship, because we bascially are dating..but my question is: what are some cute things that i can do for him to show him that i reallly like him and to pay him back for doing all those things for me when he took me out?
please & thank youuuu! (link)
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well just call him babe all the time and complement him lots thats the best thing i think
hope i helped
loveboys
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Ok so if somone jus lost alot of weight and they dont wanna lose anymore and they dont wanna gain
Can they eat whatever they want to but workout?
i mean for example everyday you work out to stay in shape is it okay to eat whatever you want?
And if it is, does the working out have to be everyday cant it be like 4 or 3 times a week? thanks :D (link)
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still eat healthy because its good for your body but work out less intense and for a shorter time.... hope i helped
loveboys
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im sarah, f/14
his name is greg, m/15 but only by a few months
okay so i am pretty sure this guy likes me but i wanna know what you think
alright so i met this guy this year and he is in my last bell, he flirts with me a LOT! but he flirst with some other girls in our class too
however im starting to get suspicious, this is why
-he have confinded in me a few times
-we had to write a paper and in his i was beautiful sarah? his ex girlfriend(at first he wanted to rape me in his story but then our teacher said it wasnt appropiate)
-i told him about my dream and how some guy asked me out and he asked if he was jelous in my dream
-in the hallway he came up and put his arm around me out of no where
-i had to dance at our football game and he had a track meet and couldnt come, but right before i was about to dance i saw him and he waved to me
-after at the game he came behind me and covered my eyes and was telling me i did really good
-he always gives me a hug whenever he can
-i was walking past his desk and he hugs me then pulls me across and onto his desk
now i think he likes me but im not positive
our homecoming dance is firday and for our school its really casul but i want to go with him
so who do i get him to ask me?
*sorry its so long but thank you if you do take the time to read it (link)
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okayy so i think he does because guys cant hide things very well . . . .. if you think he does then he probly does...
hope i hepled....
loveboys
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alrite so what happend was i went to school for the first day , and usually i hang out with my 3 besties, what happend was they seperated me and one of my friends and the other 2 [Which are twins] in another class so we wer all pissed about it, but what happend was they said that we wer able to switch to go to the twins classes, and they wanted us to be with them cause they had no fun all alone, the guy i like is in my class
we barely talk but we do sometimes i like him alot really so today i switched to the twins class..do you think that was the right thing to do?
cause friendhship always comes first,, and ilove my friends alot, but then i rlly like this kid, i feel kinda sad leaving my class but i know that hes still across the hall so ill see him and be able to say hey nd stuff, so dont you think i did the right thing?.. (link)
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i personnally think it was... and who cares because at lunch or break you can just go over and talk to him.... it doesn;t have to be in class
hope i helped
loveboys
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so me and my boyfrind have kissed befor but they are only like a second long...how do i get him to hold it longer so we can actually make out? (link)
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well just be relaxed and when you do kiss sorta hold him there and open your mouth, if you want to use the tongue do that too. open your mouth and slightly touch your tongue to his lips and if hes comfortable hell open his mouth to then just lightly touch tongues.... its that easy ... is that easy???
hope i helped
loveboys
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I am thirteen
I am a girl
so there is this EXTREMELY cute boy who is right next to me in the locker bay. I have a crush on him and i don't know, but I think he might like me too. I talk to him a lot on IM but when it comes to talking in person,
1. he is really shy
2. there is not much time to talk at school
3. Ibecome overwhelmed by his cuteness (yes he is that cute
so they are pretty short conversations. Also i think his friends make fun of him saying stuff like "ohhh you like her" when he talks to me which i am sure doesn't make it any easier for him.
what are some ways to make talking in person easier? (link)
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maybe start with sports or music then if your the kind of girl that can ask a guy out maybe say" hey do you wanna chill sometime" or somethin like that...hope i helped
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Sorry, I hate these questions too but please bear with me.
So this guy that I work with and I have been flirting for like the past 3 months. He’s one of those guys that flirts with pretty much every girl so I didn’t think much of it at first. But then it started to get a little more personal and I really started to have a crush on him.
However when I first met him, I had a boyfriend. Then a month ago he broke up with me. Like 2 weeks after we broke up I was talking to the guy I work with and he told me that he really likes me and that he wanted to start hanging out more and on a different level. And I told him that I liked him too but I wasn’t really over my ex so I wasn’t at a point where I wanted to start another relationship. We haven’t really talked about it since then, which was like 2 weeks ago.
But now, I’m definitely over my ex and I really want to try things out with this other guy. But I don’t really know how to let him know.
We’ve talked about it before so I guess I feel awkward or something because I don’t wanna be like “Oh yeah, I changed my mind I do want to go out with you.” haha I need a better way to bring it up.
So my question is, how would you start that conversation? Basically what I want to get across is that I like him a lot, I’m over my ex now, I want to give this new relationship a try, but also that I want to take things slow. (Just because I don’t want this to ruin our friendship)
Any ideas?
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you should start talking about school ar music ect. then when your comfortable tell him and maybe ask him to a movie
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when im texting the boy i like i alway run out of things to talk about. around him its like im always shy. the conversation consist of a "hey how are you" "good and you". "i miss you, i miss you too"
whats some better things to talk about. (link)
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you could talk about his day and your day
music
when your going to see eachother next
school or work
just what you think of naturealy
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I KNOW THIS MESSAGE IS LONG BUT PLEASE HELP ME :(
Hello i am 19 year old girl, i have a loving family and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years, he is my first ever boyfriend and my first in everything sex wise and relationship wise. ALOT has happened so i'll just tell you the simple version. The relationship started out fine in the beginning and then after about a year he started to get very argumentative and very angry later on that year he broke up with me and told me he slept with another girl and wore a condom BUT didnt cheat on me, and after a month he wanted to get back together, so i did, 3 months after we got back together i dragged out of him that he didnt in fact wear a condom so he lied to me, i undertook the correct precautions when he told me this and thankfully everything was fine with me and him so stayed with him despite the lie, 6 months later i then found out that he lied again when he said that he slept with the girl when we broke up he actually cheated on me, he acted very sorry and said the arguments would stop and things would change so i forgave him again.
Throughout all of this he has gained a very bad relationship with my mother and relatives, when we first got together my mum treated him extemley well but since the cheating he has been cocky and arrogant to my mother, when he was arguing at me again about a month a go, my mum got involved as she didnt like the way he was talking to me and he told her to 'shut her f***ing mouth.'
he refuses to take me out anywhere as he says he cant be bothered.
It has now been 6 months since these lies adn arguments and i feel now has been the final straw. my grandmother was ill and i told him that i could only see him for 3 hours, i told him this as his house he FLIPPED 'What the f*** you didnt tell me how dare you' i then said im leaving and he blocked the door i shouted and went into the living room, he blocked that door he wouldnt let me out i called my mother and he was in the background SHOUTING and SWEARING and he wouldnt let me out, he then said go on get out theres the door f*** off and DIE i went to leave and he blocked the door again saying it was a joke and he loves me. eventually his parents came home and said they would give me a lift home, he said 'its my f***ing car too im coming as well' he was swearing at me saying your a bitch you treat me like s*** you treat me like a dog no wonder you dont have any friends. now he is acting like nothing has happened saying i love you all the time and saying he wants to take me some place special for my birthday and give me my birthday presents.
i know i should leave him but this is all i know since i was 17 and im so scared to leave him, im going to university but i have no friends and scared of never being loved by anyone else and he'll be the only one who'll ever love me :(
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if he is cheating and lying to you leave him i garentee with in the first month of college one guy will be interested in you dont think youll die alone cuz YOU WONT!!!
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loveboys
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there is this guy at my school, and i like him, and he might like me cuz he smiles at me ALOT, but i dont know what to say on his birthday (9 days) and no, im not going to make the first move!! -any advice?? (link)
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i think you should casually go with your friends and talk to him. i have the same situation but the problem is that hes not even in my school. or on him bday go up to him and say happy birthday.
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So, I'm 17 years old and my girlfriend is 19. We've been dating for 6 months and she's in college in a different state. We've started this thing where I ask her one question every night until she comes home in two months.
I've asked alot of really good questions but I'm running out of ideas!
So if anyone has any ideas, that'd be great :)
thankyou!
ps, we're both girls. if that helps at all. (link)
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were you thinking about me at all today?
how was your day?
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Alright so I'm sure you've all heard the typical "i like this guy but i don't know if he likes me. what are the signs? should i tell him?" so I am not going to bore you to death with yet another story.
I will simply explain my situation. I really like this guy and I don't know if he likes me. I have gotten all the "he may like you cause of this" from my best friend. She told me that I shouldn't talk to him anymore, until he talks to me that is. Although this sounds like it could work because of the "guys want what they can't have" thoery but she was unable to explain to me for how long until I can contact him because we usually talk everyday. My question is simply, how long are you spposed to wait before initiating contact if they don't? This may be because he's used to me always doing it so this is why I am asking.
Thanks in advance =] (link)
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okayy so i have no tips but i think we could help each other... im a girl and i really like this guy and i want to know signs ,... my friend doesnt really care when i talk to her so maybe we could talk
message me
loveboys
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there's this new guy in my school
and practically every girl likes him
and recently we hung out and i really like him!
it's crazy. but idk if he likes me. he doesn't have a phone and i rarely see him in school. help me! (link)
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try to talk to him more in school and try to hang out with him and if your maybe getting the vibe that he likes you too then if you have the xourage go and ask him out
hope helped
loveboys
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PS i am a 13 year old girl
So at night I like to talk to my crush on IM. We only talk to like 10:30 on school nights, but my parents don't think i should be allowed to be on the computer at night, something about how my siblings weren't ever allowed to have the laptop in their room. They don't know that I am talking to my crush, who is moving at the end of the year; i NEED to talk to him. My grades aren't suffering, i still get up early every day, but they keep hinting that they wont let me talk on IM at night anymore. how do i deal with them??
katwashala (link)
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kayy so if you really need to talk to him then go on the computer at night ( as bad as that sounds ) or you could just talk to him at school... you might say its akward but i think im in the exact same siuation you should in box me haha.... any way just talk to him at school but if it gets akward always have things to talk about like sports, music ect.
message me we need to chat.. haha
loveboys
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