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cutie
I am thirteen
I am a girl
so there is this EXTREMELY cute boy who is right next to me in the locker bay. I have a crush on him and i don't know, but I think he might like me too. I talk to him a lot on IM but when it comes to talking in person,
1. he is really shy
2. there is not much time to talk at school
3. Ibecome overwhelmed by his cuteness (yes he is that cute
so they are pretty short conversations. Also i think his friends make fun of him saying stuff like "ohhh you like her" when he talks to me which i am sure doesn't make it any easier for him.
what are some ways to make talking in person easier?
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My best guess upon your situation is to just, get him away from his friends and speak to him. that way some of the pressure is off. also you can try to ask him to go do something with you and a bunch of friends and get to know him better and stuff like that. that will make talking to him easier and all that. for the cute factor i would try just to cut loose and try to push that in the back of your mind. if you even have to make a stupid subject to talk about do that will prepare you for further conversation with him and get you two more comfortable around each other.
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Yea i know how it is to feel awkward when tlking to someone especially you or they is shy.
Personally, im a pretty shy person too and certain people i just click with but others its hard for me to even keep the conversation going.
But since you like this guy and you really only talk on im,next time you see him just act like your talking on im minus the lol and omg. If you can find something to talk about over the internet, you can talk in person.
I can definetely see what your tlkaing about. Just last year, i met this guy in my us history a class and he ended up saying i was cute and eventually he started texting me. And basically the same situation was happening. We'd talk and everything through texting but as soon as we got to school it just became awkward and now im wishing i wouldve taken the time to just get to know him personally.
Anyway, find out what he likes to do, what kind of music he likes, or tv shows he watches. Just soemthing like that and just go from there. You might have to step out of your comfort zone at first but eventually it will just get better and it will be like talking to one of your friends.
When you read this, be sure to give me some feedback. thanks
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maybe start with sports or music then if your the kind of girl that can ask a guy out maybe say" hey do you wanna chill sometime" or somethin like that...hope i helped
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