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How do I let him know that this is what I want?
Sorry, I hate these questions too but please bear with me.
So this guy that I work with and I have been flirting for like the past 3 months. He’s one of those guys that flirts with pretty much every girl so I didn’t think much of it at first. But then it started to get a little more personal and I really started to have a crush on him.
However when I first met him, I had a boyfriend. Then a month ago he broke up with me. Like 2 weeks after we broke up I was talking to the guy I work with and he told me that he really likes me and that he wanted to start hanging out more and on a different level. And I told him that I liked him too but I wasn’t really over my ex so I wasn’t at a point where I wanted to start another relationship. We haven’t really talked about it since then, which was like 2 weeks ago.
But now, I’m definitely over my ex and I really want to try things out with this other guy. But I don’t really know how to let him know.
We’ve talked about it before so I guess I feel awkward or something because I don’t wanna be like “Oh yeah, I changed my mind I do want to go out with you.” haha I need a better way to bring it up.
So my question is, how would you start that conversation? Basically what I want to get across is that I like him a lot, I’m over my ex now, I want to give this new relationship a try, but also that I want to take things slow. (Just because I don’t want this to ruin our friendship)
Any ideas?
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you should start talking about school ar music ect. then when your comfortable tell him and maybe ask him to a movie
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Invite him out to the movies or something. Just start hanging out with him a lot after work and inbetween and wait for him to bring up your ex. If he doesn't [which would be shocking considering I know a lot of guys and you say you just wanna be friends and they don't take a hint] then just ask him out.
You seem pretty sure he likes you so =]
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Well firstly, just start talking to him like
you were doing in the first place. He probably will take it slow due to what you had said before. Just tell him how you feel after a while, just be like i really do like you.
Hopefully this will help,
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