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how long should i wait?


Question Posted Sunday September 21 2008, 11:14 am

Alright so I'm sure you've all heard the typical "i like this guy but i don't know if he likes me. what are the signs? should i tell him?" so I am not going to bore you to death with yet another story.

I will simply explain my situation. I really like this guy and I don't know if he likes me. I have gotten all the "he may like you cause of this" from my best friend. She told me that I shouldn't talk to him anymore, until he talks to me that is. Although this sounds like it could work because of the "guys want what they can't have" thoery but she was unable to explain to me for how long until I can contact him because we usually talk everyday. My question is simply, how long are you spposed to wait before initiating contact if they don't? This may be because he's used to me always doing it so this is why I am asking.

Thanks in advance =]


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Jami answered Monday September 22 2008, 12:26 am:
I'm sure that your friend meant well by telling you to wait because some guys like to be the one to take the lead. However, waiting too long isn't always best because the guy could just be shy with girls and want you to show him your interested. You would hate to see him being cosy with some other girl, so don't be afraid to talk to him one on one. See if you can invite him to do some things that are just meant for the two of you. If he agrees then you know he likes you. When a guy likes a girl he will stare at her a little. Not in a creepy way, but in the way that a guy admires a beautiful girl. He may also look for any reason to touch you or run his fingers through your hair. He will smile at you and he may even tease you about something minor just to make you blush. Be subtle about approaching him, but don't keep him in the dark about how you feel. I don't know how long you've known him, but it sounds like it's been long enough to let him know.

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loveboys answered Sunday September 21 2008, 4:09 pm:
okayy so i have no tips but i think we could help each other... im a girl and i really like this guy and i want to know signs ,... my friend doesnt really care when i talk to her so maybe we could talk
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