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there is this guy at my school..............
there is this guy at my school, and i like him, and he might like me cuz he smiles at me ALOT, but i dont know what to say on his birthday (9 days) and no, im not going to make the first move!! -any advice??
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Hey,
I would just be really casual about it. I would go up to him alone, to put the spotlight on you, and simply wish him a happy birthday, sure it seems like thats the generic thing to do, but if you go out of your way to do something or say something special, it will be making the first move, and thats not what you want right? so I would just go over to him and wish him a happy birthday, if it feels like the conversation could keep going ask him about his plans for the day or what he thinks hes getting/got for his birthday and tell him you hope he has a great day. it shows him that you're thinking about him and that you remember an important day in his life, and even though he'll get a million happy birthdays, if you actually go up to him and say when he can give you his undivided attention, it will mean something to him (and if it doesnt, thats because he's a boy :P)
Good luck, and no matter what at least say something to him, even if you do just shout happy birthday as he's walking out, if you don't say anything, it could totally send him the message that you don't care enough to remember. No worries though, you'll be fine.
Love ya!
-Angie
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i think you should casually go with your friends and talk to him. i have the same situation but the problem is that hes not even in my school. or on him bday go up to him and say happy birthday.
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I think you should make him a birthday card! Like, a hand made one, not a store bought one. This will show that you care about him, and are willing to take time to make him something special for his birthday =]
As far as "making the first move", why not?
Read this:
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Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?
-Laura (16-f)
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I think this will help you out! =]
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Plus, on my advice column, I have birthday gifts, if you'd like to get him something.
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