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my moms boyfriend seem to hate me.
i am starting to worry that my moms boy friend thinks that i am a bitch. i heard him one time curse at me. so i dont know why. i dont feel like i ever have to do anything to please him. he doesnt pay our rent or buy us food.
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don't worry. if anything he should be worried that YOU don't approve of him. after all you are your mothers child and i'm sure she'll value your opinion. in my opinion, he has NO RIGHT to curse or raise his tone at you. he is not your parent or guardian and has no obligations towards raising you. i believe you need to tell your mother that he's cursed at you, and i don't think she'll appreciate what he's done. just remember that you do NOT have to impress him in any way. it should be the other way around if he's trying to be with YOUR mother.
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Hi,
First of all don't ask him any questions before you talk to your mom. I'm sure she wouldn't appreciate him talking to her daughter like that.
I don't know how old you are, but I think you should let her handle it. It might be too much for you. Tell her exactly how you feel.
You are right. You are not responsible for pleasing him, only giving him respect because he is your mom's boyfriend. However, if he is not respecting you, that's another story. Respect is earned. Tell your mom. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
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