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used to be so close; please read. its long!!!
16/f Okay, well.. the beginning of this summer I dated a boy that I dated about a year ago. When we dated the first time, we kinda just broke up and never talked about it. So then Idk, I missed him. He was a perfect boyfriend. Seriously, I don't know why I was so stupid to let him go. But that's besides the point. When we dated at beginning of this summer, we were only talking for a few days before that so it didn't make the relationship work that well. Well we broke up, it was a very nice break-up & we stayed really close throughout the whole summer. I liked him so much, I might have even loved him, I don't know. But we told eachother everything. It was like we were best friends. Towards the end of the summer he didn't talk to me as much and when he did it wasn't how it used to be. It hurt. SO bad. The first day of school I found out he liked my OLD best friend, and I asked him and he said yes, ugh i was devastated. Then i found out they were dating, and it was more the fact that he talked shit about her for a while becase she wasn't exact;ly a good kid this summer. at all. dirnking, doing drugs, having sex with random people.. ALL THE TIME! he knew it to. she told me and him. anyways i was so mad at him. like i was flipping out at him, and him being who he is never lost his cool with me once, and was always nice. and idk. but then i asked him if he could bring me home one ngiht from a football game, he said yes so me and him were talking and he told me how his girlfriend desrespects him, is very demanding, doesn't appreciate what he does for her and he wanted to break up with her. i was happy, bc i realized how much i still cared for him. well then he decided h e didnt want to break up with her. i was so mad. but then ni found out they broke up. for good. and i wasa like WHOA., i texted him for the first time in a while and we talked and he told me he was sorry for not reaching out and talking to me and missed being ym friend and stuff and i told him i still liked him. thenn the next ngiht i asked him if i would ever have a chance with him again he goes i honestly dont know since i just got out of a relationship but possibly, its hard to tell. iw as like okay, better than a no. then he texted me in the mroning at sch ool and apparently his ex told him i told her that me and him were going to go out yet i enver said that to anyone cause he didnt say he would so why would i lie. then i found out she calls me the GROSS GIRL. yet i never did anything to her, and she tries to act like i did. but shes the one that took a guy i cared for more than anything from me, and cheated on him and everything, but apparently im the gross one. this is confusing know, i just need advice on waht to do. thanks ♥
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It sounds to me as if this guy you really cares about doesn't know what he wants. He has been hurt by a female that he fell for. As much as it hurts you maybe you need to be there for him as a friend. Listening to him rant on and on about this girl may hurt but it him being able to have someone to talk to may help him relize you care about you. You to may always just be friends but there is always a chance for more. i would stay friends if i was you at least for now. As for this girl lieing. its a jealousy problem. just ignore him and dont let her know that it bothers you because it will get worse trust me hunny. Good Luck!!!
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well its obvious this girl is jealous. She really liked this guy but wasnt ready for a relationship n now her way of getting over it is getting mad at you because she is jealous that you have more of a chance than she will now. ive been through this and believe me if u 2 really love eachother, you will end up back together. While this girl is being immature just stay on a higher level and be better than her. Dont stoop to her level n call her immature names. If she says something to you just ignore her or say oh thats mature. she'll get over it eventually. Shes just jealous right now. HOPE I HELPED!!!!
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