I Have had the same boyfriend for ggoing on 3 years now.we stay together and everyting but why do i feel so lonely.i just recently lost my job so i'm home alone all day.he's off to work at about 3 in the morning and he's home no later than 8 in the evening.when he come in i'm so excited but he comes in say a few thingss and then right back outbthe door to the store or something and then when he gets back he's outside talking to one of his friends for an hour or two and then when he comes in he's tired he ask me for his dinner he eats take a shower and get in bed..and then he hollars for me to come to get in bed so we can have sex and then he turns over and go to sleep..thats everyday we don't spend any time together..we just got rid of my car and for a long time it was only my car we had and now he have his car i'm really stuck inside he takes his keys to work but his co worker come to get him everyday..But when I had my car he had an extra set of keys...what is it? am i just over reacting? or is he trying to keep me inside and away form everybody..i'm already in another state away from my family and friends..is he doing thin purposely??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ediemarie answered Saturday October 18 2008, 11:24 am: Hi,
you probably feel a little insecure because you are out of work right now and you feel a little lost especially without your family. He is definitely not spending enough time with you or giving your feelings enough consideration. You have to tell him how you feel about this. A relationship takes two accountable people to make it work.
However, you can't count on him to make you fully happy or complete. You have to be complete by yourself.
I don't know what is up with him taking his car keys to work with him leaving you stranded like that. Don't put up with that. You need transportation for things like looking for a job, a emergency etc. anything could happen. I don't think you're overreacting at all. Don't assume that he knows how you feel. He may not. This is a problem. Sit down with him and tell him you don't like it and things have to change. Tell him you are not happy with the way things are going in your relationship. If he loves and cares about you, they will. I hope I helped.
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gateway01 answered Saturday October 18 2008, 5:05 am: I had a friend that did this to his girlfriend. I'll tell you what I told her "you can't stay in the house all day, its not healthy." In a relationship there is jelousy, but people sometimes over react and become scared. Confront him on this matter, let him know how you feel and that You need more attention. Because if you think about it a man joins a relationship to care for the woman, pamper her and spend every possible moment with her. I see my gf every time that I have time. Just let him know how you feel, he has to understand that you need a life too. Hope this helped o^-^o [ gateway01's advice column | Ask gateway01 A Question ]
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