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Question Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 12:23 pm

16/f

I just started dating this guy, and I can't hide him from my parents, soon they will find out.
But when they do meet them, im a little worried.
Im 16, and he's 19, which im used to dating older guys, but he will be 20 in late march. Im Caucasian and he's black, which i dont care about, it's just skin color. But i don't know how my parents will react, i don't think it will be a good one.
and i don't know what to do, or how im going to have them meet. I could say he's a senior in high school and he's 18.
But they could find out soon that he's not.

help?


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ItaSasuXNinja answered Saturday October 18 2008, 7:09 pm:
DO NOT LIE! That is a bad idea. If you even tell them a slight fib, they'll find out and you could get in big trouble. Just introduce them in a proper manner. If your parents don't like him, they must have a reason. Your boyfriend should respect your parents if he wants to stay with you too. I hope this helped. If not, I'm sorry. ^^; ♥

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russianspy1234 answered Saturday October 18 2008, 4:08 pm:
just tell them the truth, then mention you are safer dating a guy over 18, because if anything goes really wrong, you can get him sent to jail for sexually abusing a minor, which you cant do if you were dating someone under 18. then talk about how none of that matters anyway, because you trust him and know he wouldnt hurt you. do this before they meet him.

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dancedance42 answered Saturday October 18 2008, 2:53 pm:
You just have to be honest. If you lie about his age and they find out, they'll probably get a little mad. They'll ask you why you kept it from them and all that, it'll just get ugly. As long as you are honest, your parents will respect that. I'm sure he is a great guy and your parents will just have to get used to you dating...its only a 4 year difference.
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