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what do I do?
Ok so I like this guy and I think he might like me back.
Yesterday we were supposed to go to a party together but he couldn't make it.
Anyway, to cut a long story short I got really drunk and a guy took advantage of me. We didn't do anything past making out, because my friends saw and got angry at him. They had to go home early though.
When I sobered up though I pushed him away and was like 'WTF am I doing? Go away' heh it was amusing.
But, how do I tell the guy I like? I don't want to say 'yes I did make out with someone at the party but it was because a guy took advantage of me whilst drunk' because
A) I don't want him to kick his ass
B) I have mutual friends with the guy who took advantage of me, and if a huge drama started it could be awkward.
I have to tell him though. I can't lie, plus he has friends who went so I think he'll know anyway.
How do I tell him?
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Hun, he ain't your boyfriend... your acting like you cheated on him and you didn't. He shouldn't get mad, because you two are NOT official or anything. If he gets angry about it, then just tell him that you two aren't dating and you can go kiss any guy you like. You don't need to tell him anything... but I understand if you want to tell him... but its no big deal.
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You could take him somewhere where just the two of you are and tell him. Just make it clear that you don't want him to go and beat him up. Just don't say that it was all the guys fault that you guys were making out because then the guy you like would want to go and give him a piece of his mind. But you also don't want to put so much on you either. He might think your always like that. So you might want to think about what your going to say to him and how you are going to say it. But be more calm about it and make what you what to be made clear, clear. So good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
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