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I like 2 guys
16/f
ok so i like 2 guys but I've never really spoken to either of them because theyre a year above me in school. but both seem like they really do like me. so theyre's A and D. I always smile at A when i see him and he always smiles back. we never said anything to eachother yet. but he's really cute and for example yesterday we were standing infront of our classrooms which are close together and we kept smiling at eachother and then he kind of opened his mouth and it seemed like he was saying hi or something but it was quite far away.
then D is like the cutest guy ever. he's really shy around me and we've also never talked before but he's been kind of checking me out for a year now. and once when i cried really hard he saw me, looked at me all sad for a while and actually had to wipe away a tear from his eyes :[
AND he always says hello to my mom when he sees her. But hes really shy around ME though and its quite complicated. but ALSO yesterday after the whole thing with A he was walking by with his friends completely ignoring me at first, but once he walked by he turned around to look back at me and his smile was just soooo cutee. and i mean he did it infront of SO many people. i just dont know which one i should like and try to talk to yet. i dont think talking to both is a great idea because i dont talk to many boys in general which would make it seem weird, besides i already know what theyre like because we all go by the same bus so i hear them talk everyday.
but which one should i choose??? theyre quite similar: very good looking, both play guitar and all the girls like them but they dont seem to care lOl.
i know its hard for you to pick but can you kind of help me on how to realise which one i like more or something. thaaanks
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I think you should talk to both of them. Even if you aren't the kind of girl who will go out of your way to talk to boys. If you just pick one of those guys out randomly he could be like the worst guy ever and you wouldn't even be friends with the other guy. On the bonus side you could also have a chance of being friends with both. So I would say try talking to them and go from there. Good luck!
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Hey there,
I don't understand why you can't get to know both of them. Yea, it may be kinda weird and awkward but how else would you know who to choose if you don't find out which one you have more in common with. They may be okay with just being friends with you, or maybe they want to date you, but you can't just flip a coin with out even having one conversation with them.
The best way I can help you choose is if you tell me the way they talk to you and how they act around you. B/c honestly just looking and smiling doesn't signify a whole lot. You really should have a conversation, then you won't have to regret not getting to know them.
I hope I made some sense, good luck! and let me know how things work, just try to talk to them starting with small talk, such as hey hows your day going? or wow the weathers awesome, lame i know, but you get the idea. :)
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