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16/f
I have never been kissed before. I have been dating my boyfriend michael for a week now and he knows that i haven't kissed before. He told my friend he tried to kiss me twice and i just didn't notice. Then today after we hugged, i stood there waiting and he never did and he told my friend "I tried to but she won't do it!!" I mean, i stood there waiting but he never did. Is this my fault? I'm just not sure what to do. I mean, i want to kiss him but i'm not really sure how and i get scared at the last minute.
What do i do?
Is it my fault?
How?
Please help! My name is lauren. Thanks!
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No, you are not at fault. But make the move show him your not scared. After you hug him, place your hand on his cheek (some romantic thing) look him in the eyes a soft stare and lean in for the kiss... when you both start tilting your heads for the kill thats when you close your eyes. Good Luck!!
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OMG! im in the exact same situation except that ive been going out w/ my bf for a month and ive kissed someone beforee. but i sayyy that instead of waiting for him to kisss you like make little flirtatious likeee after hugging him like dont let go like put ur arms around his neck then like lookkk deeeeeply into eachothers eyess and then see if that gives him the hint that you want to be kissed and if he doesnt get the message (which im sure he willl by your info given) you go in for it.
OOORRR if you reallly dont feel comfortable kissing any one yet mention that to himm, say that you would rather take things slowly, its only been a week, and if he doesnt understand then he might not be the one for you if hes not going to listen to what your thoughts are.
just remember it takes two people to make a relationship work, you both have to make the effort.
i hope i helped! keepp me posted girll, gooodluucck!!
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Hey Laura, I think that maybe your friend is not telling you the truth or either he is nervous and wants to kiss you which is more likely since as m8s dont lie lol. WQhen you hug him, sort of when you let go, do it slowly and let your cheeks pass so then he might go 4 it. Its best if he does then you wont be embarrassed if you make the move and he rejects because he is nervous. hope this helps! =]
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I know your exact feelings.
If you want to kiss him, it will happen in the right moment.
Like I knew I didn't want my first kiss to be in school, so I waited for my boyfriend to come to my house one day and he was being picked up and we were just casually laying down and we were getting up and I got up first was my face was about 7 or 8 inches from his, and then when he got up, bam! it happened.
But you may feel differently, if you want to kiss him in school, you can try hugging him, but before you let go of him completely, get closer to his face and then (hopefully) he'll get the hint and go in for it.
Is it your fault? Absolutely not
Try it. You might just want to make the first move...and if you do, I think he might find that attractive because of your confidence.
Hope this helps !
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tell him that if he wants you to notice then he should give you better hints because you just dont notice. it is not your fault that you dont notice because if you stand there and wait for him to drop you a hint and you dont see it then its sort of his fault.
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