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Last Update: November 21, 2008
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I have a lisp like the one Stacey has from Zoey 101. How can I get rid of it because people laugh at me when I talk and I think i'm normal but people don't like me only because of how I talk. How do I get rid of it????????And if I can't will guys still want to go out with me no matter how I talk?Thanks. (link)
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If people laugh at you just think of them as low people and self centered. Some boys find lisps cute anyway so there is nothing to worry about.
If you do get t the point where you can't be bothered with it, just make a routine, that each night, or morning, you practice saying a different word but increase the difficulty of it and try to not say it with yor lisp.
It will make you unique but if you really don't like it, remember that it's a normal thing and you will realise that you're not the only one with it. Seriously, you just think that it's nothing different but it makes you say words diferently than some others.
As long as you don't think it's your fault that you have a lisp, you perfectly fine.
We're all different. X :)
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Okay, so a few days ago I was hanging out with my bff, one of my other really good friends and her bf, then a day later I was talking to my bff and she told me that she thought my friends bf liked me A LOT and that we were flirting bigtime, but I didn't even notice.and I guess my friend noticed it and was kinda getting mad...so were all hanging out again this weekend and I don't want her to get mad at me for me and her bf flirting...but the problem is I don't even notice when I'm flirting with a guy! Any helpp? (link)
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you could try not to go near him to much or talk to him. if they're holding hands just admire it and say you two are so cute. then your m8 cnt say anything about you. =] hope this helps x
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Ok well, I have a crush on this girl who is my friend. We don't talk a lot at school, but often do on Facebook. To me she is like so awesome. When I see her I get so frickin' scared or nervous. Anyways I don't know what to do. I wanna try to talk to her more but the chance never comes. We don't have any classes together either, but we do see each other in the hall way sometimes. We say hi sometimes, but now it sort of stopped now. Plus sometimes I don't think she likes me. She has this guy friend whom I'm assuming must be good friends with her. Sometimes they would sit next to each other on the bus after school and talk and stuff. Sometimes I hardly get a chance to grab a seat near her or something but she's always talking with friends and yeah. Anyways today I saw that she was leaning on his shoulder and stuff. Sometimes when I see that kind of stuff makes me sort of sad, confused, and hate myself for failing. But I'm not sure, could be that they are just best friends or maybe that I'm running out of time or I'm too late. I'm like so mixed up right now. She's just one of those casual girls, but to me she is like the greatest, she like became my true second friend and helped break out of my shell in highschool. I just don't know what to do I'm like love sick lol. Do you think I should send a message to her on Facebook about this situation except instead of saying it's me having the trouble I could pretend it's my friend and see what her response could be and maybe I could plan out my move? (link)
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awww. thats so sweet!. what i think you should do is when she next passes you by. stop and go up to her and say are you goin out with (that other guy she spends time with)if she says no then say just wondering no reason. but if she says yes, then say oh ok. then leave it and just act normal. but if she DOES say no then says y? say what i said before. then text her later on saying you looked pretty 2day or something. dont ask her out str8 away. hope this helps!? :)
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16/f
I have never been kissed before. I have been dating my boyfriend michael for a week now and he knows that i haven't kissed before. He told my friend he tried to kiss me twice and i just didn't notice. Then today after we hugged, i stood there waiting and he never did and he told my friend "I tried to but she won't do it!!" I mean, i stood there waiting but he never did. Is this my fault? I'm just not sure what to do. I mean, i want to kiss him but i'm not really sure how and i get scared at the last minute.
What do i do?
Is it my fault?
How?
Please help! My name is lauren. Thanks! (link)
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Hey Laura, I think that maybe your friend is not telling you the truth or either he is nervous and wants to kiss you which is more likely since as m8s dont lie lol. WQhen you hug him, sort of when you let go, do it slowly and let your cheeks pass so then he might go 4 it. Its best if he does then you wont be embarrassed if you make the move and he rejects because he is nervous. hope this helps! =]
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I was bullied at the age of eleven by my so called best friend, because she was jealous of what I had. This made me depressed from a very young age.
The weird thing is, I'm still friends with this girl now. She's changed, and after all she was only young when she did this to me.
However, the bullying still scars me. This girl and I are forever competing with each other for peoples attention and we argue often. We never talk about the past because it's over now, but I think we're both hurt inside.
What should I do? (link)
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I have been in this situation but it has gone over-board and we both havent spoken in a whole year and nearly a half. The best thing to do is keep being really friendly to her but not over the top, and obbsessed. I'm sure you wouln't anyway =]
Maybe you could say to her that you are sorry if you caused her any hurt feelings and would really like to move on and pretend this hasn't happened. I mean, we were youubg werent we!?
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on my myspace blog im trying to put a good background on but i cant find anygood ones at all does anyone know any good sites or where to find good backgrounds?
thanx in advance xx (link)
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staticlayouts.com
coolchaser.com
hot-lyts.com
lovemyflash.com (with this, you have t add myflash as a friend but the backgrounds are worth it :)
comment back please xx
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im baby sitting my sisters baby and she keeps crying ive fed her and changed her nappy wot else can i do? (link)
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hold her in your arms. maybe sing a little tune to her. slowly and rock her in your arms slowly. then she wil drift off into a little baby sleep :)
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hey there. so today i noticed that my right nipple is really sore and like when i touched it it was a little sensitive and it also was kind of hard like had a lump. im 16 and i also noticed that it was lactating a little bit. i would just like a reason why this is happen and an explanation to make me feel better . thanks. (link)
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take some pain killers if it gets worse, it is probably just hormones kicking in. it happens to loads of girls.
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We're 3 girls, we love creativity! We need something that we can go as a group, and possibly make our own outfits if we don't run out of time. But we're not limited to just making our outfits. We're willing to go out and buying them if it's a really unique idea. We don't wanna do anything like Charlie's Angels, etc. Something really creative, not many people have done!! (link)
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3 black cats. ? dunno lol. 2 witches, ugly one, intelligent one and a dumb one lol ;P hope this helps xx
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16/f
i'm normally an honest person but about recently i just got a new boyfriend. he's amazing and i could never wish for a better boyfriend. i want to keep him with me forever!! but i told him a lie and i regret doing it! and its a pretty big lie too. I told him that i finger myself but i really don't. I havent even worn a tampon yet! and i really really really really REALLY do not want to tell him that i don't finger myself because he will get mad that i lied and he told me that he really wants to finger me and if i tell him that i've never done it then it will all just crash and burn. we've been talking that when we are going to hang out again soon, that he wants to finger me but i'm not sure what to do. help!!! i don't know what to do! (link)
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say no and say that you dont want to do it. and you actually was being sarcy or something like tgat sorry :S hope this helps
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ohkay well i like this guy... and i THINK he likes me back, because he's teasing me that i like him!!!!!!! its soo annoying T.T
but i dont know, because hes the "class clown" soo, he might just be teasing me... AND he took my cool sharpener (its a baseball with a weight on the bottom so it spins) so i let him have it cuz, i like him LOL.
back to the question, so can anyone answer my question, if a guy teases me, does it nessecerily mean he likes me???? (link)
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i have had the same problem. Try telling him to stop teasing you and play it cool. Boys have strange minds lol, they think very differently. They will maybe insult you or tease you if they like you, but the thing is is it worth the teasing until he asks you out? maybe it is but what if he dont like like u? if you think h likes you back. go face to face with him, look, i need to say that i fancied you kinda, and i stil sorta do but because you keep teasing me, im changing my mind. and i dont care if you think i fancy you. it looks a bit obvy that your teasing me becuse you might like me. but if you dont then leave me alone (and smile) hope this helps LOL. bye x
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Okay I dont know what exactly to say about this but I'll try. I have this problem. Everyone makes fun of me becasue I sitll think about it all the time but its something hat has really gotten into my mind. Well... I am a music freak, and I love to sing, and everyone tells me that I can sing.. and everything.. but then the person whose opinion matters the most to me just recently told me that I cant sing and in all seriousness. I want him to think that I can sing.. that I can do just as well as any of his other "favorite people" that CAN sing! It tears me up that he thinks that I cant sing... All of my friends tell me that this person is just joking and that I'm good and all.. But I still dont believe them ever since this person told me that I cant sing... I feel so horrible over it.. like I dont even want to isng anymore.. what should I do? Much help needed... And please only serious answeres for this one. (link)
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Hello. I am a singer and i have singing lessons. A technique that my teacher told me was to to upside down reading. I swear this is no joke. And it worked for me. I felt my voice wasnt powerful enough, so wht she told me to do was bend over and dangle your arms on the ground, and sing upside down for about 30 seconds. this might help if you put a written song near your eyes so you can read it. (but put that upside down so you can read it when YOU'RE upside down. Remember to keep your back arched and flop everything keep your feet fairly close together but not too much this could strain your back. hope this helps xox =)
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ok ya*ll i love to sing and i hate singing in front of people and when itell people this they laugh and say get over it and i think i am a good singer but no1 will belive me if i cant sing out loud help me and please dont say gEt OvA It signed *RaIsE Ur VoIcE* (link)
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Hello. I have singing lessons and i get tought tachniques on how to fight your nervuosness.
Starting off singing is hard in front of someone. I do theatre and i had a solo whilst dancing and that was hard so what i did and i do infront of my m8s when they ask me to sing, i just look at something other than them and pretend im on my own somewhere where i usually sing and i dont get embarrased. leave a coment please xox and i hope this helps.
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what are some things to talk about when you're just getting to know a guy that you're attracted to? i dont want to be boring or have long awkward pauses (which always happens) so im kind of nervous (link)
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tell him about funny things that have happened. and dont laugh at them because i did that and he was about to kiss me and i was gobbin off so it was embarrasing lol. yer just be yourself
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so my meal plan is pretty much everyday a strawberry/banana shake with soy milk and a scrambled egg for breakfast, cabbage soup and brown rice & beans for lunch, and then usually for a snack i have a couple apples, and sometimes strawberries or blackberriers whichever i feel like. then for dinner i eat brown rice and grilled chicken, broccoli, carrots, and green beans. and then sometimes before i go to bed i have another apple. ive been feeling a lot healthier since ive started this about 3 weeks ago, and ive lost fat pretty quickly. first of all, is this a healthy meal plan? ive heard that your suppose to have more vegetables than fruit, so should i include more vegetables in my meals? or does anybody have any suggestions on what other type of natural whole foods i can maybe include or replace in any of my meals because ive sort of gotten bored with what ive been eating, because i eat the same things everyday. thanks (: (link)
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this is a great start for a healthy food lifestyle. the worst thing possible, is to snack on anything but fruit of veg.dont listen to rumors except for me :P lol
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Ok so im have a b-day party this saturday and i need some help. i have some movie ideas but i want some backup's. i want to watch scary movies and when i say scary i mean extremely scary i can never find a movie that is scary. the 8 horror films to die for are not scary at all and i just really want a good scary movie. so just give me whatever you can think of thanks for the help in advance (link)
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depending on how old you are must be an issue. but sixth sence and meet joe black xx
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what exactly is considered child abuse? me and my parents just got in a fight (mostly me and my mom because shes crazy) and she came running after me so i ran out of the house and she said not to come back in....is this abuse? by the way i live in a place where its like 20 degrees right now and i was in a tee shirt :( i dont wanna get taken away but i hate when this happens (link)
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ok this isnt really abuse. i get fights like this with my parents but the thing to do is say to ur mum, whats wrong. maybe your doing something that makes her upset? i dont no because i get accused all the time trust me! child abuse would be more physical but at the end of the day your mum will always love you she just might not like you sometimes. and stay out the house dont worry, just tell her that u deserved that and just let the anxiety go over your head.
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About six months ago, I went to this competition that a club of ours was having at school. There was a boy there, who I met from another state, and we decided that we were going to go out to dinner that night. He kept on begging for a kiss, but I really didn't want to give it to him. I was seeing someone at the time, however, this dinner wasn't exactly a date. It was the clubs who had gotten together. But, either way, he wanted me to kiss him, and i really did not want to. I thought that this is where the story would end. But, obviously, it did not stop there. We exchanged e-mails and kept writing back and forth to each other. I thought it was pretty cool, kind of like pen pals. Soon, the summer came, and I didn't hear so much from him, because he went to another country, etc. Anyway, my mother remembered his birthday. Don't ask me how, she just did. I could kill her! She told me she was going to send him a cake for his birthday. At first, I thought this was just a little cake saying happy birthday. I was like ok, because I didn't think that was a big deal and anyway, he lives alone in a boarding school, and I figured, he could use it to cheer up. But, my mother went a step beyond. Just a little too much! She ordered this custom-made rice-krispie cake with pictures of us from the competition. The loved it! From then on, he's assumed that I'm his girlfriend and has become really possessive. I can never tell him if another guy is calling me, or anything like that because he gets very angry. Well, thanks to my mother, again, we are going on a vacation with him this coming weekend. I don't mind the vacation so much, because God knows I really need it. But, I do not want to kiss this boy. My mother said that I better kiss him because he came all the way over here for a kiss, and she went through all this trouble, and paid so much money for the trip, and a kiss is not going to hurt. This having been said, let me just explain that I am madly in love with someone else and I don't want anything to stand in the way. I like this boy as a friend. I even think of him as my little brother, even though he's older than me. I can't see him like this. I can't kiss him! I can't kiss someone when my heart is in another place. It wouldn't be fair to me or to him, but I can't just tell him that at the beginning of the trip, because it is oing to ruin our vacation. He's been sending me texts saying "only __ more days till I can wetten my lips with yours." Yuck! I don't want to wetten my lips with anyone but the guy who I'm head over heals for, and that's just the way I am. There are people who can put up with just a peck if it's absolutely necessary, but I can't do it! I just can't! I need some help, please! I can't kiss him. He just turns me off so much. Sometimes, I see him on webcam, and he doesn't shave and I can't stand the thought of anybody who isn't the other guy to put their arms around me, or caress me. It really grosses me out, and I'd rather be alone than not be with the right person. I feel awful, but he's just not the right person. I just can't do this in a way that is mean, because we have already gone through all of this trouble, and he is so alone. Please help me! (link)
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if he wants to kiss you, say you have a cold and you dont want him to get it and then be like,, your sweet n that but i thought we were m8s. and the reason i dont weant to kiss you was because i actually thought you had a gf! like i had a boyf.so.. i think that there is someone else out there 4 you and its not me.if your mum says anything tell her that your just not interested in him and he is being a little bit TOO lovy dovey and besides! you have a boyfriend anyway lol. so hope this helps??!! xx
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16/F
just got the part of Sandy in Grease! But I really need help because this is my first major lead (other than Veruca in Willy Wonka even though that doesn't really count) and I'm really nervous! Does anyone have any tips and any suggestions for this part? (link)
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first of all, congrats on the part. Unlike me who got the part of Fagin (and im female) in Oliver Twist.play this part as well as you can. and just when your out on stage, give it your all and dont look straight at the audience. if you forget lines or whatever. dont worry just do a little sweet sigh or a cover up sub line. also, try and be a sweet voice watch greece on youtube and that and study all her characteristicss. hope this helps xx
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I have OCD and anxiety. I have thoughts racing through my mind concstintly (sp) And sense I have OCD i obsess about thoughts in my mind. what are some ways (without) medicing (because im already on some medicine and working with a doctor) that I can slow down these thoughts. (link)
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I have ocd too.
pretend your mind is a window
in the window, a cloud DRIFTS past
like a thought drifts past your mind
the window makes no obsesses and so therefore, the cloud dsrifts off and goes away
just like a thought would if you ignored it. and let it just drift away. its not you who is thinking that, its the ocd . and remember it might not be your personality but everyone gets ewwy thoughts sometimes xx
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