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Teasing me!!! sooo annoying
ohkay well i like this guy... and i THINK he likes me back, because he's teasing me that i like him!!!!!!! its soo annoying T.T
but i dont know, because hes the "class clown" soo, he might just be teasing me... AND he took my cool sharpener (its a baseball with a weight on the bottom so it spins) so i let him have it cuz, i like him LOL.
back to the question, so can anyone answer my question, if a guy teases me, does it nessecerily mean he likes me????
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Gonna give you my own personal experiance on this one. When I was in high school I got picked on ALL the time by many differant guys all at once. I always thought they did it to be mean, but years later I did find out that some did have an actual interest in me. It all depends on the guy, alot of class clowns will do anything to get attention. If this guy goes out of his way to seek you out and never leave you alone, he is investing alot of time into it but what for? Two answers for this one.
!. He really does like you but does not know how to go about it. Could be his friends might not approve or he is getting picked on about it himself.
2. He is doing it because of the feedback he gets out of your reactions. Maybe your a fun person to pick on. It could be a form of entertainment in a time of boredom.
But I leave this up to you to find out. You will have to flat out ask him. But even in doing this you may not get a truthful answer. You best bet would be to do this in private or over the phone with this guy. I would not do it with other people around.
Most guys in school will do anything to fit in, and peer pessure makes it even harder, when one person, or more than one persn does not think a girl is cool or pretty, they can be cruel. Not only to you directly but to the guy that may like you. I hope this helps a little, and I wish you the best of luck in finding out. However if you do get an answer out of him, let me know what he had to say:)
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i have had the same problem. Try telling him to stop teasing you and play it cool. Boys have strange minds lol, they think very differently. They will maybe insult you or tease you if they like you, but the thing is is it worth the teasing until he asks you out? maybe it is but what if he dont like like u? if you think h likes you back. go face to face with him, look, i need to say that i fancied you kinda, and i stil sorta do but because you keep teasing me, im changing my mind. and i dont care if you think i fancy you. it looks a bit obvy that your teasing me becuse you might like me. but if you dont then leave me alone (and smile) hope this helps LOL. bye x
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Teasing is a general rule for determining whether or not a guy likes you. The reason being is, for someone to take the time to find something they can tease you about alludes to the fact they've been paying to attention to you.
Of course there are exceptions to every rule, him being class clown does make it a little harder to tell, but i'd say it seems like he does. He's picking on you about liking him, which means he's thought about the idea. That's usually a good thing, unless one of your friends called you out and he's just playing on what he heard. Then he could just be being a jerk, so i'd check around and see what everyone else is talking about.
The best way to find out is to jok back the next time he teases you about like him.
corny example...
"You think I'm hot."
"Who could resist you";)
so if he does he'll get the proper encouragement from you, so he's not too afraid to make the first move.
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