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(sorry it’s so long but please help)

So I was dating the starting quarterback for my highschool football team and he had gotten a concussion a couple of weeks a go. He was diagnose with post concussion syndrom that made him depressed for a while. I told him that I will always be here for him if he needed me to be. And that I love him unconditionally. He said he loves me too and that no matter how it didn’t seem like it at the moment he did. A week later he breaks up with me saying that his concussion messed up his emotions so much that he can only see me as a friend now. I didn’t believe it because he seemed super happy after the break up. So I gave him a second chance to tell me the truth. I walked up to him and said I needed closure and just needed to hear the real reason why he broke up with me. He blamed the concussion again.

I left it alone for a couple of days then asked him when did he realize he didn’t want to be with me anymore. He said a couple of days after the concussion. He said that it just kept progressing because of the concussion. So I just left it as that. I thought I had gotten my closure he stayed with the same story and I felt I was ok with that.

Then one of my friends calls me the same day and tells me that he actually confessed that the concussion was just an excuse. He had just gotten bored of me. I really do appriciate the truth no matter how much it may hurt. I gave him 3 chances to tell me the truth and he hadn’t. that’s what bugs me the most and we had a really close relationship when we were together. He said he really wants to stay friends but why if he lied about the break up? I know there’s that possibility that he thought if he told the truth that we wouldn’t stay friends but he confessed to one of my closest friends so obviously it would have gotten back to me you know?

I just would like to hear what other people think about this. (link)
girl! wow! thats really messed up! no dnt become his friend! make him regret wat he did!


im in highskool and me and some of my friends were thinking bout starting a punk/rock band, but we're stumped about what to call our band, we're think bout something with only one or two words so it'll be easier to remember....
ne one have any ideas??? (link)
um! well how bout pr punk rock!


Okay so me and my boyfriend had sex over 2 weeks ago. We used a condom and everything and so i didn't really think anything of it. The condom didn't split as far as i know but now i'm really worried.

I'm probably over reacting but my period is now 3days late (i know that probably sounds silly) But i'm really worried and paranoid about it. The last 4 months have been precise and it's a bit strange that i'm not 'on' yet.

So yea.. ANY helpful advice really would be great - at least to help put my mind at rest a little more anyway!

Thanks a lot. x (link)
wow u might be pregnant! because when i had missed my preiod for more than a few days! i thought it was stress but it ended up being that i was pregnant! so you might want to go to a clinic a get a pregnancy test taken!




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