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friends bf?
Okay, so a few days ago I was hanging out with my bff, one of my other really good friends and her bf, then a day later I was talking to my bff and she told me that she thought my friends bf liked me A LOT and that we were flirting bigtime, but I didn't even notice.and I guess my friend noticed it and was kinda getting mad...so were all hanging out again this weekend and I don't want her to get mad at me for me and her bf flirting...but the problem is I don't even notice when I'm flirting with a guy! Any helpp?
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you could try not to go near him to much or talk to him. if they're holding hands just admire it and say you two are so cute. then your m8 cnt say anything about you. =] hope this helps x
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First things first-- talk to your friend. Tell her that you're sorry if you misunderstood your actions with her boyfriend. You didn't mean for it to look like flirting, you were only being friendly and interactive with him because obviously, you and him have built a genuine friendship with one another. And besides, it's better that you and him get along, as opposed to a situation where you and him completely dislike each other.
When you all hang out this weekend, base your decisions on what might hurt you if you were in her shoes. Touch-contact with him should begin and end with a friendly hug, and nothing further in between. Don't let it get awkward. Don't let this get in the way of being yourself, and having a great time.
Your friend should trust that you wouldn't intentionally try to flirt with her boyfriend. This needs to be addressed, so that it's not built into something worse, because I'm sure that you don't want your friendship with her to dissolve.
She must really mean something to you, considering that you're trying to acknowledge and fix what exactly is going on.
I wish you the best of luck.
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