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Emotion Commotion =(
Ok well, I have a crush on this girl who is my friend. We don't talk a lot at school, but often do on Facebook. To me she is like so awesome. When I see her I get so frickin' scared or nervous. Anyways I don't know what to do. I wanna try to talk to her more but the chance never comes. We don't have any classes together either, but we do see each other in the hall way sometimes. We say hi sometimes, but now it sort of stopped now. Plus sometimes I don't think she likes me. She has this guy friend whom I'm assuming must be good friends with her. Sometimes they would sit next to each other on the bus after school and talk and stuff. Sometimes I hardly get a chance to grab a seat near her or something but she's always talking with friends and yeah. Anyways today I saw that she was leaning on his shoulder and stuff. Sometimes when I see that kind of stuff makes me sort of sad, confused, and hate myself for failing. But I'm not sure, could be that they are just best friends or maybe that I'm running out of time or I'm too late. I'm like so mixed up right now. She's just one of those casual girls, but to me she is like the greatest, she like became my true second friend and helped break out of my shell in highschool. I just don't know what to do I'm like love sick lol. Do you think I should send a message to her on Facebook about this situation except instead of saying it's me having the trouble I could pretend it's my friend and see what her response could be and maybe I could plan out my move?
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awww. thats so sweet!. what i think you should do is when she next passes you by. stop and go up to her and say are you goin out with (that other guy she spends time with)if she says no then say just wondering no reason. but if she says yes, then say oh ok. then leave it and just act normal. but if she DOES say no then says y? say what i said before. then text her later on saying you looked pretty 2day or something. dont ask her out str8 away. hope this helps!? :)
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First things first, do NOT message her on facebook about your "friend's" problem. It's tacky and impersonal.
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You says you talk alot on facebook and less at school then maybe you should confront her one day at school and just say hi, initiate one of your
"facebook chats" but in person. After a while if you start to talk more in person then you know the friendhip is genuine. If you must know now, message her on facebook like any other time. Although it would be better if you did it in person but to continue with what you've been doing for a while, in this situation facebooking is alright. Make sure it's personal and not hypothetical. Tell her it IS you, and not a friend. LEt it sit for a few days and then get back to her,in PERSON.
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Hope this is what you were looking for =]
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