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15/F

I dont have bad acne just REALLY bad blackheads on my chin and nose ; Im using differin and its making these bumbs like all over my chin . And its making my skin peel. If anyone has used this product can you tell me what I should do ; should I continue using it ? Or find another product ? And if it works how long does it take till me blackheads are gone ?



And also ; I read about this blackhead treatment ProNexin if anyone has used this let me know what kind of results you got from this productt.

Thanksss. (link)
16/f
wellll the first thing i would do is go to a dermatologist because they can ususally prescribe something for acne and if you dnt feel like doing that i use the blackhead eliminating daily scrub by neutrogena pretty much every day and it does a pretty good job of getting rid of the black heads and works as a great cleanser to but i would deffinitely go to the doctor because ive gotten some really great products from it and they work really well whereas when you buy the acne products you see on television ads they dont always tend to work because they might not be right for your skin type, hope i helped!


so i love those kind of shirts that are like fitted around the waist and get a little looser towards the top, and then have the loose, flowy short sleeves. does anyone know what im talking about? i dont really know how else to describe it. anyone know of a specific store [not online] that sells them? and please dont say abercrombie hollister blah blah because they dont have them and if they did they'd probably be forty bucks! thanks. (link)
i would try charlotte russe, forever 21, target, macy's, or maybe mandee. ive seen them there before:)

i got mine at target it was just plain teal and they had alot of different colors, and i always see them in charlotte russe.


alright im 18/f. im about 5'6"
i weigh around 115 lbs. i don't think im fat, AT ALL. when i wear jeans, i have this sort of fat on the inner part of my legs which does bug me and also when i'm wearing jeans i just feel more fat, like my stomach is bulging over my jeans. i don't know why i feel like this! when my stomach is flat? and my arms are so scrawny. i don't have weights at my house, and i don't have money for a membership so is there anything i could do at home for excercising? also i have a flat stomach but i wish i could have at least like a little 4 pack or SOMETHING! i do about 50-75 crunches at night, i TRY to do it every night but i don't see any results. and lastly i have a smaller butt, it's not completely fat but what are some exercises i could do to tigthen it up, possibly make it a little bigger looking. sometime's i'll do like wall sits, or i'll bend my knees and put my arms straight out as i go up and down but i feel like this is not working? well thanks, sorry so many questions but i don't know much about working out! (link)
running is the best way to loose body fat.
i suggest running a little bit everyday, then the next week, running a little further. and so on.

15f hope i helped!


I know when you're having your period, you retain water. I weighed myself and i weighed about 4lbs more than i usually do, but i havent been eating unhealthy or anything, so i'm pretty sure i haven't gained weight. Is this normal? Girls, do you find that that when you get your period you weigh a few lbs more? And how long do you retain water for? Throughout the whole period, or just at the beginning?

Thanks. (link)
yeaah its totally normal to gain weight when your on your period. it might be that your boobs are growing too.


16/f
I have never been kissed before. I have been dating my boyfriend michael for a week now and he knows that i haven't kissed before. He told my friend he tried to kiss me twice and i just didn't notice. Then today after we hugged, i stood there waiting and he never did and he told my friend "I tried to but she won't do it!!" I mean, i stood there waiting but he never did. Is this my fault? I'm just not sure what to do. I mean, i want to kiss him but i'm not really sure how and i get scared at the last minute.
What do i do?
Is it my fault?
How?
Please help! My name is lauren. Thanks! (link)
15f
OMG! im in the exact same situation except that ive been going out w/ my bf for a month and ive kissed someone beforee. but i sayyy that instead of waiting for him to kisss you like make little flirtatious likeee after hugging him like dont let go like put ur arms around his neck then like lookkk deeeeeply into eachothers eyess and then see if that gives him the hint that you want to be kissed and if he doesnt get the message (which im sure he willl by your info given) you go in for it.
OOORRR if you reallly dont feel comfortable kissing any one yet mention that to himm, say that you would rather take things slowly, its only been a week, and if he doesnt understand then he might not be the one for you if hes not going to listen to what your thoughts are.
just remember it takes two people to make a relationship work, you both have to make the effort.
i hope i helped! keepp me posted girll, gooodluucck!!


okay well i started to see this guy at school called kris who said always like i really like you + he asked me out alot but i kept saying no bcos i liked someone else at the time. but bcos he kept asking me out i said we shouldnt talk nemore. so i stopped calling him but he kept calling me every night + i didn`t answer, i just ignored him. 2 mnths later he called me and asked me out again. i ignored him again. so yea i pretty much ignored him alot ha ha but then months later i felt bad for what i did so i imed him and he ignored me. dya think hes pissed at me for ignoring him every time so he is ignoring me ????or mayb do you think he didn`t like me to start with bcos now i dnt think he liked me much @ all ??? help !! i`m 15/f. (link)
i agree w/ the other person.
if you dont really even like the guy, and dont want to be friends, than i wouldnt go through w/ it. but if you want to be friends (or maybe you even realized that you do like him, and just didnt know it at the time[thats happend to me before and now were going out])i would say you i/m him or watever and appologize because who as annoying as he may seem hes probably not a bad person. and if he asks you out again i would just be like "i know you like me and everything but your just not my type (or watever) and i feel bad for leading you on like this"
iddkk if that made anysense at all, but i hope i helppedd! srryy that this is so longgg.


im 17 years old, female, VIRGIN

this might sound gross, but i need to know the facts!

so i have some (kind of alot) of hair in-between my butt and well of course my vagina. i know that everyone usually has hair but i use to shave this hair and within a couple days i would get these white/hard bumps and i think they are like pimples and they hurt REALLY bad!! so i stopped shaving in-between my butt and occassionally my vagina. i dont get the bumps on the front of my vagina its like in my vagina, by the flaps area and in my butt. the thing is when i am ready to have sex or be physical with someone i want to be completely shaven but i dread the thought of shaving these places because i get these hard pimple-like things. they're not that big, maybe like the size of a skittle haha or smaller. i try to like squeeze them or something and sometimes something comes out, sometimes not and they dont always go away right away. they dont hurt when i dont touch them but when i try to get something out of it, of course it's going to hurt. any idea what these are, why i get them or the cause of them? does anyone else have this happen to them!?

well thank you [: (link)
im sorrry i cant help much w/ figuring out what it iss but another option instead of shaving is getting a wax. or use the bikini zone stufff, that works reallyy good after you shave.

hope i helped!:)


Ok, so I need 300 dollars. I don't need the money RIGHT NOW but I would prefer to have it by the end of the summer? I do not have a paypal account and I'm too young to get a job. Does anyone know of some good online sites where 14 year olds can make money? Something guaranteed and 100% free? Thank you very much for your time.

**I have already tried cash crate**

:) (link)
promote at a nightclub. you get money for each person that shows up on your list :]]]


So there's a song in the Tresemme commercial that goes:
What if I told you
Would you believe me
I was the only one not playing your games

I tried googling it and found nothing. (link)
you could try going on letssingit.com
and type in the lyrics and see what comes up, i would do it but idk the rest of the song, or even the one your talking about.
hope i helped, sorry if i didnt! :D


16/f

this guy.
we talk like every night on the phone
the most weve talked was from 10 pm to 4 am or so
this is how it goes.
weve never told each other that we like each other
well
he gave me a poem that said he loved me
i never really responded to that.
is that bad? =\

i tell him that this bitchy girl wanting to hook up with him makes me really mad and jealous.
he stopped talking to her.

he always makes me feel better

and then at our dance we danced every slow song and every fast song together. and during one slow song he made a joke about this girl and i let go of him but he pulled me into him and i like melted. and i was like oh you have no idea how many stories i could tell you about that and he said if theyre not about you i dont want to hear them


hes great, but hes a male. (no offense boys)
i want to know if hes playing me
because it seems way to good to be true that hed like me
im not exactly the hottest girl ever
but he tells me that im attractive and that he likes to talk to me

does he like me or not??
whats a casual way of finding out without flat asking?>

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well it seems like youve got it going pretty good for you, i looks like he likes you. maybe you guys could like hang out or go to a scary movie and see if he;ll like make a move or hold your hand while your sitting therre screAamingg:] maybe if you tell him that you like him just bee like look, im kind of confused with what we have going on here and i just want to know your feelings are cause its really bothering me.
or you could always play 21 questions to find out his past and stuff, if you dont already know it.

i cant think of anything else but i hope i helped and i hope everything works out with you guys, you sound really cute together.


I recently got a job at a grocery store. I need shoes. The shirt is blue, and then we wear black pants or khaki. Any ideas? It can't be clogs or high heals, and it must be white or brown. I'm a sixteen year old girl, by the way. Pictures would be great, as well as where I could get them. Thanks :) (link)
i absolutely looveed my k-swiss and my nike air force ones.
they are sooo comfortable. you could always try converse too, i know they come in white and brown. hope i helped:]]


i am really interested in interior designing, and i'm always looking for new ways to make my room awesome cause i spend so much time in it. so, i love looking at pictures teen bedrooms online.

i've drained google images of teen bedrooms, couldn't find anything much on webshots, and well... i just need some inspiration.

YES. I TRIED GOOGLING "TEEN BEDROOM IDEAS" and such, but does anyone know of any awesome sites / pics of cool teen (or regular!) bedrooms? (link)
pb teen [pottery barn teen, just incase you didnt know] always has the best teen rooms. the stuff is quite expensive but its all really cute. they have a magazine and a website.
hope i helped :]
14;f


Hey. I'm 14/f. I'm not sure how much I weigh or my exact height but I'd say I'm about 5'1 and I'm about 97 - 100 pounds. I used to have a lot of muscle when I did cheerleading. Alot of that muscle has faded, but I'm not dissapointed about it, because I don't like having a lot of muscle, I feel like I look like a boy.

My question is, is there anything I can do to get rid of the flab I have on my arms and legs and stomach? I need simple exercises, becuase I have no gym acess, and it's really too cold to go outside. I know doing crunches is good for my stomach, but what about my legs? It's not like I can run anywhere..
And I have no idea what to do for my arms..

Any ideas? Thanks so much in advance. (link)
well in my gym class we do leg lifts adn things that work our legs during warm up. we lay down sideways on the floor and lift our legs up and down. you would lay down on your side and lift the leg thats not on the ground. do that like 15 times on each side. then you could also do ones like that where you cross one leg over the other[ still in that side laying down position ]then cross the leg thats not on the ground over the other one, and lift the leg thats close to the floor a little bit. do that like fifteen times, on each side. you can also try wall sits. where you lean against the walland make ur whole body a right angle. _| that should be how your pelvic area should look and ur legs and knees should be like this.. |'' i hope i helped. :] 14/f


I'm a ballerina, and my dance studio doesn't let you wear anything over your leotards (shorts, chiffon skirts, etc. NOTHING). Whenever I wear a tampon (i use playtex sport) with my tights/leotard it leaks onto the tights and you can see the blood around my inner thighs. It's embarassing. I can't wear a pad though because I can't wear underwear with my tights.

What can I do about this?

any advice will help. (link)
you can buy thongs, then get the thong pantie-liner to mix with it all, no one will ever notice. =]hope i helped


okay its summer, and ive never really like kissed someone. So can someone tell me like how

and how to makeout
? (link)
ive only done it once, but ive searched up stuff for it and it said that you could write your name in script, or tounge wrestle with them. iknow its not much but i hope i helped.


14/f

so my crush and i already know that we like eachother..and so today he called me at like 8 in the morning. but i didn't mind. the problem is, he's like sooooo quiet on the phone. i was shy, but I was the one to keep the conversation going...so i wasn't trying to be rude, and i asked him,"are you shy?" and he was like NO. of course not. and my friend thinks he's shy BUT I DOUBT THIS SO MUCH. he's not the type to be shy. so what do i do?? and is he really shy?? (link)
if he is shy then i think you should bring him out of his shell. he might just said that hes not shy cause hes trying to impress you but go ahead, make your move on him if you like himm, and he likes you. =]


ok so in 3rd grade i had a crush on this boy. he was the first boy i ever liked. in 4th grade i found out he liked me too. in 5th grade he asked me out, and we've been going out ever since (over two years - we're going into 8th grade). so basically hes been like a major part of my life for 5 years, and we're like best friends and bf/gf at the same time. i love him more than anything! he really loves me too and he says he hopes we can be together forever.

well we both know that we're probably gonna break up at some point. we've even talked about it, that if we ever break up and go out with other people, maybe we can get back together when we're older and get married and stuff. well who knows if that would happen. you cant tell the future. but right now i just get so scared when i think about us breaking up. being without him would be like having part of my body cut off. i know in my head that i would get over it, but its so scary to think about being without him. its like before you have an big operation, you know that it will eventually heal, but its still scary to think about how much its gonna hurt.

i dont know... i guess im just hoping someone can tell me something that will make me not worry about it, or help me handle it when it happens. :( (link)
the person who answered first totally just stole what i was gonna sayy, but anway.. dont worry about it just have funn, you guys already made it through three years you can end up being middle school sweethearts=] and get married and stuff. even if you guys do break up theres GREAT chance that he wont be able to live with out youu. so dont even worry about it and if he was gonna break up with you he prob would have done it alreadyy. good luck, i hope i helpedd=]


HELP!!!! i think im becoming anorexic cauz im about 5ft 5" and only 130lbs and when i look in the mirror i instantly think im fat, and people tell me im not! but i havnt gone completely anorexic cauz i still eat one or two meals a day, so my parents wont suspect ne thing, but ive lost 10lbs in... well a little over a month, and i still think im fat! what should i do?! (link)
i am 5ft 7 inches and 132 pounds, you are not fat, you might weigh what you weigh because its muscle, muscle weighs more than fat. it sounds like you are a good size and a good weight for your height. if you are truly upset with your weight do not stop eating, trying working out more like running on the tread mill and stuff [trust me if i didnt run, i would be so over weight with the amount of junk food i eat] just remeber people will never love you for how you look its your personality that counts=]


what happens if you break the rules about oujia board.
- dont ask about god.
- dont ask when your going to die.
- dont ask where gold is burried.
- dont ask if it's good or bad.

i asked 3 of those 4.. whats gonna happen? (link)
nothing is going to happen, youll be fine=]
some one always moves the thing anyways.


well my school's having a bbq for all the graduates/ seniors. it's going to be a lot of fun , a dj, games and all of that. my question is....what do i wear?!?

i was thinking of scrunching my hair, but i have no idea what to wear, it's going to be around 80 degrees tomorrow.

help pleasse =] (link)
i say a denim skirt and a cute tank or somthing




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