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on the phone.
14/f
so my crush and i already know that we like eachother..and so today he called me at like 8 in the morning. but i didn't mind. the problem is, he's like sooooo quiet on the phone. i was shy, but I was the one to keep the conversation going...so i wasn't trying to be rude, and i asked him,"are you shy?" and he was like NO. of course not. and my friend thinks he's shy BUT I DOUBT THIS SO MUCH. he's not the type to be shy. so what do i do?? and is he really shy??
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most guys come across as shy when they're talking to girls.
If he's your age, chances are he's never had any experiences with the opposite sex.
But he'll probably come out of his shell after you two have been seeing each other for a while.
i hope i helped.
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Some guys are just a lot more quiet than usual on the phone. My theory is that it's a guy thing as they aren't always talking to each other on the phone as girls often do. It doesn't mean that he's shy. It could be he likes you so he is shyer, or that he is on the phone when his family is around, I don't know for sure.
As for what you do: be courteous, keep conversations going and just talk to the guy as you normally would a friend of yours. If it does bug you that he is this phoneshy, the internet is a wonderful place and there are many other ways to have conversation. Emails may work because he would have more time to think of what to say. In general, be glad that he is calling you as this can be awkward for some guys.
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if he is shy then i think you should bring him out of his shell. he might just said that hes not shy cause hes trying to impress you but go ahead, make your move on him if you like himm, and he likes you. =]
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