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How can i handle losing him?
ok so in 3rd grade i had a crush on this boy. he was the first boy i ever liked. in 4th grade i found out he liked me too. in 5th grade he asked me out, and we've been going out ever since (over two years - we're going into 8th grade). so basically hes been like a major part of my life for 5 years, and we're like best friends and bf/gf at the same time. i love him more than anything! he really loves me too and he says he hopes we can be together forever.
well we both know that we're probably gonna break up at some point. we've even talked about it, that if we ever break up and go out with other people, maybe we can get back together when we're older and get married and stuff. well who knows if that would happen. you cant tell the future. but right now i just get so scared when i think about us breaking up. being without him would be like having part of my body cut off. i know in my head that i would get over it, but its so scary to think about being without him. its like before you have an big operation, you know that it will eventually heal, but its still scary to think about how much its gonna hurt.
i dont know... i guess im just hoping someone can tell me something that will make me not worry about it, or help me handle it when it happens. :(
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the person who answered first totally just stole what i was gonna sayy, but anway.. dont worry about it just have funn, you guys already made it through three years you can end up being middle school sweethearts=] and get married and stuff. even if you guys do break up theres GREAT chance that he wont be able to live with out youu. so dont even worry about it and if he was gonna break up with you he prob would have done it alreadyy. good luck, i hope i helpedd=]
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First, I would like to say that it is great you guys have been going out for that long. And yes, 3years! Why would he want to break up now? If you can go for three years, you can go for as long as you want. You guys have what every girl wants :-). I think it is soooo great. Even if you do break up (hey maybe you wont! maybe youll last into your 50s?). For now, dont even worry about it. Enjoy being with him! Enjoy every second of the happiness you share together and dont worry about the future. WORRY ABOUT THE PRESENT. good luck!
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if he has been in your life this long, what makes you think he's going to leave now. like you said, you can't tell the future, so there's nothing saying you're going to break up. you're young. don't worry about the negative things that are going to happen, just live in the moment and have fun.
to answer the other part, if it does happen, which it doesn't sound like it will, but just incase, be sure to have good friends and a whole hell of a lot of chocolate and any other junk food. you'll feel better the next day.
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stop worrying! you have nothing to worry about, nothings even happened yet, and who knows, you guys might not ever even break up. i know what its like to be scared of that sort of thing, but think about it- you're not gonna die. and like you said, you know too that you'll get over it eventually... but seriously, don't worry about it until/if it comes ♥ and calm down hun lol it's really okay
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