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Losing muscle


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 10:15 am

Hello, I'm starting to work out not because I think I'm fat, but because I would like to stay in shape.

Anyway I have extremely muscular legs, especially my calves. Since they are muscular it makes my legs look fat.

Is there anything that I can do to lose some muscle in my legs and not make them that bulky?

Thank you for any help.

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Family Guy


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 9:18 am

Last night i missed family guy and i was wondering if you are a big FAmily guy fan if you could tell me it was about?

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Can't get over losing best friend


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 5:08 am

First of all I'll give a little background. I met my friend almost 10 years ago, we were both teenagers at the time and instantly clicked for some reason. We had little inside jokes and shared everything. I felt like she was the sister I never had. We talked about dating and as we grew older we discussed our marriages. She had a baby boy while I went through infertility and a miscarriage. That put a strain on our friendship because I was jealous and she didn't understand why i found it hard to be around her baby. We didn't speak for about 6 months and I finally wrote her a letter of apology. Then she moved away, we kept in contact and after a year she moved back and everything was just like it was before. By the way we were each other's mai...

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Do You Think I'm Fat?


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 2:55 am

My friend, Austin, used to be overweight and lost a bunch of weight two summers ago. I lost a lot of weight too but not as much as her.
The thing that bothers me is that she calls everyone fat, if someone has an inch of flab -anywhere-, she'll call them a cow. Especially is she's mad at them.
She also thinks that anyone who is overweight is disgusting and lazy. She won't even consider -looking- at a guy who is a pound overweight.
She's not exactly skinny. She worries about her "gut" which is like a pound of flesh on her tummy (it's tiny) and I'm not fat but I'm bigger than some of the girls she makes fun of. I am more understanding though and I wouldn't secretly pick on people because of their weight.
A...

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help need advice


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 2:51 am

K i have a quick ? for my friend, we live in the state of ct, and shes 17 years old, she wants to date a 20 year old guy, but the guy said its ilegal. Is this true? cause i told her from what I read myself , it is not ilegal as of now in the state of ct a 16 year old , and older is legal in the state of ct to date / have sexual contact with a man over the age of 18, but its 2006 all the laws i see are 2005 and older is this still true? thanks for any input my friend would really appreciate it, because i dont kno if the rules have changed i dont kno where to look

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Vomit


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 2:43 am

So since yesterday, I have been throwing up food. It isn't actually throw up. It's more like my stomach expelled whatever it is I ate in small amounts.
Yesterday, I had a Cosmopolitan and I started throwing that up in my mouth. It was just like saliva came up, anyhow I just swallowed it back down because it was only a few drops.
Today, I drank hot chocolate and while I was drinking, it came up again. This time I took it into my mouth and it had small pieces of food mixed in with it.
This doesn't feel -quite- as disgusting as the throwing-up-in-my-mouth but it's not normal. Does anyone have any idea about what's causing this, if it's serious and what can I do to make it go away?

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Hair Colour


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 2:41 am

I am East India so my hair is very very dark. A few months ago, I streaked it copper. I want to try to temporarily change my hair colour (I'm partial to reds) but I'm not sure if it will show. I used a red Colourpulse last time but it tinted my -highlights- redder (just by a bit, though) and I want a more dramatic colour.
Usually, at the side of temporary colour boxes, there is a sample of before/after hair and the darkest shade sampled is "dark brown" which isn't really dark brown, it's more light brown if anything.
Is there a shade in Colourpulse, Colourflirt, or any other dye that washed out in 8-12 shampoos that I can use? Is there any technique that will make the shade deeper?

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Backwards Dance.


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 1:34 am

At my school, we have this dance where the girls ask the guys (hence the backwards part). I have a few guy friends that I'm thinking of asking, but I don't know how to ask them. Girls, if you could share how you asked a guy out (or to a dance), and guys, if you could share how you'd like to be asked, that would be great. Also, none of these guys are romantically involved with me in any way. Also, if you can think of cute ways to do my hair or other dance tips/tricks (i've never been to a dance, really.) then I'd really appreciate it. Thank you so much, and I look forward to hearing back from you soon. :)

Oh, and also, should I ask a freshman (I'm a freshman) or an upperclassman?

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Im confused.


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 1:28 am

There's this girl that I dated almost before kind of. She really likes me but I dont like her. I really like this other girl. Im not sure if she likes me though. I keep thinking about her though. Yet this all is confusing but I told both of them that I was gay. Which I thought I was for along time.Yet now I think that I really like the girl. I dont know even know what to say to either of them. What do you think I should say to both of them? I really need some advice.

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coping


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 12:01 am

As all great stories begin, mine starts the same way... There's this girl. Well anyway there's this girl I work with that I like but I know I can't have. She's really beautiful and cool, so I'm not suprised that she has a great bf that she absolutely loves. They live together and all, so I know I have pretty much zero chance with her. I guess I just like her most b/c she's cool. I guess my question is not "How can I be a homewrecker or How can I be a knight in shining armor?" It's more like "What can I do to get her out of my head?" I know she likes the other guy and all that shit. She likes me and everything, but only as a friend. Don't you hate that phrase? Oh well, I don't care if this doesn't get put up or answered i...

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Dry Skin on Face


Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 11:55 pm

During winter, my face gets a little bit of dry skin on my forehead and near my eyebrows. Is there any way to deal with this without making my skin oily? Thx <3

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MY BEST FRIEND!


Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 11:39 pm

OKay Im 13 female.. and my best friend is .. 12 male .. im serious he iS MY BEST FRIEND!
Well i accused my best friend of someting and ive been totally killing him and he just looks at me an f rowns.. and i cussed him out.. then i found out he didnt tell my secret.. someone else did.. and he told me wen i accused him HE WUD NEVER TELL anything about his BEST FRIEND and he said he loved me.. what do i do to apollogize.. and he tried to kiss me on the cheek and hug me.. and i turned around ! WUT DO I DO!!?!/
I WILL RATE 5!!

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hair products? skin treatment? hellp??


Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 11:34 pm

yeaa my skin is freaking out on me. what's the best cleanser / treatment for acne.

and what's the best frizz fighter i can get that won't grease my roots like crazy?

i'm trying to stick to an under $20 budget per item here's but if you swear by it, i'll pay more.

5stars for any answer-- desperate.

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Does anybody have the cure for shyness?


Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 11:04 pm

There is this guy that I really like, and I think he may like me too, but my shyness is holding me back. I don't have any classes with him, so it's hard to just start up a casual conversation without sounding stupid. And none of my friends are his friends, so it isn't like I could casually join into a conversation. I wrote him a note once, but I didn't even have the guts to hand it to him myself, so I had my friend do it. I think Nick would like me more if I could show him that I'm not afraid to talk to him. I'm not really "afraid" of talking to him. I guess i'm just very nervous of what might happen because of it. (Like me sounding like a total dork) Any tips or anything...? lol, thanks!

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My friend is crazy


Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 10:42 pm

I am 13 and a girl who's bestfriend in danger. This is how it goes. Well before my friend and I went into this big show thing called "CaSPA". It's when all these different school's from one surburb do one big show together. Then my friend saw this boy and "Fell in love" with him. She became obsessed with him and got a hold of his email address(or so she clams). She's been talking to him on msn and wants to skip school just to meet him. Not only does he leave way far away but how do you know if it really is his email address? It could be some desperate nerd who's 45 and still living with there mother who works at a video store and thinks there a wizard or a cereal killer. I mean it's the internet it's got it's reputation ...

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contacts


Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 10:39 pm

How can you tell if one of your contacts is torn? As soon as possible would be appreciated. Thanks!

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Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 10:30 pm

ok so all my friends say i never eat because im anerxioc whitch is true but how am i suppose to hide it from them and make them think that im not anerxioc and dont say eat in front of them.

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My friend is cRaZy


Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 10:21 pm

Ok well me & my friend went in2 this show thing & she saw this boy in it & is obessed with him now. she got a hold of his email address & has this crazy plan 2 actually meet him. not only doez he live WAAAAAAAAY far away but im worried bout that he might not turn out who she thinks he is & if it really is him. i mean it could b some cereal killer liein 2 her. i told her he might b liein & she said he told her he never liez. & i told her he could b liein bout that & she didnt belive me. i said everything 2 stop her from doin it coz i dont wnt her 2 get hurt. so wot should i do?

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What do I do to gain his attention again?


Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 10:08 pm

Before I begin, I'd just like to apologize in advance for this being a pretty long question thing. Anyways, there is this guy named Andrew. The attraction started in science class last year. Ironically enough, we were always assigned to sit next to eachother througout the whole school year. He'd flirt, I'd flirt...it was great. I can't say the same thing about this school year because I haven't even had ONE class with him. I still tried to keep going what we had last year by asking him to go to the Homecoming dance with me. He said yes but come the day of the dance, he was a no-show. He apologized later and he did look sincerely sorry so I moved on, and tried not to let people see how disapointed and sad I was. Later on in the year, he said...

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Did I Have The Right To Do What I Did?


Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 10:00 pm

Hi, I'm a 13 year old female. My friend Amber and I have been friends for about a year. Yeah, I know not long but were are or were best friends. It all started when she made me extremly mad over not telling me she was going out with my Ex boyfriend. I have no feelings for him what-so-ever. But I felt that since I told her everything and we had agreed that we would tell anything to each other that she should have told me.
So I wrote her a letter telling her I was upset and that she should have at least told me when she first started dating him. She always takes things the wrong way, like for example when I wrote her the letter; she thought that I was not her friend and that I didn't want to be around her. When I clearly stated in the ...

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