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What do I do to gain his attention again?
Before I begin, I'd just like to apologize in advance for this being a pretty long question thing. Anyways, there is this guy named Andrew. The attraction started in science class last year. Ironically enough, we were always assigned to sit next to eachother througout the whole school year. He'd flirt, I'd flirt...it was great. I can't say the same thing about this school year because I haven't even had ONE class with him. I still tried to keep going what we had last year by asking him to go to the Homecoming dance with me. He said yes but come the day of the dance, he was a no-show. He apologized later and he did look sincerely sorry so I moved on, and tried not to let people see how disapointed and sad I was. Later on in the year, he said he wanted to go to another dance with me but then two days later, he changed his mind. A lot of my friends are very protective of me so that was the last straw. There was at least 25 people who yelled at him for me including my sister and one of her friends, Michelle. Michelle and my sister yell at Andrew on a daily basis, calling him names and making fun of his race/heritage. I still would like a chance with Andrew but I think that Michelle and my sister have already ruined my chances. I've told them to stop numberous times and I've even told Andrew that I'm sorry for all the crap they say. (In a note, though. I haven't had the nerve to talk to him face to face) What should I do to re-kindle this relationship? I still REALLY like him. Pathetically, at that. I blush when he's around, and I always find my eyes lingering in his direction. Somebody please HELP!
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Dear writer,
I think you need to move on. He odvoiusly does not feel the same way or just wants somebody to flirt with a isn't made up about you...it isn't right to be in a relationship were both of the feeling arn't equal, not for him not for you. I know this may hurt but if you continue to try it will hurt worse. Talk toyour sister about how you feel, really have a sit down talk with her about yelling maybe she can get her freind to understand to. To me there wasn't ever a relationship to me, and if he wanted there to be one he could have made it happen. Good Luck adn try to find some one selse.
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do you really think you're worth a guy like that?? okay maybe the first time was a 'mistake' but twice?? thats ridiculous & he should've been called out for it so your friend & your sister had a right to do it. i think you should talk to him face to face before you come up with anything saying how you really like him & what not. he could've changed from last year because he's acting like a jerk it seems like. talk to him & explain how you feel. if he blows you off er doesn't seem to care then you juss have to find someone better.
-hope that helped!♥
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