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Am I out of line?
Posted Sunday December 21 2008, 2:29 am
Male, 26.
I'm of Arab descent. Earlier this evening, my girlfriend's sister asked me if when I marry my girl, will the dowery will be in goats.
I got pissed, and stormed out. And then my girl chases me down, and starts telling me that I should develop thicker skin if I'm to deal with her family, because they will make comments like that all the time, regardless.
The thing is, my girlfriend didn't use to condone comments like that, but then she went overseas for a year, and when she came back, it's like somehow I'm always wrong, and that I have to let her family disrespect me like that.
I'm not crazy because I got angry about that, right?
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IM NOT FAT!
Posted Saturday December 20 2008, 10:13 pm
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost four years, and I've never felt unpretty around him until this year. Recently he thinks I'm fat, the thing is I'm not at all - I am 5'8 and 140 lbs.
I recovered from an eating disorder just before I met him, and he knows this. I have learned to be happy with my body, but now with my boyfriend's constant negativity I'm starting to feel insecure.
He never says things so bluntly where I can get mad. What he'll do is say, "let's work out" and if i say I don't want to he calls me lazy and nag until I will. Or when we go out, he'll order me a diet coke and side saladn as my entire meal. When I say that's not what I wanted he says "I'm just helping you eat...
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Why do I constantly use women in order to feel better about myself?
Posted Saturday December 20 2008, 9:55 pm
First off, I'm 26, and been single for about 5 years. I have great friends, most of them females all of which I trust with my life. I care for these females, I know, deeply so why do I continue to hurt them emotionally. To keep it short, I use women. I don't like doing it but for some reason I just can't stop. These women are really good friends with me and I've been there for them when ever they needed me. They take good care of me and vise versa. I've become emotionally attached to everyone of them, 6 to be exact. Every time I try to reduce the relationship to just being friends it never works, we always windup back sleeping together. My friends tell me that I'm living the dream. I call a girl up and she's willing to do whatever...
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crummy situation
Posted Saturday December 20 2008, 8:29 pm
ok my bf of like a yearish not really well ok in the summer time he went home (europe) for like three weeks and so on the last day he cheated on me he had sex with this girl and i knew it i had that gut feeling but i ignored it and by that time we stayed together for a good three months without breaking up and when he told me i was mad of course because he didnt tell me for the longest time then i was thinking why have sex with him now whats the point. then he told me it didnt mean anything and he didnt tell me becuase he didnt want to break up. so i feel all these feelings but i dont all at the same time. and i want to punch him in the face to think i should feel better if i did that so i am but i dont know if what i should do should i bre...
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do u think he likes me.
Posted Saturday December 20 2008, 8:14 pm
well like last friday i met this boy who all my friends are friends with and ive never talked to him but i know who he was. well i went to lunch with my friend and we sat with him and started talking then last sunday he messaged me on myspace saying i was really cute and he couldnt wait to hang out. and everyday this week we would talk and he would call me sweetheart and stuff and yesterday i was with him for a block during school and he let me wear his hoodie so i took it home. and we were supposed to hang out this weekend, but now i cant but he hasnt asked me about it or anything. he like always talks to me and everything and he hasnt since yesterday..what do you tihnk
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how does time fly?? i love him..
Posted Saturday December 20 2008, 7:31 pm
okay sooo me and my guy are finally together..in a way..
i love him soo much..but how can i make the time pass by until he comes and visits me next year..its sooo long away and its really hard..but there isnt a doubt in my mind our hard that i would hurt him..
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i love them both...i dont know who to pick!! -need answers asap please!!
Posted Saturday December 20 2008, 4:18 pm
OKay so me and my and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 3 months now :) but about 4 or so weeks ago i meet this guy named zach! i love my boyfriend, jesse, alot but i zach wants to makeout with me and feel on me... sad thing is i told him that he could..were planin on hangin out this week...i know im gonna feel bad after cuz that jus means i cheated...but i relly like zach and i dont wanna break jesse's heart!
any advice would be GREATLY appreciated!!
thankz in advance
-cuttechick24
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how yo french kiss
Posted Saturday December 20 2008, 3:26 pm
me and my girl kissed and i messed up and bite her lip
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is this an excuse??
Posted Saturday December 20 2008, 3:03 pm
I am thirteen years old and I am a girl. For those of you that have read my previous questions you know that I have a kind of interesting thing going on with the boy I like. If you haven't, I'll catch you up. So I have liked this boy (lets call him nick) for a while now we are good friends and we talk a lot, especially online. Recently though, he been blocking me on IM frequently and I couldn't really understand why. When I asked him about it he told me that his friends were really starting to bug him about us "being together" and he thought that maybe it had something to do with us talking so much. So that's why he kept blocking me, but what I don't understand his how his friends know we talk so much. Does this mean he has been d...
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can't stop thinking about him...
Posted Saturday December 20 2008, 9:16 am
i love my boyfriend of 5 months and he's the best thing that ever happened to me....but i feel that i cant concentrnate on anything else that much because i'm always thinking of him...and like when im in class and i dont like what we're doing (pretty much every day) i think about him all the time...i dont like to be like this cause then i dont understand what were doing in class and stuff but i would never break up with him cause i love him so much.
what should i do?
16/f
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How Do I Tell Him I Like Him?
Posted Friday December 19 2008, 11:58 pm
14/f
Okay, just as a warning, this is going to be REALLY long. Please, anyone who reads this, please read ALL of it, since there are a lot of details to the situation. Okay, here goes!
So, I have been going to the same church for like three years now, and there's this one really awesome guy I like. For this I'll just call him Tom, even though that's not his real name. I just really started liking him this spring, although we had known each other before hand. I'm kind of a tomboy and I'm rather anti-social, as in I like/dislike things most other girls don't/do. Basically, I detest shopping, make-up could go burn in the fiery abyss for all I care, the color pink makes me vomit, perfume can actually give me seriou...
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possibly bi/metro/whatever you want to call it
Posted Friday December 19 2008, 11:15 pm
16/m
hi guys.
so.... i'm very attracted to women. i date a lot of girls and with what i've heard i'm a pretty likable guy (i.e. girls like me). but lately i've found myself to be attracted to guys too... and the thought of getting sexual with a man seems to arouse me just as much as getting sexual with a woman...
so, am i bi/metro/whatever.... or do you think it's just a phase? to be honest, i feel like i'd be ok with being bi. i'm no homophobe; in fact i have quite a few gay friends. but i don't know if i for sure am bi though.... but if i am i don't know how i would tell anyone. i'd feel really scared to tell anyone i think (i go to an all-male catholic school)... and god knows what my girlfriend would...
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Another First Love Question
Posted Friday December 19 2008, 10:18 pm
Can any of you advicenators share your stories of your first love that ended because of distance? Like, either one of you had to move away and thats the only reason why your first love ended. Do you regret it? Are you still in touch? please leave as much details, as well as how you dealt with the situation, because right now im finding it to be unbearable.
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how to get her attention
Posted Friday December 19 2008, 7:03 pm
well i'm a guy who's 17 and I really like this girl but how do I get the courage to talk to her properly and not make a fool of myself? I want to erm..be all that she thinks of? (well that's going over the top) but I want to get her attention and not just seem like any other guy but just someone that catches her attention. Help?
Thanks!
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Me and my gf our having relation probs an i need help!!
Posted Friday December 19 2008, 6:46 pm
Well me and my gf our getting very stressed out and busy, and we dont know wut to do. do you?
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my best friends first love ....
Posted Friday December 19 2008, 2:29 pm
Alright so me and my best friend nick like each other. He has only had one other girlfriend, and he went out with her for almost three years straight. they never broke up or anything. This really worries me. I've never had a real boyfriend, although i have had "things" with people if that makes sense. So i have never had a first love. Anyways it just worries me because i hear you never forget your first love and since they were each others first boyfriend, girlfriend and they lost their virginity to each other and they did go out for so long i'm just scared he will never be able to like me the same way. I'm scared he will start to miss her and possibly even want to go back to her. I'm scared i won't be able to please him like she ...
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Mystery guy..hahaha
Posted Friday December 19 2008, 9:27 am
Well this is really kind of weird..
i saw this kid at an after school program (15/f) and i can't really explain it, but when i saw him i felt drawn to him? he's not the cutest kid ever, but there was just something about him. I see him like literally everywhere in school. i can tell he's really shy and kind of a loner,which is the exact opposite of me. But for some reason i cant stop thinking about him? I dont even know his name,haha.He held the door for me the other day,and everytime he sees me he looks away? I know this sounds really rideculous but i think we're like ment for eachother (haha this is so corny..!) Should i talk to him? And has this ever happend to you? I'm so confused why i'm feeling this way about a complete strange...
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Wedding
Posted Friday December 19 2008, 12:53 am
My wedding is coming up and I am not fat I just have some extra flub on my stomach and arms and would like to tone up for my wedding. Any suggestions on excercises I should do? Also, it would be helpful if you could tell me what sorts of equipment I should have (something I can easily do at at home) such as dum bells, etc
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I don't want a boyfriend
Posted Friday December 19 2008, 12:30 am
17/f
I don't think I want a boyfriend. I'm very busy with school. I don't want the commitment. I don't want to trust someone like that right now. I know either we'd break up within the next year or it would be even harder moving away in September for college. I'm perfectly capable of getting a boyfriend. My parents really want me to have one, I think it worries them that I don't.
Am I just putting up a wall to avoid getting hurt or am I just better off being single? Is it advisable to lose the excuses or are they valid enough to remain single? Who knew this was such a big deal. Thanks for the advice!
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weird fantasy
Posted Thursday December 18 2008, 11:27 pm
*17/f
i have a boyfriend. we've been dating for more then a year and i love him so much with all my heart. and i know hes the one...
i have this teacher and hes a good looking guy. and lately when i start to daydream during class i start having fantasies about him...and me. its weird. and sometimes they can be pretty sexual. and i seriously can't control it...i don't know, it just happens. and i have no idea why this is happening. are those thoughts considered cheating on my boyfriend? and what should i do about the fantasies?
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