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crummy situation
ok my bf of like a yearish not really well ok in the summer time he went home (europe) for like three weeks and so on the last day he cheated on me he had sex with this girl and i knew it i had that gut feeling but i ignored it and by that time we stayed together for a good three months without breaking up and when he told me i was mad of course because he didnt tell me for the longest time then i was thinking why have sex with him now whats the point. then he told me it didnt mean anything and he didnt tell me becuase he didnt want to break up. so i feel all these feelings but i dont all at the same time. and i want to punch him in the face to think i should feel better if i did that so i am but i dont know if what i should do should i break up with him what like am i being dum about this or because it was so long ago i should let it go??? i want to do the right thing not to be stupid idk i need help . my heart hurts a little and i want to throw up but then it doesnt hurt and i dont want to throw up....
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If that were me, I would break up with him. Even if it was awhile ago he still did it. How would you know he won't do it again? Do you still trust him after that? Relationships are based on trust. If you can't trust him, it won't work out. It probably won't last very long. I wouldn't be able to handle it. If you do trust him, its your call. We can't make the decision if you want to break up with him. If you trust him and you know he will never do that again then you might not want to break up with him. You can't be sure about that since he already did but if he gained your trust back then your choice. Good luck.
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If I was in this situation.. I would break up with him. My reason why I would do this is because if I didn't break up with him, how could I trust him again? I would always be wondering, well is he lieing about where he was last night.. & so on.
Its up to you. How much do you trust him? If you don't trust him, the relationship will go no where. If you don't want to break up with him, don't. Who did he cheat on you with? Was it his ex girlfriend? or some one he once liked? If it was, I would.
If it was like someone random, then ehh. I don't know, your call. I hope you make a good descision that works best for you! :]
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