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Mystery guy..hahaha
Well this is really kind of weird..
i saw this kid at an after school program (15/f) and i can't really explain it, but when i saw him i felt drawn to him? he's not the cutest kid ever, but there was just something about him. I see him like literally everywhere in school. i can tell he's really shy and kind of a loner,which is the exact opposite of me. But for some reason i cant stop thinking about him? I dont even know his name,haha.He held the door for me the other day,and everytime he sees me he looks away? I know this sounds really rideculous but i think we're like ment for eachother (haha this is so corny..!) Should i talk to him? And has this ever happend to you? I'm so confused why i'm feeling this way about a complete stranger, any takes on this? To be honest,i never liked guys that were shy and quite. I guess what i'm getting at is whats your opinion on true love and people "drawn" to eachother? haha so many questions,sorry i'm just so-dis-com-bob-u-lated haha. thanks for any help!
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That's not wierd at all ! I believe in fate and spiritual types of things, so if you're drawn to this guy, you need to act on the feeling :] You should say hi to him sometime and strike up a conversation, he could turn out to be someone who's meant for you, in a boyfriend or friendship sense. It hasn't actually happened to me yet, but I kept getting drawn back to this one guy ... a little different then you're situation, but I just let it happen :] This can be really different for you since your liking of guys are ones with more vibrant personalities, but once you get to know this guy, he might surprise you.
I think you should most definetly talk to him, you're lucky to have this happen to you. Who knows, if you goout on a limb and talk to him, a couple months, years ... later, he could turn out to be your soulmate :] ! good luck, hope I helped, xxo.
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hell yeah go for it! talk to him about anything ask about his hobbies (if any) tell him some stuff about yourself keep it simple dont push any hard questions liiike "what are your thoughts on the meaning of life?" haha thats too far :P
if your drawn to him then thats a good thing, even if it doesnt mean a girlfreind and boyfriend kind of way, then maybe a freindship kind of way :) dont rush into things like love, they are very complex and delicate situations. get to know him for a few months or so let your bond grow then make decsions later on when you know that person well enough to start thinking that way about them
Good luck!!
(im a bit of a loner too, i think i sound a little like him [though im 17] im sure he would be delighted to talk to some one other than be stuck with his thoughts)
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