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i love them both...i dont know who to pick!! -need answers asap please!!
OKay so me and my and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 3 months now :) but about 4 or so weeks ago i meet this guy named zach! i love my boyfriend, jesse, alot but i zach wants to makeout with me and feel on me... sad thing is i told him that he could..were planin on hangin out this week...i know im gonna feel bad after cuz that jus means i cheated...but i relly like zach and i dont wanna break jesse's heart!
any advice would be GREATLY appreciated!!
thankz in advance
-cuttechick24
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ok well honestly it doesnt sound like you love jesse as much as you trying to convice yourself you do or you would'nt have thought about cheating! try talking t both and see who you make more connections with and if you still feel jeese more but still believe you like ach go throu with wut your goung 2 but remember if you luv jesse like you say you do after this you'll feel guilt and it will eat you up alive you can also tlk 2 your bf and see how he feels about friends with benifits dont exactly give it away that you mite be cheating just ask him about it at the end of the day your making the desion
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I would stay with your current boyfriend Jesse.
I don't know why but Zach sounds like a player to me.Who asks a girl to make out anyway?
And dumping Jesse for another guy could give you bad reputation.
That's my piece of advice for you! :)
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Look, cheating is NEVER okay, not on any terms, so if I were you, I'd stay away from that route and plus, who wants ot be known as the girl who cheated on her unsuspecting boyfriend, yuh know? :] here's my advice, you should think about what you really want. You can't have both guys, so if that's really hard to choose between, then just let them both go. If you really love your boyfriend of 3 months, you wouldn't even be having these thoughts, so something must be lacking in your relationship. Talk to him about it, but don't cheat on him, and you probably shouldn't hang out with zach until you've talked about this with your boyfriend, he might not like to hear it and it might end the relationship, but to figure this all out, you probably should sort it out with him.
good luck! hope I helped, xxo :]
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Cheating is not a good thing to do.ever. If I were you, I would explain to jesse that theres just no connection between you two anymore, I think he would rather that than finding out the hard way. Its hard, but it has to be done. Good luck, and please let me know how this works out for you! you can ask me any questions personally that you have on my advice column, xosodapopx3 good luck again :-)
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Cheat once & that will be your reputation.
If you haven't already done it, then don't. That's just wrong. If you ever plan on cheating, break up with your boyfriend first... cheating is just wrong.
You don't love either of them. If you loved one of them, you would know what to do.
If you loved your boyfriend, you would tell him that you almost cheated. Sure, he'd probably break up with you, but you don't deserve him anyway.
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