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THIS IS NOT NORMAL HIGH SCHOOL DRAMA. I'M BEGGING YOU TO READ THE WHOLE THING. PLEASE.
16/F
There's this guy at my school that has been literally obsessed with me for like two years.
He texts me constantly, and I used to text him back and we'd have these really cool intense conversations.
But then it got a little scary. About two months ago, he began to text me every single day like once every thirty minutes until I answered him back. And I'd have to answer him back, because if I didn't, he'd come up to me the next day at school and corner me at my locker and ask me to explain why I didn't answer him back. And he just would have this puppy dog look in his eyes, so he looked non-threatening, but he'd also be blocking my way out with his arms.
He's constantly leaving notes in my locker and on my desk in homeroom about how we're going to spend the rest of our lives together and have a bunch of kids. We are not dating.
I've told one of my friends about it, but it's embarrassing because I don't know what to do. Plus, he keeps telling me in every note not to tell anyone because they'll make fun of our "love" and he doesn't like it when people make fun of him.
This note thing has been going on for almost a month. And if he sees me flirting with a guy in the hall, he just gives me this look and then he'll corner me after school again. I'm allowed to flirt though, aren't I?? Well I can't anymore and I've stopped.
The puppy dog look has left his eyes by now.
And the reason why I've finally gotten up the courage to write this is because I'm all out of ideas. My friend that I told doesn't know what to do about it and she isn't really taking it seriously. And I'm too scared to go tell the guidance counselor about it because I'm pretty sure he'd find out somehow. (He tends to follow me around school). But the thing is that sent me over the edge is that he called me last night after school (today is Saturday), and his speech was slurred so I'm guessing he'd been drinking, but he said that he was planning on killing himself soon unless I:
1) stop flirting with other guys
2) stop talking to other people when he's around
3) have sex with him soon
He's crazy, right? What to I do? I was so scared last night that he was going to come over my house. I locked all the doors and I slept in my brother's room.
I don't want him to kill himself, obviously, but I also want him to leave me alone. I'm scared also too that with everything else that's going on (the notes about how we're going to be together forever) that if he does choose to kill himself, he's going to take me with him.
Please help, I'm so scared right now. (link)
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You should tell your parents first of all, and they should report this issue to the police. You shouldn't hesitate or he could physically hurt you, don't break off cotnact with him untill your parents have made arrangements with the police or he will surely get agressive on you.
But talk to your parents asap, or tell your brother to explain it to them(if he's old enough to understand).
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I was thinking the other day about douching and how it's suppose to help keep you clean down there. Well, if it removes dirt and other stuff then will it remove semen if I have sex with my boyfriend and douch right after? I figure it isn't a fool-proof birth control method but maybe it helps to reduce the chances of pregnancy? Anybody know? (link)
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Douching won't reduce any chance of pregnancy, use a condom or a pill. :)
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ok i dont know if i am a lesbian cuz i like lookin at other girls and i want to have sex with another girl but how can i tell if that girl is a lesbian and i love looking at girls boobs i want to suck on them so bad but i also like guys. also if you have sex with another girl can you get pregnant thanks email me a redsclub80531001@aol.com thanks so much i need your help please answer (link)
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You can't get pregnant of having sex with somebody of your own gender. And it's totally normal to be bisexual(liking girls & boys), I know plenty of girl s that are. You'll find somebody that is just like you, but you can't really see it about their appearance, you'll have to get to know girls better.
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what is anal sex? everybody always talks about it and i have no idea...
and my second one is, im not really sure what all this means but how does a condom protect from the cum because ive heard that the cum comes out of the penis so how do the condom protect from it? lol. im not planning on having sex at alll.. im waiting till i atleast find the right person. but i atleast want to know what this means. lol. i rate 5 for all(: (link)
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Well a condom prevents the "cum" from reaching inside you. It's a kind of bag you wrap around the penis, only it's quite more comfortable than a bag :P
And anal sex is whenever a man puts his penis into the anus(or ass), not the vagina.
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My friend was telling me that if you have sex whiel you're on your period you cannot get an STD because of the blood flowing it out of you too quickly. She said she had sex with her boyfriend who had herpes and she didn't get it because they had sex while she was on her period. She totally isn't lying, I'm sure. I was curious if this was actually true though because it does kind of sound a little iffy to me and maybe she just had good luck or something. So, is it true that you can't get an STD if you have sex on your period? (link)
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That's not true, you can get any STD whenever you have sex, unless you use a condom.
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How do you give someone a hickey? (link)
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Place your tongue first, many people get this wrong. Then suck the skin of your partner as much as you can, but not too long for it could hurt after a while, don't hold back for the blood taste in your mouth, it's yours ^^
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im in a tough position and im lost to what i should do about it. My boyfriend of 5 months, Alan cheated on me with my cousin well i lost my virginity to him and i was in love with him. It took me several months but i found someone else.. Dylan we dated for 8 months i took his virginity everything was good. Meanwhile my cousin and Alan dated for a bout 1 year and a month and then she dumped him for a knew guy well in the back of my mind i still had feelings for Alan, hes 19, im 16, and Dylan is 16. Alan invited me over and we started talking and he was crying and all this other stuff happened and well i ended up forgiving Alan. I broke up with Dylan and he was heartbroken i mean dylan and i had our problems to the biggest was i never saw him a lot because his my mom is a very strict lady and didnt want him seeing me because she "knows my family" meaning she thinks my family is bad well her family is bad also they sell pot out of there garage and shit but she likes to think there perfect and dont have any problems. Now im dating Alan its been 2 months when im with him its perfect but when im not all im thinking about is Dylan i cant get him out of my mind i see him with this new girl and it kills me in school like i cant handle it i have feelings for him to. Part of me wants to brake up with Alan but if i do i know ill miss him. What should i do? i have no idea and its driving me crazy if i were to brake up with Alan his sister is my best friend and she would like hate me for hurting her brother.. but i dont know what to do please help! (link)
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I would try to supress your feelings for Dylan and stick with Alan.
Now that Dylan's mother doesn't like you there are many things that could go wrong with the relationship between you and Dylan.
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okay i'm a 16 year old female. i like watching porn. usually lesbian porn, but i'm straight. i like guys, but for some reason watching lesbian porn really gets me like horny and i "get off" if you will, from lesbian porn. is that weird? could i possibly be gay? (link)
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I try not to watch gay porn because it makes me feel gay.If you don't want to be gay either just don't watch gay porn ^^
Sorry if this comes over rude to you but I tried to help.
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I have relatively clear skin. I get the occasional pimple on my face. Like every other month. But.. for some reason.. i know this is really gross.. i have acne on my butt. What can I do to clear this up (link)
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Better hygiene in that place :S
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ok so when me and my boyfriend like start rubbing against each other with our underwear on...either im on top or he is. orr when he fingers me...ohhhh....or licks me. i want to moan and just ohhh....like sooooo badd... but i kinda cant cuz his parents are usually right downstairs. what to do? ohh and can i get pregnant by this? (link)
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Bite a pillow and moan away
Oh and also a lock on the door could help against angry parents? :D
Good luck
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Ive been experimenting with weed and i have these weird panic/anxiety attacks... what can i do to prevent that from happening??? (link)
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Stop smoking pot?
It's not healthy and it gets you in trouble ;)
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i got this guitar for christmas 2004 and lately i've been feeling that its a little small. i know acousic guitars are shorter that electric so i was just wondering if someone could tell me is this is a 1/2 size a 3/4 size or a full size. i really hope its full because it was my first guitar and i want to keep it for as long as i can!
and i also want to know is its possible to get the neck extended.
HERE IT IS!: http://www.staggmusic.com/products/products_detail.php?langue=uk&oneid=253 (link)
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If it's too small then it's probably a 1/2 size or a 3/4 size.
And I doubt you can extend the neck. You'd have to buy a new guitar.
Acoustic guitars cost nothing these days. =)
Sorry for your loss :P
^^
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What other places can I get songs for free other than Limewire? (link)
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Try iMesh. =)
Or this site : http://www.downloads.nl/mp3.html
It's dutch,but all you really do is put in the song name & click the button next to the text box and it should find your song if it is in the database =)
Enjoy!
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OKay so me and my and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 3 months now :) but about 4 or so weeks ago i meet this guy named zach! i love my boyfriend, jesse, alot but i zach wants to makeout with me and feel on me... sad thing is i told him that he could..were planin on hangin out this week...i know im gonna feel bad after cuz that jus means i cheated...but i relly like zach and i dont wanna break jesse's heart!
any advice would be GREATLY appreciated!!
thankz in advance
-cuttechick24 (link)
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I would stay with your current boyfriend Jesse.
I don't know why but Zach sounds like a player to me.Who asks a girl to make out anyway?
And dumping Jesse for another guy could give you bad reputation.
That's my piece of advice for you! :)
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im looking for a free trial of a really good photoshop. i had Corel Paint Shop Pro for awhile and loved it, but my trial's up so it wont let me redownload it, and i've done all the tricks to keep it longer. I especially want one that has the teeth whitener effect for sure. Are there any that you've PERSONALLY used and loved? especially its it similar to paint shop pro. (link)
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I don't know if you've ever heard of Gimp?
It's photoshop,but free!
Check it out at gimp.org =)
Enjoy!
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I'm from India.i have a scanned copy saved in gif format. i want to convert this into word file using a software. is it possible? if so, how...pls help... (link)
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I am sorry.
You cannot scan something and transfer it into text on your computer.
Our technology isn't that far yet,I'm afraid you'll have to copy the text by typing it yourself. =(
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15/f
lately ive been depressed. nothings seems to going right. me and my stepmom havent been getting along. its like i try to be nice and she's just a bitch back to me and i dont get why and we've been struggling to get along for the past 12 years on and off. and my dad doesnt do anything about it. every time i come back from my moms my stepmom's a bitch. my dad just found out that i cut myself and he freaked out and i start to wonder if its all worth living through everyday. i tried suicide three times before and im trying to get the idea out of my mind but it keeps coming back.
pleez help
thanks (link)
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If there's somebody you should be angry at it's your stepmom and not yourself. =)
Just try ignoring her or something if she doesn't want to have a good relationship with you. And cutting isn't a good thing,by the way... People won't like you for that.
Just hang out with your friends and everything will be fine. =)
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