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I'm kind helpfull and a really good listener.So i really hope i can help someone :)And im really good at evaluating stuff. and ill be sure to look up stuff first to make sur im right.

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ok, so i brush my teeth 2 times a day.once in the morning and before i go to sleep. i brush my teeth and tongue, cause my mom says the tongue is were the most of the smell comes from. well when im at school and stuff in my mouth it feels like the toothpaste taste and everything is kinda fading like going away, then i start to feel unconfident like my breath smells bad. so im always asking people for gum, and all my friends say this thing when you ask for gum they say "why? does your breath stink?" and it doesnt help. so my question is what can i do without chewing on things like gum or mints and all that. cause alot of times when you throw it out your breath starts smelling. so i need to be confident that i dont have bad breath, please help. i will rate you. thankyou =]

so as far as i know, bad breath comes from a number of different things one of which is de-hydration.so keep your mouth wet.
if that doesn't work you should really see a dentist.bad breath is also a sign of types of gum disease and other serious types of disease.SERIOUSLY!
(btw..u probably dont want 2 know this but i read that cinnamon gum helps bad breath more that others)
good luck:)

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I'm a quiet girl, don't associate myself with others much because i don't want to be negatively assosiated with people in any way by accident.

Well I was walking the walkway and this guy that's the same grade as me but SHORTER called me a douchebag and one of his friends were like "that's mean!" but then someone from their group was like "YOU'RE A DOUCHEBAG!" and then another person from their group said "Come on (name), get over here and beat the crap out of them! Don't let them stomp over you like this!"

But like how adults always say to not fight back, I just continued walking down the hallway. I'm just going to leave this to God and hope that Karma will come into play. I went into the bathroom, and just sat there, starring.

Why would they randomly decide to call me a douchebag like this? I never did any harm to anybody. I have them in a couple of my classes and we rarely talk but we talked a few times and they were NEVER like that before.

I'm just so hurt, my self esteem is so low, and it took my whole strength to keep my self from bursting out in tears during the whole day at school. What do i do now?

And how can I let out this anger and stress in a healthy way other than listening to music? (because that isn't really letting it out).

I think that shouting real loud as loud as i can like in the movie works but I'm never at home alone and I don't drive o it's not like I can drive myself to the park and scream...

Thank you so much in advance

yeah that totally is bullying.(usuaslly bullys look for a target that is 2 shy to stand up for them selves.im not saying to go fight,but say'knock it off' of something,)
any way..a great way of relieving stress and anger is through a sport.Tenis and volleyball are great sports(that way you can wack something)
also try talking to a trusted friend r family member.

also try writing.it lets all your feeling out, just make sure u get a lock.
another great way is to scream into a pillow
or crying in a shower your already wet and its only natural to get red and puffy.
good luck:)

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so theres this guy.
&& we were ALWAYS together.
we texted 24/7
we called eachother everynight.
many of his 'gal' friends came up to me quite a bit,
asking if we were going out.
all his friends had asked me atleast once if i asked him.
butt at the time i wasnt compleetly sure if i did or not so i said no.
butt he stopped calling.
so i called him one night.
butt he didnt answer.
he tried to blame it on the hurricane we recently had [ike]
he said his phones been messed up ever since.

we dont talk in the halls.
we dont hug eachother.
we even used to go to church..
we'd hold hands.
we'd use an occasional 'iloveyou'
butt now nothing.

its like he dropped me out of his life like i never meant anything to him. :/

any ideas?

i think he likes you.u probebly hurt him,by saying u didnt like him.think about it you hugged and said i love u to each other.
hes trying to let go.so just ask him whats up.talk to him.

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What are some of your favorite movies? I would like a bunch. The genre doesn't matter, just tell me your favorites!! Please tell me good christmas ones too pleasee!!!

some are:
sisterhood oh the traveling pants 1 and 2
miracle run
the game plan
bolt
tramsformers
spiderman 3(im not into action but this is reallly good)
She's the man
how the grinch stole christmas (duh)


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Ok,
So hi its sayah again,
uhm, so i am not pregnant
but i kinda want a baby now.
I am sad and disapointed
evern though im only 14
but still, i was thinking
and should i try and prego again ?

i love babys.
but u and i are only 14.if you had a baby i would have a huge responsibility.thin about school.ur parents.and yourself.
try taking up babysitting(if that came out the wrong way i didnt mean for it to be):)

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My roommate and I just got a girl snake. She's so cute! She's merely 7 inches, so tiny! She's very clumsy, has a pointy nose, and likes to dig. We need a very very creative name for her, but we can't come up with anything! Any ideas?

guineapig cause she likes to dig

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I have been dating my boyfriend for almost four years, and I've never felt unpretty around him until this year. Recently he thinks I'm fat, the thing is I'm not at all - I am 5'8 and 140 lbs.

I recovered from an eating disorder just before I met him, and he knows this. I have learned to be happy with my body, but now with my boyfriend's constant negativity I'm starting to feel insecure.

He never says things so bluntly where I can get mad. What he'll do is say, "let's work out" and if i say I don't want to he calls me lazy and nag until I will. Or when we go out, he'll order me a diet coke and side saladn as my entire meal. When I say that's not what I wanted he says "I'm just helping you eat healthy". Or my favorite, when i asked if I looked heavier he said "you only look like you gained 5, maybe 6 lbs." I never wanted to nag him but these little comments were making me insecure.

I tried talking to him about it last night, but it only ends up in an even bigger fight because he can't manage to just tell me he thinks I'm fine the way I am. I understand he's just being honest... but everytime I eat he says "why did you eat that?" or "did you really need that?" Now I'm on a diet and he constantly reminds me to work out and not to eat too much.

He's not an asshole, he's just stupid and doesn't know how to sensor himself! every other girl he looks at is skin and bones, and I'm wondering that if I'm not his type... why has he been with me for so long??? I love him or else obviously I wouldn't be with him, but how can I go about talking to him about this without it turning into a huge fight? How can I help him get the message???

well,your definately NOT fat. but u ever think he might just be looking ont for you? i mean skinny girls can be unhealthy too.
So my advicego up to him casually and ask him Do you think im fat?'or and if he says yes then you dont disurve to be with a guy who doesnt like you for the person you are.Cause people come in many different shapes and sizes.
If he says no, then ask him why he keeps pressuring you to eat stuff you dont waht to or work out more than you want to.communication is key.
and you be the judge, whats the difference between coke and diet coke?it tastes the same:)

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