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two boys, angry sister HELP!
im in a tough position and im lost to what i should do about it. My boyfriend of 5 months, Alan cheated on me with my cousin well i lost my virginity to him and i was in love with him. It took me several months but i found someone else.. Dylan we dated for 8 months i took his virginity everything was good. Meanwhile my cousin and Alan dated for a bout 1 year and a month and then she dumped him for a knew guy well in the back of my mind i still had feelings for Alan, hes 19, im 16, and Dylan is 16. Alan invited me over and we started talking and he was crying and all this other stuff happened and well i ended up forgiving Alan. I broke up with Dylan and he was heartbroken i mean dylan and i had our problems to the biggest was i never saw him a lot because his my mom is a very strict lady and didnt want him seeing me because she "knows my family" meaning she thinks my family is bad well her family is bad also they sell pot out of there garage and shit but she likes to think there perfect and dont have any problems. Now im dating Alan its been 2 months when im with him its perfect but when im not all im thinking about is Dylan i cant get him out of my mind i see him with this new girl and it kills me in school like i cant handle it i have feelings for him to. Part of me wants to brake up with Alan but if i do i know ill miss him. What should i do? i have no idea and its driving me crazy if i were to brake up with Alan his sister is my best friend and she would like hate me for hurting her brother.. but i dont know what to do please help!
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Okay. Alan obviously cheated on you with your cousin. He went back to you because he doesn't want to be alone. When another girl comes around more than likely he will cheat on you again. When you find out, you will break up with him and he wont care once again because of the other girl. It will be like a never ending circle. Dylan seemed like a nice boy and maybe you should talk to him telling him you made a mistake (if you think you did make a mistake). Good Luck.
and dont worry about his sister if she is a true friend she will understand your situation.
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I would try to supress your feelings for Dylan and stick with Alan.
Now that Dylan's mother doesn't like you there are many things that could go wrong with the relationship between you and Dylan.
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I know this is going to suck to hear, but cheaters don't change. Alan was your first, you're always going to have some sort of emotion towards him. Dylan's mom was you're biggest problem, so it had nothing to do with him. Dylan never hurt you like Alan did and ultimately that's what it comes down to. Alan isn't worth your pain.
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you're gonna end up hurting two people's hearts. you really have to make up your mind, who do you like like. From what I see Alan isn't really a good guy b/c he cheated on you in the first place and now he has his heart broken and wants you back, which means he thinks of you as his "REBOUND GIRL". thats not good, stick with the guy you're with now, don't leave something good for better. Alan cheated on you once, I doubt that he isn't gonna do it again. i hope i helped.
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