Question Posted Thursday December 18 2008, 11:27 pm
*17/f
i have a boyfriend. we've been dating for more then a year and i love him so much with all my heart. and i know hes the one...
i have this teacher and hes a good looking guy. and lately when i start to daydream during class i start having fantasies about him...and me. its weird. and sometimes they can be pretty sexual. and i seriously can't control it...i don't know, it just happens. and i have no idea why this is happening. are those thoughts considered cheating on my boyfriend? and what should i do about the fantasies?
Additional info, added Sunday December 28 2008, 12:53 am: also...did i mention hes 40?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MADISAN answered Sunday December 21 2008, 10:59 am: This is totally normal. I'm pretty sure your boyfriend has fantasies about other people, too, concidering he's probably near your age, and a boy, so that would explain that.
What he doesn't know can't hurt him, so I wouldn't tell him, it's harmless anywho, and likely to get blown out of proportion. The fantasies about this teacher are nothing out of the ordinary.
And two cheers for hot teachers. Gotta love 'em. [ MADISAN's advice column | Ask MADISAN A Question ]
irMERIx answered Saturday December 20 2008, 3:43 pm: this is normal.
it happens alot to people who have been in a long term relationship.
it is not considered as cheating as cheating.
because you didnt physically do anything with him.
he's an attractive guy.
it happens.
its just your teenage hormones working up.
if youre sure your boyfriend is the one,
then he is.
and no one can stop your love.(:
hope i helped. [ irMERIx's advice column | Ask irMERIx A Question ]
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