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I think of myself as an intelligent, sensitive human being with the soul of a clown that always forces me to blow it at the most important moments.
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I had sex with my boyfriend last night and i had an orgasm from just the intercourse alone. That has never happened to me before. Is there any specific reason why this happened? I was in complete shock.
Thanks.
Lucky girl.
He had to have hit your G-spot. Concider yourself a very, very lucky girl. I don't think I could say that enough times...L U C K Y.
hello :) im wonderin which one of these piercings i should get. im turnin 16. i already have 3 holes in each ear plus my cartilage in the right one. i have my nose and belly button also.
either one of these id get on the left ear. which one do you guys think i should get ?
if you need a picture to visualize my advice column is sweeethoney.
thank yall in advance
Definitely get your industrial, I have mine, and have had it for 5 years. I love it. Just make sure when they pierce it, to look at the spots where the needle will go through, because it's an easy piercing to mess up.
Hi there! I am trying to get a better car and my friend asked me if I tried a cash for clunkers thing she heard about on the radio, I think. I haven't heard anything about a cash for clunkers and I was curious if it might be beneficial to me. Can anybody tell me about it?
My friend also said that my car had to qualify for it or something. I have a 1997 Pontiac Grand Prix with over 160k miles. Does it qualify or no?
It all has to do with your MPG.
http://www.edmunds.com/cash-for-clunkers/eligible-vehicles.html
Okay so I have the initials of my ex boyfriend tattooed on my wrist (RS) and well he is my ex so no longer. I really like the tattoo though and don't want to cover it up anytime soon. I know I will never forget what it really means, but I was wondering if anyone knew of words or a phrase with the letters "R" and "S" that I could tell people it means. I'm just tired of saying what it really means and then having to get into the whole story about it. thanks! hope to hear something soon! By the way the phrase has to start with R so ya...
Rising Star
this is really embarassing for me. this happened 6 months ago. i got super super drunk, to the point of not remembering the whole night. i guess that i said 'i haven't hooked up with anyone in so long. i need to hook up with someone' and i kept screaming it. this isn't embarassing to most people but i can't get over it. boys still make fun of me about it and i try not to act like it bothers me but i can't get over it.. how do i forget?
The only thing to do is wait. I made a mistake like this when I was 14, and now, almost 4 years later, it's like it never existed.
Don't blush, laugh at their immaturity, and wait for karma to get 'em.
sorry i didnt know under which category to put this.
erm so some ppl say that in year 1012 the poles are shifting or smth and that its the end of the world.
is this true???? :[
You can't beleive everything you hear. It's those doomsday cults that have been claiming the end of the world for decades that get these loco "the world is going to end" rumors out.
Take a few science classes, the world isn't going to end any time soon.
Me and my boyfriend fool around and dry hump. and one day we were dumb and put two plastic bags over and did that bare and he went a little inside me but not far at all. and then we realized that the bags broke, but he didnt NOT cum and i dont even think there was precum on it cause we stopped and started a bunch. anyways, i missed my period by 2 days and i dont know if i should get a pregnancy test or not. I got it on November 18 last month, and now its Dec 20. I usually would get it on Dec 18, 31 days exactly after. However, last month i got it at midnight afer the 18th.
I know there is a CHANCE i could be pregnant(there always is), but what ARE the chances?
Plastic baggies? Don't ever do that again. Condoms, condoms, condoms. Don't be a fool and wrap your tool.
Seeing precum can be pretty hard, and it's the most fertile sperm that a man can produce. How old are you? Because for most women, their periods jump around a lot all throughout their teens and early twenties. When you're around a group of women for a while, your periods start to sync, and that can throw it off. I'd say if your period doesn't come within the week, invest in a pregnancy test. And don't just buy one, buy a few, becuase you'll probably wind up going back to the store to buy more just to "be sure", which is totally normal.
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i have a boyfriend. we've been dating for more then a year and i love him so much with all my heart. and i know hes the one...
i have this teacher and hes a good looking guy. and lately when i start to daydream during class i start having fantasies about him...and me. its weird. and sometimes they can be pretty sexual. and i seriously can't control it...i don't know, it just happens. and i have no idea why this is happening. are those thoughts considered cheating on my boyfriend? and what should i do about the fantasies?
This is totally normal. I'm pretty sure your boyfriend has fantasies about other people, too, concidering he's probably near your age, and a boy, so that would explain that.
What he doesn't know can't hurt him, so I wouldn't tell him, it's harmless anywho, and likely to get blown out of proportion. The fantasies about this teacher are nothing out of the ordinary.
And two cheers for hot teachers. Gotta love 'em.
okay so im 17 years old and im 5'3 in height. i weigh 111 pounds and everyone says this is a good weight a healthy weight but i still feel fat?! i mean i know im not fat, and honestly i think my body looks pretty good i just have a lot of fat on my stomach! but not really anywhere else? why do i have so much fat on my stomach?! i used to have a really flat stomach but then i gained 3 pounds since it got cold outside and it seems like it all went to my stomach!! how do i get rid of this ugly fat stomach?! is there any excersizes i can do or food that can make stomach fat go away?
You are exactly perfect in weight, your BMI is exactly where it's supposed to be. I'm not going to preach to you that body-love bullshit, because you're 17, and you know you're not fat, just that you have "flab" on your stomache. (I hate that word)
The basics should make stomache fat go away, but stomache fat is super stubborn, try crunches, lunges, anything with a lot of cardio should help.
You should also start taking vitamins, and eating a balanced diet with a lot of veggies and fruits. Also, drink tons of water. Tons.
Ive been experimenting with weed and i have these weird panic/anxiety attacks... what can i do to prevent that from happening???
You're probably paranoid. Don't smoke as much as the people who have a high tolerence to cannabis. Wait untill you feel, what I call, the "head change" when you can feel you're high comming, and quit. Then, if you don't get anxiety, smoke more.
I'd suggest just being in a calm mood before smoking, too. With any kind of drug, stimulant, depressant, etc., you always want to make sure you're sure of what you're doing, or else the effects of your "trip" or "high" can be changed by your outlook. Sometimes it really is mind over matter.
And you don't trip when you're high. You're just high.
im 17 and i wanna get on the pill to get birth control pills do i need to go to the pharmacy with a parent or gynocologist how do i get it?
It's completley confidential, and free, to get on birth control pills through Planned Parenthood.
But you can go to your doctor with your parent and get on the pill.
What is your favorite quote?
"I think of myself as an intelligent, sensitive human being with the soul of a clown which forces me to blow it at the most important moments"
-Jim Morrison
If your friend wants you to spend the night with her, and you don't want to, what is a good excuse besides saying u are going somewhere the next day?? Please respond asap. Thanks!
Tell her you don't want to hang out. Haha.
Where can you find a quiz that when you take it, it determines if the guy really likes you or not?
These don't exist.
is it wrong to want to be popular (in the High School popularity sense of the term)? is it wrong to want to fit in?
i think it's not wrong to want to conform. that is just human nature, and its part of the societal contract that you will HAVE to conform to SOME society's rules if you hope to be accepted in society (ex: dont rape kids, dont go out of the house naked). but it's wrong to change yourself to fit in.
but what happens when you're different in the first place AND you want to be popular?
how do you conform & become epicly popular, if you dont want to change yourself?
im conflicted inside. it hurts.
i really want your opinion on this.
I get where you're comming from, in an judicial and lawful sense we all conform to the same standards. But mainly it's the common emotion of us all sharing our values and beleifs so they become solid in the communities, or countries standards. There are people who refuse to conform to the common ethics of society, rapists, child molesters, hate groups, but it's our low tolerence for outsiders that, atleast in america, we gloat about. I beleive, our low tolerence is just a product of the human nature to want to bring things to justice, and of course societies mutual beleifs. The only standards you really have to conform to, are the ones that you agree with.
Like buddha said, "Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense."
On the other hand, popularity and spotlight are part of human nature. We all yearn to be wanted and loved, adored even. It's just that the term "popular" has it's own definition along with traits. We look at popular people as stuck up, preppy, blonde, blue eyes.
You just have to redefine popularity. You just have to be popular in your own sense, technically popularity just means masses of people like you, you're friendly and have friends.
As long as you like who you are, don't give a hoot about what anyone thinks. It's self love that matters, not conformity.
okaaaay so theres this guy josh. hes my best frend n weve been going out for a few weeks. he talked about us having sex even before we were going out. i really love him and i have for a while cuz hes my best frend n i tell him everything. ive never really been comfrtable enuff around a guy to do anything past make out but i really wanna feel comfortable about having sex n giving blow jobs n stuff. do you know any ways to help with this? feeling more comfortable around guys? and also my boyfrend has an 11 inch dick n im a virgin. would that hurt really bad n wat wud it feel like? how long do i have to keep it in for while having sex? thanks for your advice!!!!!! i really appreciate it!!!!!
lmfzo. Did he tell you he has an 11 inch penis, or have you seen it? Haha, guys lie.
Either or, it hurts. Like hell. The second time and the third time, too. It takes time to start not hurting.
Also, "dating for a few weeks" and "love him" should never be used in the same sentance. Love takes time. Having sex too early in a relationship kills it. It's proven, the sooner you fuck, the sooner you split. Fact.
It sounds like he just wants to get down your pants, in all honesty. Don't give him that if YOU aren't 100% ready. I know people say this all the time, but it's true, you'll always be attached to your first.
When a couple goes to the movies, how would be best to sit if u wanted to finger or to feel up or makeout?
Firstly, try and go to a movie that's been out for quite some time, and either go early in the day or late at night, to ensure less people are there. And sit in the back row if possible, but make sure you're just far away from other people, and the only two in the entire row.
Just sit right next to eachother and get cozy with your coats.
lol, Have fun!
my homecoming is saturday,
how do i get really tan really fast as healthy as possible.
Tanning a lot for a couple weeks wont do you any harm. Just go for 20 minutes every day, or every other day. And if you're not up to your standard tan, get a professional spray on tan.
Ok, right now i'm an 18 m, and i have a really hard time "finishing" when i have sex. It seems like i go forever lol. Is there anyway i can make it feel better or just get there faster? i have even, stupidly, not used a condom once(drunk) and i still went for about an hour and didn't finish, but had to stop because we were in a car outside a party and our spot kinda got blown up lol. but seriously, anything?
Get some dome before you have sex.
well im going over to my boyfriends house tomorrow and i wanted to surprise him by wearing a skirt and no underwear but i just wanted to make sure..he wont think im weird for not wearing underwear, right?? thanks! :)
Oh my god. He'll love you for that.