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To make a very long story short there's this guy at my school that I really, really like. I've liked him since last year and I never really stopped. Over the summer I thought that maybe I'd gotten over him because I didn't really think about him but seeing him again this year brought back all my feelings for him. The only thing that REALLY sucks is that I don't know him. I don't have any classes with him, I'm not friends with any of his friends, I've never really talked to him.. I know it's completely lame to like someone I don't know and I've tried getting over him but I can't. I've liked other guys but each time I end up comparing them to him.
You're probably wondering how I could like a guy I don't know so much and the truth is, no matter how shallow it sounds, that he's really good looking. But that's not the only reason I'm attracted to him. I've seen him when he's with his friends and I can just tell that he's a genuinely nice, amazing guy. One of my best girl friends is in his class this year and she had to work with him on an assignment and she told me just how nice and smart he really is. That he's not stuck up, conceited, and snobby like most guys who, if they looked like him, were as popular as him, etc. would act. She's trying to become closer friends with him so that she could introduce us but it's not that easy. And I'm tired of liking him so much and not being able to do anything about it. I want to be able to talk to him and hang out with him and stuff.
My main problem really is that I'm super shy and self-conscious. I'm usually like that with new people but when it comes to the guy I like then it's about ten times worse. Most of my friends tell me that I should just go up to him and try to strike up a conversation but I can't because I just freeze up! Most of my friends also think that he may like me too because some of the things he does kind of hint at him possibly liking me but I don't really know what to think. I guess it could be because I don't wanna get my hopes up but I don't know! Please help me! I don't know what to do and I need major help! Any advice will be greatly appreciated! (link)
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First off, sounds like you've got a very nice friend helping you out here. Its too bad you dont have any classes with him, but do you have any classes with any of his friends? Why not try becoming friendly with someone he is close to cause it might be easier for you to open up to someone else since you get so nervous around this guy you like. Does he play any sports? You could attend one of his games and if you see him before the game maybe just give him a "good luck" or something. That casual and at least you could break the ice. Just remember though that everything happens for a reason and if it doesn't work out then it doesn't and there are plenty of other fish in the sea :)
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15/f
i am about 5'5" or 6" and i'm like 120 pounds so i'm pretty average. i really like this dress and would like to get it for homecoming. if i do get it i'm buying it online so i was wondering if you think it would be too short on someone like me? i know dresses from these types of places tend to be really short.
http://www.charlotterusse.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3227306&cp=2843536.2744998&parentPage=family
or if you have any other places online i can get a dress for under 30 dollars that would be great! thanks (link)
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i bet it would look great! but if you want to check something else out, then Urban Outfitters online or Forever 21 online or Victorias Secret clearence dresses online.
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well when i was in highschool i remember just being able to stay for days on a go without sleep... i used to be able to manage school homework activities etc and still felt i wasn't bz enough... now i am in college (my fourth year!) and i seem to be getting worse. it started in freshman year where i couldn't go on without sleep. and i couldn't do half as much work and my grades started to plummet and i am not as productive!!! its gotten so bad that i would just ignore everything and type up a paper (that is soooo horrible!) 2 hours before its due... i can't focus and i feel tiered and as though i can't think or my brain is not working! i thought it was just the change and my mental state.... but now i am beginning to think there is something physically wrong with me :s any suggestions ? or am i just lazy/crazy? (link)
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quit partyin'! haha just kidding. basically you need sleep and organization. your mind must be wondering a lot if you really cant focus on your school work. have you even stopped and thought about what was on your mind? stress is a very intense thing and DOES effect you physically. you need a day of rest and relaxation. and if there is something on your mind thats bothering you, keep a journal and write stuff down or talk to someone about your problems. sounds corny and stuff but it actually helps a lot. like a load has been lifted from your shoulders. just remember that you are almost done with it so just stick it out a lil longer and try your best. it will be worth it in the end. you dont wanna look back and regret.
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OK so im a 13/f. Im about 5'6. Im a soccer player and im really active. And i weigh about 158 pound. And i wear like a size 13 in jeans. Well people say i look about 120 and people think i wear a size like 6 or 7 jeans. And i mean i dont look fat or anything. but i do weigh alot. and its because my legs are huge. And there only alittle fat. and i havent lost my babyfta on my tummy area. What can i do to get ride of it fast.
P.S. I also have a big butt and umm a full chest i guess you could say. So not all my weigh is like fat. Thank ya! (link)
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drink ONLY water. its just a simple step that actually makes a big difference. sugary drinks like sodas and some juices just sit in your tummy and add to your weight while water you just piss right out! doesnt sound like it would make a big difference but along with eating right and workin out, drinking ONLY water all the time will speed up the process. and DO NOT eat late at night. like never past 8. just try to get into a routine if you are gonna work out. and im not sure if you would be interested but dance is a quick way to loose weight and its a full body work out. oh and also it sounds like you are very muscular and strong, so more cardio would probably be better to burn fat.. no muscle building for you haha
good luck
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Last year I tried hard to make new friends and I did. I met this guy Jacques who is great because his nerdish ways don't make me seem so weird.
The bad thing is my female best friend and he started dated. And at first everything was great I was so happy for them and I still am especially for him because he is head over hills in love I mean its sad how fast he falls.
I noticed her getting weary everytime either of us mentioned each others names. And after both of our attempts to make sure she knew what we knew and that is we are in no way attracted to each other.
She said it might be easier if he and I stopped talking. But, it turned into her and I not talking any more. Mostly because of my hate o the way she acts. She'll say she hates when he talks to other girls but then he'll turn around and pass her phone number off to any guy that asks. She never talks about how she's feeling about our friendship well not to me anyway and that's just retarded because no one else can tell you how I think, to think all the years we've been friends she would have heard some of the things I said about honesty and communication I've dropped a good amount of friends because they weren't honest with me. Plus the fact that she's always trying to hook me up with other guys, not that its a bad thing, what's bad is she waits til I find a guy I really like and all of a sudden becomes WAY to friendly with them. I mean talking to them more than I do. And to be honest I'm sick of it. Always being played the fool while she talks about me to other people. I'm so sick of trying and on top of it all this is my senior year. I've decided to write her off from me. Because, I won't be happy with fakeness around me and senior year is all about being happy , loving your last year.
I found some new friends, but I stuck in the making close friends department. Any ideas on how to reel them in. (link)
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sounds like a very insecure girl. VERY insecure. your friend is jealous of you and its completely obvious. i know how you feel, even to this day i really dont have any close girl friends because girls are just so crazy! its hard to get close with any girl friends when you have had so many bad experiences with them. i say just let things roll. and dont let the little things bug you. also, dont change for other people. its not worth it. once you graduate, you will meet lots of new people and be able to start all over again in the friend department. try to be relatively outgoing and friendly to everyone and suggest fun things to do.
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i have a perfect figure and body etc and I'm happy with it, the only problem is that, i have this like fate or something on the sides of my belly button. its like a lower belly fat thing, i don't know how to work it out and lose it. and help would really help. :) thanks. (link)
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there are so many different work outs for lower abs and the lower stomach area. like laying on your back and putting your hands under your bum and lowering your legs till your feet are like 6 inches off the ground. hold it there for like 15 second reps and then bring your legs up for a break inbetween. another is simple crunches with your knees up. or laying on your back and bringing your legs straight up and crossing them and then lifting your bum and legs off the ground straight up using your lower abs. this i find really effective. you can really feel it working.
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Hey.
So I'm turning 15 and a half sept. 23rd. and I would really like to get my temps. My mom has no problem with it, but my dad does. He says I should'nt get them until I'm 16, because thats when he got his. Well I want to get a part-time job next summer, and i dont see why i cant start driving, like practicing! I'll have to wait like 6 months anyway to get my liscense and i need like 50 hours. And I've driven before and I'm ok with it. How do I convince my dad to let me get my temps? Please help!
thanks!
15/f/usa/ohio (link)
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A good point to make to your dad is the more practice you get driving, the better driver you will become and the safer you will be. I have a friend who didnt drive much before she took her drivers ed course and she was and still is a TERRIBLE drive haha. Practice is very important. The more experience the better.
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17/f
I like this guy and we "talked" for a week over the summer. But, then we quit because he got busy, etc. Anyways, he would flirt with me this year a lot and then i found out he got a girlfriend over the weekend so i was sad but i realized people move on. Even though he was cute...but anyways, ever since he got a girlfriend, he dosen't hug me or text me anymore. Oh, also he dosen't know i know. Should i text him and be like "so how are you and your girlfriend?" I want him to know that i know but ever since he got a girlfriend, he dosen't hardly talk to me and he dosen't reply to my texts messages. What should i do? (link)
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are you sure he doesnt know you know about his new girl? cause maybe he thinks you are pissed off at him because he basically led you on and then went off with another girl. he probably feels bad but by ignoring you he can avoid controversy. also maybe his girlfriend is over protective or something and he doesnt want to chat with you or anything because she might get upset about it. you never know whats going through another persons head. if he really doesnt know you know, then maybe he doesnt want to talk or hug you because he wants you out of sight and out of mind.. as in he doesnt wanna flirt or fall for you again. its complicated but i dont think it has anything to do with anything you did wrong. just another stupid boy doing stupid things.
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