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My best friend's(ex) jealously.
Last year I tried hard to make new friends and I did. I met this guy Jacques who is great because his nerdish ways don't make me seem so weird.
The bad thing is my female best friend and he started dated. And at first everything was great I was so happy for them and I still am especially for him because he is head over hills in love I mean its sad how fast he falls.
I noticed her getting weary everytime either of us mentioned each others names. And after both of our attempts to make sure she knew what we knew and that is we are in no way attracted to each other.
She said it might be easier if he and I stopped talking. But, it turned into her and I not talking any more. Mostly because of my hate o the way she acts. She'll say she hates when he talks to other girls but then he'll turn around and pass her phone number off to any guy that asks. She never talks about how she's feeling about our friendship well not to me anyway and that's just retarded because no one else can tell you how I think, to think all the years we've been friends she would have heard some of the things I said about honesty and communication I've dropped a good amount of friends because they weren't honest with me. Plus the fact that she's always trying to hook me up with other guys, not that its a bad thing, what's bad is she waits til I find a guy I really like and all of a sudden becomes WAY to friendly with them. I mean talking to them more than I do. And to be honest I'm sick of it. Always being played the fool while she talks about me to other people. I'm so sick of trying and on top of it all this is my senior year. I've decided to write her off from me. Because, I won't be happy with fakeness around me and senior year is all about being happy , loving your last year.
I found some new friends, but I stuck in the making close friends department. Any ideas on how to reel them in.
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sounds like a very insecure girl. VERY insecure. your friend is jealous of you and its completely obvious. i know how you feel, even to this day i really dont have any close girl friends because girls are just so crazy! its hard to get close with any girl friends when you have had so many bad experiences with them. i say just let things roll. and dont let the little things bug you. also, dont change for other people. its not worth it. once you graduate, you will meet lots of new people and be able to start all over again in the friend department. try to be relatively outgoing and friendly to everyone and suggest fun things to do.
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I know how you feel and people like her are honestly stupid. To the point of where you would love to punch them. People get so jealous and greedy fast. In fact, today in Japanese I was asked a question: "What is the worst attribute of people?" and I responded "greed" and I mean that in more ways than just money.
People let too much air consume their brain and then they turn into that.
Anyways...You should be yourself and what I mean about that is mention something to them about what you like when you talk. Such as when they talke about movies or tv, even music. Put in a comment like "Yeah, they're good but I prefer -name of whatever-"
Just try to carry on a converstation with them with comments of your own but not to the entent where it seems that only yourself is talking lol.
-KD/f/15
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