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sex for the first time
okaaaay so theres this guy josh. hes my best frend n weve been going out for a few weeks. he talked about us having sex even before we were going out. i really love him and i have for a while cuz hes my best frend n i tell him everything. ive never really been comfrtable enuff around a guy to do anything past make out but i really wanna feel comfortable about having sex n giving blow jobs n stuff. do you know any ways to help with this? feeling more comfortable around guys? and also my boyfrend has an 11 inch dick n im a virgin. would that hurt really bad n wat wud it feel like? how long do i have to keep it in for while having sex? thanks for your advice!!!!!! i really appreciate it!!!!!
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IDK wat to tell u but, to be honest if your hear asking for advice on that then your probably not ready for it, dont let him rush you into it. You'll know when your ready, when the answers that you just asked, come to you without someone else telling you.
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lmfzo. Did he tell you he has an 11 inch penis, or have you seen it? Haha, guys lie.
Either or, it hurts. Like hell. The second time and the third time, too. It takes time to start not hurting.
Also, "dating for a few weeks" and "love him" should never be used in the same sentance. Love takes time. Having sex too early in a relationship kills it. It's proven, the sooner you fuck, the sooner you split. Fact.
It sounds like he just wants to get down your pants, in all honesty. Don't give him that if YOU aren't 100% ready. I know people say this all the time, but it's true, you'll always be attached to your first.
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sex hurts darling.
im sorry but whether he is a foot long or an inch, sex hurts pretty much for the first few times. i think you get more comfortable with it when the timing is right, if its the right guy, if you're prepared.
i mean, i could make you upset, but it doesn't sound like you're ready. Im not saying im a pro because i havent had sex either but a LOT of my best friends have and from what they told me, the first time is usually more for his pleasure than yours.
making things more comfortable?
make sure you've got protection and the pill, you really really like the guy (preferably love), and that you're not rushing into it. Really, there's no deadline for these kinds of things. I'm not going to judge you if you chose to have sex. i dont know you or your boyfriend so i could be really wrong.
If i were you, i would make sure i was doing it for me, and not to make him happy. theres no shame in waiting until you're both ready, and in the mean time theres no rules against fooling around ;)
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Your boyfriend is blessed haha. But idk what i can tell you about what it will feel like, but your probly gonna have to keep it in until he "finishes."
Unless it hurts THAT bad. again idk if it will im a guy. But most likely after you have sex you will already feel more comfortable about it, so don't worry about that.
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