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Member Since: September 4, 2008
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well me and this guy having known eachother for about two-three years, and whenever we first hung out we hung out almost every single day, or at least tried to. we both liked eachother, but it's just one of those situations where for some reason, it didn't happen. shame shame.

so there's always been a kind of thing there between us that's never left.


well he lives in my area now and school and everything, and i got really excited, and it seems like i saw/talked to him more whenever he DIDN'T live near me then now that he does! i don't know if it's just he's focused on making new friends ( even though he already knows alot of people there, probably more people than i even do ), or if he's just being a typical guy who doesn't sweat on stuff like that, whereas, i'm a girl, i can't help it. but in the halls he'll be standing with his friends, i walk by kind of obviously, and i get no sign of acknowledgement or anything. whenever i walked with my friends, i assumed maybe he didn't want to interrupt me and my friends conversation or something, but even when i walk alone i don't get a "hello" or anything.


my friend suggests that maybe he's really shy around me cause he has feelings for me again or something, but i denied that fact because before whenever he liked me, he straight out told me. so i don't know why he'd get all shy on me now. he's a pretty outgoing person.


i've asked him to hang out numerous times, and half the time he doesn't answer back ( i believe this is just a stupid thing he does, cause he's done that as long as i've known him ). it'll be like "hey, wanna hang out today?" "i don't work today, so yeah." and then he never mentions about picking me up, so the hang out never happens.


i just don't know if he's like, moved on from me ( and i don't even mean romantically, just full-on doesn't want to hang with me anymore ) or if this is just typically guy stuff. i've just done nothing wrong to him for this kind of stuff to be happening, and it's bugging me. (link)
Im sure its just a phase or maybe he is into someone else. He could have feelings for you again but maybe he has a feeling that you like someone else or someone else likes you and he just doesnt want to get in the way of that beacuse he just wants you to be happy.


so for about a year or so i've had somewhat of a sweating problem
its not disgusting
i just can't wear tight tee shirts
or long sleeves
without getting small sweatmarks
im 15/f
my mom said it was a "phase"
but im tired of having to monitor what i wear

any help? (link)
I Know you probably already have, but you could try lots of different anti-perspirant sprays and deoderant. You could also wear white or black T-shirts as you can never really see sweat stains in those colours.


i was best friends with this girl for two years then this summer i started like kissing guys and experimenting with new things. and shes telling people i changed and how she doesnt want to be my firend. she wont come to me and talk about it and i already asked her if shes pissed at me and she says no and was nice to me in school but i still feel like were not the same as we use to be. i dont know hwat to do because i am still me and she as my firned should not judge me and if she has a problem she should talk to me!

am i wrong?

what do id o (link)
You are definately not in the wrong, it is your best friend that is. If she cant accept who you are then thats her problem and her loss, im sure she would be losing a great friend. If anything she isnt pissed off with you, she is jelous of you maybe because she is to scared to go as far as you have been with boys? Anyway i hope this helped Good Luck x




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