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so this girl was my best friend
i was best friends with this girl for two years then this summer i started like kissing guys and experimenting with new things. and shes telling people i changed and how she doesnt want to be my firend. she wont come to me and talk about it and i already asked her if shes pissed at me and she says no and was nice to me in school but i still feel like were not the same as we use to be. i dont know hwat to do because i am still me and she as my firned should not judge me and if she has a problem she should talk to me!
am i wrong?
what do id o
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Well I don't think you are doing anything wrong and if she's your true friend this change wouldn't bother her. If you guys have beebn friends for a long time then I'm guessing she is scared that you are changing into a whole new person and perhaps she doesn't want you to. That, of course, doesn't change the fact that you are changing and you just need to honestly sit down with her and talk to her about this change you are going through. If she's really your friend she'll understand, but give her some time to adjust.
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You are definately not in the wrong, it is your best friend that is. If she cant accept who you are then thats her problem and her loss, im sure she would be losing a great friend. If anything she isnt pissed off with you, she is jelous of you maybe because she is to scared to go as far as you have been with boys? Anyway i hope this helped Good Luck x
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