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is this an excuse??
I am thirteen years old and I am a girl. For those of you that have read my previous questions you know that I have a kind of interesting thing going on with the boy I like. If you haven't, I'll catch you up. So I have liked this boy (lets call him nick) for a while now we are good friends and we talk a lot, especially online. Recently though, he been blocking me on IM frequently and I couldn't really understand why. When I asked him about it he told me that his friends were really starting to bug him about us "being together" and he thought that maybe it had something to do with us talking so much. So that's why he kept blocking me, but what I don't understand his how his friends know we talk so much. Does this mean he has been disscussing me with his friends... And is this a good thing? After he told me this he claimed that he didn't care anymore. So the blocking stopped for awhile and I thought everything was fine, but I guess not because I just found out today that he blocked me again!!! I don't know what to think because if he doesnt like me like I like him and he's blocking me to get his friends to stop bugging him, then I can't really be mad at him can I? But what if he does like me? Should I accept this as an excuse? I really really like this boy but I don't know if its worth all this confusion. I really think he might like me... Ugh I am so confused, can anyone see what's going on??
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IM is one tricky thing to work with! you cant verify somebodys mental,emotional, and physical feelings! my little tip- use the telephone! happy holidays!!!!!!
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Edit: I am so sorry, you are very right for the mostpart :-) but I do have to say if he likes you then he should still not be blocking you. hope this helped a little more than my last answer!
I can tell you right now, your probably not going to like to hear this, but any guy that has a problem with what his friends say and any guy that blocks his own girlfriend on aim is not a true boyfriend. I know he might be nice, but I would wait for a really nice guy to come along that appreciates you. Besides, you are only thirteen, there are plenttyyyy of fish in the sea! :-) Not to menchon that he probably is talking about you to his guy friends (which is normal) but what is he saying exactaly? we dont know. You could always have a serious conversation about this too with him, to find out what is really going on, no lying. But you need to do something, this kid is a little sketchy if you ask me :-) Good luck, and please let me know how this all works out for you! you can contact me on my advice column, xosodapopx3 good luck again, and happy holidays :-)
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