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am i being ridiculous here??
Posted Tuesday December 30 2008, 10:05 pm
ook. so. im 18/f and my boyfriend is almost 19. we were together a year & a half broke up for awhile and now we've been back together for a few months. ok so some time before we got back together i was looking through his phone [which he doesn't like but he's done it to me and i usually have to beg him to let me see it which automatically makes me suspicious but im pretty positive he wouldnt cheat on me but still. and even if i just want to see it to put a banner on there or look at pictures or anything it's not like i go out of my way to spy on me i pretty much trust him] ANYWAYS his brother and cousins and friends would send him those forwarded texts that have the nude or topless girls or even girls that supposedly are "his broth...
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I think Im over him..
Posted Tuesday December 30 2008, 8:12 pm
I think Im over him but Im not sure... Somedays I can't stop thinking about him.. Somedays I don't think about him.. How do I knw If I am REALLY over him??
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is he using me?
Posted Tuesday December 30 2008, 6:38 pm
so this guy and I went out for a really long time/abt a year. we broke up and its been four months and his girl cheated on him now he's running to me....He tells me that he would think of me a lot when he was with other girls...i don't know wether or not to believe him....i'm not sure if he's running back because he realizes what he lost, or is because he's just tryna forget about his ex through me.....i decided that i don't wanna be involved with him in that relationship way ever again because its too much....What do you guys think about this situation?
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?
Posted Tuesday December 30 2008, 6:12 pm
16/girl.
This boy at the grocery stores, always like stares at me & then looks down. & its every time I go there. & he stares at me for a long period of time.. so i think he likes me? wouldn't you think so?
Anyway, he seems really shy. I don't know how to like get it to go anywhere..
Any help?
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He's starting to scare me...
Posted Tuesday December 30 2008, 2:04 pm
So this guy has a crush on me and he's not afraid to show it. He's starting to scare me... He asked me to homecoming and i said no because i had this date...he immediatly sign out of msn and then at school he looked pissed and he was like so who asked you before me and stuff and i told him and hes like why him hes a jerk!a jackass! i just walked away. Well the truth box thing on myspace.he keeps putting these scary messages on mine and its starting to scare me and my mom.I want to tell him i dont like him like that(because i dont!) and how he should stop with these messages. I told my older brothers and they theyll talk to him. But if dont want this to turn into one of those "if i cant have you no one else can!" sorta thing.....a...
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My boyfriend is neglectful and mentally abusive
Posted Tuesday December 30 2008, 12:29 pm
My boyfriend doesnt call me when I ask him too. He always yells at me about something. He hurts my feelings 24/7 and expects me to wait on him hand and foot. I do everything for him and yet that still isnt enough. everything he has iv bought it. I feel worthless and I get stressed out with him and we get into screaming fights because he wont let me do what I want but I have to let him do what he wants. He used to be friends with this guy and I cheated on my boyfriend with him like 2 years ago. I know it was wrong and I admitted it but this "friend" of his keeps lying to him. and everyone thinks im the liar. What should I do?
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is my boyfriend controlling or not
Posted Tuesday December 30 2008, 12:10 pm
me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months now he wants me to give up some of my closest friends and family and even worst he trys and forces me to have sex when i say no more then 5 times he acts all sad and i give in why does he do this to me i really love my boyfriend but im thinkin of starting the new year right by telling him good bye i moved in with him a month after we started going out i think thats what messed up our realtionship but im not really sure i want to fix things with him what should i do or should i just leave it alone?
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Should I end it?
Posted Tuesday December 30 2008, 12:46 am
We have been together 10 months. After 3 months we told each other we love each other. 2 days ago he told me he didn't know whether or not he was in love with me anymore. he still wants to be with me, and let me just say that saying i'm madly in love with him is an understatement. should we end it or wait this out?
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mixed signals
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 11:26 pm
okayy i really like this guy and he knows i liek him but some people say that he does liek me and some people say he doesnt.... and i reaaly want to find out if he doesn or dosent i know everyone thinks that i should just go up to him in person and ask him but i cant do that...... what do i do?
thanks
loveboys
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" i like you "
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 9:54 pm
is there any good way to tell someone you like them without straight up saying i like you? i think it would just be random, and i'm 18 and have never told ANYONE ive liked them before but i've decided i need to tell this boy. i've liked him for three years now !! its a confusing situation but i just dont want to be random about it so id like to know how people have told others they've liked them, and how it worked out :) thanks!
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Drunken misdoings.
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 8:17 pm
I was at my friend's house last night, and we and his sister and a few friends were knocking some drinks back. By the end of the night I fell asleep in his sister's room before she got there but she slept on the bed anyways. Now I'm a 17 year old male and she's a 15 year old girl... we started having a conversation which led to a kiss, which led to other things. By the time we were finished I had eaten her out, and that's where it ended. There's obviously a lot of ackwardness and her brother/my friend doesn't know. I would appreciate anybody who could help in what to say to her about it and note that I do like this girl quite a bit I don't think she feels the same way... i just need to know what I should say to her thank you.
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College.
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 8:17 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over two years, and we're both seniors in high school. We're planning on going to the same college, (a college that offers things for both of us, just in case something does happen to our relationship.) Lately I've been slightly concerned about how the drastic change in school, social life, and scenery is going to effect us once we're in college. If anyone has been in this situation, I'd like some advice as to how it worked out for you, and how you dealt with it.
Thanks
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Hard to decide.
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 5:19 pm
15/f
So I just broke up with this guy after 4 months, well he broke up with me. But Im not totally over him but Im starting to get over him. I have had my eye on this kid Andrew for a couple months now, I havent liked him for that long I just thought he was a really good person and hes cute. I am not positive how he feels about me, he acts like my friend but the second I broke up with my EX I found out Andrew wasnt gonna ask the girl he liked out anymore. I am not sure what might be going on. I wanna tell him I like him but Im really nervous and am afraid of what he will say or do. Plus he promised me he wouldnt go out with her.
please tell me what I should do.
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drunken night
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 4:59 pm
Ok I have known this guy for about 5 years,but really have been talking a lot the past year and a half. We have hung out only a few times and the other night we was sittin in the car drinking and the cops came so he was like elts go inside the house.While in the car he was talking about his new years resolution being not sleeping with a girl while hes been drinking a lot because he loses the girls friendship. I ended up hanging out there all night and I had to take my friend home...she borrowed my car to see a friend we was layin on the couch then went to his bed and he was like I want you to stay..but its up to you. And on and off waitin for my friend he was outside smoking and hes hugged me hes like I have known you for a year I can atlea...
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Valentine's Day Gifts for My Boyfriend
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 4:18 pm
Okay so I realize it's a little early to be worrying about Valentine's Day gifts but I really want to do something big this year and I need to start thinking of ideas now. My boyfriend is nineteen years old and I am making him a Valentine's Day gift basket. I'm also cooking him dinner. The basket can be as small or as large as it needs to be, depending on how many things I can think to put in it. Basically I'm looking for additional ideas on what to put in it besides what I already have and any other not too expensive gifts. For the basket I'm already making him heart shaped chocolates, a card, a poem, a framed picture of me and a photo snapbook of about twenty of our pictures. I would like to do a little coupon book for him as well with co...
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Traumatic Jealousy
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 2:27 pm
17/f.
Hey everyone. Just a little background info : I've been in a relationship for about a year and a month... prior to this relationship, my history is horrible. A bunch of liars, cheaters, and disgusting people. I had put my trust in them, and all for nothing... But now, I can say i am in a relationship with a real guy. We have our fights, or moody days, but all in all we have been through much, and we still havent given up. Currently, I'm trying to work on my trust issues and jealous. Lets just say I am an emotional wreck... I get jealous at just the thought of him talking to a female friend instead of me. I wish i weren't this way, no one deserves it =/ any advice? this jealousy has taken me over. part of me is so insecure and l...
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THE GUY I LOVE VS. THE GUY THAT IS RIGHT FOR ME???
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 1:04 pm
I am Lucy and iam 20 Years old i have never had a serious, long term relationship,now that I am throwen between 2 guys that i have a lot of potential with.I find myself confused and i don't know what to do. need advice... heres background info on them.
candidate#1 ADVANTAGES: 1.know him for a year, have really good conversation with him 2. he is very understanding and easy going, know A lot more about me than anyonElse. 3. he has made me understand that he has never met anyone like me and wants to have a future with me.DISADVANTAGES: 1.he is eight years older than me witch is not that bad 2.At the time being we both live in differnt states, hes in texas and iam in arizona.3 he has a child already,with doesnt bother me at all but to m...
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I think i was used...help
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 8:24 am
16/f
about two weekends ago i was at my friends house and her brother and his friend who are both freshman were there. we had a lot of fun and just watched movies and stuff, i met her brother and his friend there for the first time. well a week after that my friend told me that her brother's friend, jef, really liked me and said all of these things about me that i was really hot and had a good body ..he asked if she had any naked pictures of me, he asked as a joke but i think he was serious..that kind of make me ..eh. but anyways so then he asked for my number and it was good. then he never texted me so i was confused..so i went on facebook and IMed him then he was asking how far ive gone, and when i said 2nd i dont think he was too ...
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friends. attraction
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 5:31 am
i was previously engaged and he cheated on me so we broke up. well i grew up with this guy and we were close up until last summer and then we stopped talking because he started dating one of my "acquaintances" well they broke up around the same time we did and for the past month we have been hanging out a lot. we went hiking today and it was so peaceful. well tonight we both admitted there is something there. i dont know if i should open myself up to that again. neither of us want a serious relationship. we arent ready but we need each other to lean on seeing as how we are going through the same situation.
should i continue being his good friend or should we have a fun friendship/kinda relationship?
like hike and go ...
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almost 5 years.[sorry so long.]
Posted Sunday December 28 2008, 9:21 pm
i actually have an account here at advicenators.but sometimes a girl can't figure out her own problems and needs help.so...im sixteen and almost 17...and iv been dating the same guy for almost 5 years.hes 18 and his name is khale.
uhm we havent been together the whole almost 5 years.iv dated other boys and hes dated other girls.but we always ended up back together.hes the first and only boy i have ever loved and im not sure what to do anymore.
hes recently been getting better...but be for in the past we always use to brake up then argue more then out of no where everything would be fine and we would get back together.
well recently i met this boy named julius and it turned out him and khale were bestfriends.me and this ...
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