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Drunken misdoings.
I was at my friend's house last night, and we and his sister and a few friends were knocking some drinks back. By the end of the night I fell asleep in his sister's room before she got there but she slept on the bed anyways. Now I'm a 17 year old male and she's a 15 year old girl... we started having a conversation which led to a kiss, which led to other things. By the time we were finished I had eaten her out, and that's where it ended. There's obviously a lot of ackwardness and her brother/my friend doesn't know. I would appreciate anybody who could help in what to say to her about it and note that I do like this girl quite a bit I don't think she feels the same way... i just need to know what I should say to her thank you.
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Well I think she must have something for you too, if you guys went that far.
I think you should just really talk to her, & tell her how you feel, I bet you'll be nervous but I mean, us girls think it's cute when a guy expresses his feelings, expecially the goood ones.
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Well, first you could say how you feel about
her. that will always lead to a good sign
most of the time.
this actually happened to my cousin.
so i do have experience in this
really good.
tell her that your so sorry... say that if i hurt you i had no attentions to. if you never want to
talk to me again. i will understand.
now if you are telling her brother.
then just tell him basically the same thing
and like say i hope like i didnt disrespect you.
and tell him that you have feelings for her.
and i isnt like just to get lucky.
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Drunk Actions and Words our sober thoughts. She obvious has some feelings toward you to some degree. Ask her how she feels about you or what she thought about that night. Tell her you think shes beautiful etc.
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She likes you to some degree, though I must admit the ridiculously casual nature of sexual contact between kids your age these days... Its kinda sad how intimacy has become akin to shaking hands among teens...
Anyway. Get her alone and ask her if she'd like to be taken out on a date. Just plain ask her, whack her over the head with it (metaphorically). In this case, considering what has happened, blunt boldness will probably net a more positive reaction.
So ask her if she's interested in going to dinner and a movie or something with you. Ask her with a tone that says "I'm interested, but its not going to break my heart if you say no"
Don't be disinterested, but don't be sensitive or weepy. Just tell her in plain english that what happened was a surprise, but you have more interest in her than sex and you would like to take her out on a date if she feels the same way. Get to know her.
If she says yes, talk to her about her brother and how to break it. If she says no, then just ask her if this can remain between her and you, and don't tell anyone yourself.
And I wouldn't recommend any more drunken hook ups. The night of is rarely if ever worth the morning after.
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is she almost 16 or close to being 16 at all? 15 just sounds young but really its not a huge difference at all. if you like her then maybe you should try to talk to her. if she hooked up with you she probably does like you at least somewhat! you need to talk to her because since you're older shes probably intimidated and doesnt think YOU are interested in her and doesnt want to show that she is interested in you and look like a fool if you dont like her
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