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is my boyfriend controlling or not
me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months now he wants me to give up some of my closest friends and family and even worst he trys and forces me to have sex when i say no more then 5 times he acts all sad and i give in why does he do this to me i really love my boyfriend but im thinkin of starting the new year right by telling him good bye i moved in with him a month after we started going out i think thats what messed up our realtionship but im not really sure i want to fix things with him what should i do or should i just leave it alone?
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Wow.
I can't even begin to give you advice to fix how you got into this in the first place, but it would be smart to find a way to move out, and break up.
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It doesn't sound like he's doing anything to try to make you stay.
It's not healthy for you, mentally, physically, and emotionally, for him to try to keep your family away from you.
If he forces you to have sex with him, when he KNOWS clearly that you don't want to, that should be a wide eyed alarm to get the hell out of there!
Yes, moving in after only a month was a terrible mistake. It takes a little over two months, for a couple to completely come out of their shell, and then they usually start having arguments.
My advice, leave him, before it gets worse.
If your afraid of leaving him, because you think he could be somewhat dangerous, have some of your family to come with you while you remove your stuff. He can't STOP you from leaving him, and right now, leaving him sounds like the best thing for you to do.
Goodluck, hope I helped!
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You are miserable. If you just leave it alone you are going to get more miserable.
You moved in togeather in a rush and now you find him demanding and controlling. That is probably not a relationship that is going to be fixable, and really, it's not like you've devoted years to this guy. You've practically only just met him. Now you don't like him as you get to know him. If I were you, I'd just end it.
This isn't just a lover's spat, it's who he is, and you think who he is sucks.
Look for somewhere else to live and just cut ties with him. There doesn't sound like there is anything worthwhile keeping you with him.
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