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is he using me?
so this guy and I went out for a really long time/abt a year. we broke up and its been four months and his girl cheated on him now he's running to me....He tells me that he would think of me a lot when he was with other girls...i don't know wether or not to believe him....i'm not sure if he's running back because he realizes what he lost, or is because he's just tryna forget about his ex through me.....i decided that i don't wanna be involved with him in that relationship way ever again because its too much....What do you guys think about this situation?
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no he is not using you. he lost his security.so he is seeking it at the least resistent place-you.Cut your losses move on why be hurt all over again.You will have love be patient
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I think that you are right, nobody can know what his true intentions were, but it seems like it could be a combination of both missing out on you and getting over his ex. In my opinion, I think he needs to take some time off from having a girlfriend, and see, for sure, if he still truely misses you. And if he does want you back, and you want him back, then that will have to be a mutual decision between the both of you to get back together, but if you still dont want to get involved than thats a bit of tough luck. It seems like you have the situation under control, and I think you are doing the right thing. (Although, nobody on advicenators can tell you what to do, I can very well give my opinion.) Good luck, let me know how it goes for you!
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