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My boyfriend is neglectful and mentally abusive
My boyfriend doesnt call me when I ask him too. He always yells at me about something. He hurts my feelings 24/7 and expects me to wait on him hand and foot. I do everything for him and yet that still isnt enough. everything he has iv bought it. I feel worthless and I get stressed out with him and we get into screaming fights because he wont let me do what I want but I have to let him do what he wants. He used to be friends with this guy and I cheated on my boyfriend with him like 2 years ago. I know it was wrong and I admitted it but this "friend" of his keeps lying to him. and everyone thinks im the liar. What should I do?
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jirst of all i am going to keep it real ,straigtht to the ?????? point
get the ???? away from him , now its mentallly. then physically, i been there done that LEAVE
there are aways other guys for you , you don't need that from anyone....
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It sounds to me like your question has already been answered in itself. This guy is a jackass, you don't need an advice site to point that out.
Yeah, its going to be hard- I get it. But this guy doesn't need to be in your life. If you're in a relationship and a guy makes you feel worthless-get out. No body deserves to feel like they're not worthy, especially when it comes to love.
You can't change peoples' minds if they assume you're a liar. They've heard what they've heard. Now, you can just focus on always telling the truth until things blow over. Eventually, one day you can tell people "Yeah, the guy took things too far and made up some lies. It sucked a lot, but its life and I'm glad you trust me again."
Good luck
Kymmy :)
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Are you serious? Who does this guy think he is? You diserve so much better. Let this guy have his friend and leave. If he hurts you this bad then being alone would be better. Besides no person was brought in to this world to go through what your going through. Leave this guy. Your to good for him
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Obviously it would be crazy to be with somebody, if they treated you like that!
If my boyfriend didn't call me when I asked, there would either be some serious problems, or he would have to be seriously sick! Don't you get tired of someone always yelling at you, and putting you down?
You and me both know, you don't want to be with this guy, and you don't need to get on some advice column for us to tell you. Its not fair that you have to do what he says, and he can do whatever he wants.
When I was in the seventh grade, I was in a relationship like this.
They suck! & Usually the guy comes crawling back.
You need to break up with him, and when he comes back tell him why you broke up with him and you dont want to be with him. He should believe you over his friends if he really cares about you.
Don't put yourself through this any longer, end this, before it gets worse.
Hope I helped!
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I agree with them.
If he is hurting you...you shouldn't stay with him. He has no right to do that to you. Plus he shouldn't expect you to do all of that for him. If you dump him and he asks why give him the facts. I wouldn't put up with it either.
As for his friend...he should believe you over his friend. Which is another reason you should break up with him.
Hope this helps. =]
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Rahzie has allready said what was on my mind about this.
a relationship should be an enjoyable expirience between the 2 individuals. if its one sided (ie: you having to do what he wants all the time) thats more of a jail sentance than anythig. you dont need his shit.. break free, dump him if he wants to change then at least let him try but for gods sake dont take him back and let him go back to being how he is now.
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Dump him.
Obviously you want to dump him. You don't need us to tell you so. Just do it.
Start to organize whatever you need too, living arrangements or things like that, and then move on. It's over. Done. You don't care anymore. You want out. It's not fixable. So dump him.
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