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Should I end it?
We have been together 10 months. After 3 months we told each other we love each other. 2 days ago he told me he didn't know whether or not he was in love with me anymore. he still wants to be with me, and let me just say that saying i'm madly in love with him is an understatement. should we end it or wait this out?
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To put it simply:
If you are madly in love with him, don't throw it all away without properly trying.
Your boyfriend may be confused, stressed with things going on his life lately and now he could be beginning to question his relationship with you. We can't say for sure why he's being this way, but if he wants you to still be together, it shows there's hope and he's willing to work on it - and so should you.
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This is a personal call.
A random stranger on an advice site can't magically give you an answer that's going to make everything perfect in this relationship again. Not to be rude, I'm just giving you a realist expectation for anyone's answer.
My personal opinion, give it a little time. Maybe he's just hit a rough spot, no need to get hasty and dramatic and throw everything away on a whim. I'd say 2-3weeks.
There is always the "break". Personally, I'm not a fan. With my breakups, I've experienced that I have to be completely isolated from the guy in order for me to find out if I really want another shot or not.
So, like I said. Give it a little time. 2-3 weeks, see how things are. If he's still undecided, you should call things off. It wouldn't be fair for you to be stuck in a one-way relationship. No one should be put in that situation.
Maybe once you two spend time apart or with other people, it'll become more evident what you both desire. To be together-or to move on?
Good luck.
Kymmy :)
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hey!
well he must really like you or kind of love you in some kind or way because he still wants to be with you.but you need to think about you and your feelings, you dont want to keep falling more for him and him not fall anymore in love with you and him end up braking your heart.
things always get worse before they get better.
and some things have to fall out of place so other things can fall into place.
-hope i helped.
Sarah
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I agree with Jack: wait it out. Relationships have ups and downs, and just because you're having some "down" time doesn't mean you should give up entirely.
-Laura (16-f)
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Wait it out. You're only teenagers. Love is something that's hard to comprehend and hard to grasp.
So wait it out. Let him sort out his feelings without pressure.
--Jack
(17/m)
Happy New Year! =]
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