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spicing things up
Posted Sunday January 4 2009, 7:32 pm
when me and my boyfriend both have no shirts on and are making out or dry humping...what things can i do to spice it up?
17/f
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I want to sleep with more than one guy--does this make me a slut?
Posted Sunday January 4 2009, 4:40 pm
I'm 26. For ages I've stayed a virgin for a number of reasons, but finally I decided I wanted to sleep with a guy I just started seeing. He knew I was a virgin and after only seeing each other a few times we had sex. He's been really sweet. However, I got out of a bad relationship a few months ago and was really hurt emotionally. I'd made a mental pact to date more than one guy once I started dating again, just for my own self-preservation. So now that I am dating again, there are a few guys that have asked me out. I'm interested to date 3 guys at once, but have to wonder, now that I'm sleeping with one (using protection and on birth control), what if I want to sleep with the other two guys? Would that make me a slut?
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Why does he keep doing this to me...sorry for the length
Posted Sunday January 4 2009, 3:29 pm
I know i have been sending a lot of questions related to this, but right now this is really bothering me and im sorry for bringing it up again.
also i apologize for how long this is going to be
to sum things up, about a month ago i was at my friend's house and her brother who happens to be a freshman was there along with his friend, who i met for the first time that night. we all slept in the basement and watched movies, it was a lot of fun. a week later i realized he liked me, and i liked him too. it was good until he told me he didnt want to go out with me because of basketball, and i did not ask to go out with him so i wasnt sure as to why he said that to me. anyways, tuesday night i told him i was going to my frie...
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is he using me?
Posted Sunday January 4 2009, 1:21 pm
okay i really like this guy and he flirts with me alot and asks me what i would do to him but he nevers says anything about dating..so how would i ask him if we would be having a relationship or if he would just use me for action?
thanks
loveboys
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Everything he says is just so... perfect.
Posted Sunday January 4 2009, 1:20 pm
I have this boyfriend and he is AMAZING. He can cheer me up instantly and he's just so...perfect! The thing is, he says the sweetest things ever but I can never think of anything to say back except "aw how sweet!". I feel like he deserves more than that, but when he says those things, it just kindof stuns my brain and I can't think straight... I think he thinks I don't like him as much as he likes me, but I really do! Please help? :)
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b.f. and sorta ex-b.f
Posted Sunday January 4 2009, 12:24 pm
i love my b.f "ted" of 5 months but im not IN love with him. and this other guy "ken". before me and my bf i was talking to ken alot and he was the sweetest, unselfish, most consideriate guys i've ever met. we were talking bout being more then friends but then his phone broke. so we dont talk or see each other ever. and i think im in love with him. i just miss him so much! i have this feeling that im supposed to be with him. If extra info needed just ask. Please help. Im desperate. thank you
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love
Posted Sunday January 4 2009, 3:39 am
how do you know when you're in love?
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boyfriend problems...
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 11:52 pm
I've been with my current boyfriend for almost two months now, and he's a really nice guy, and he is very thoughtful and emotional. I just don't think there's much of a connection between us. I've had a few other boyfriends before, and whenever I am with him, I don't feel the way I think I should...I don't feel attracted to him, I guess is what I'm saying. But I feel guilty dumping him because he is an amazing boyfriend. He buys the best presents and says the sweetest things to me. So, I'm wondering, is it worth it to dump him and hope someone that makes me feel the way I think I should comes along? Or should I just be happy with what I have?
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make-up & kissing
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 9:19 pm
me and my boyfriend will just get caught up in the moment and make out for a long time...i get so self conscious about what i look like cause my eyeliner and mascara like smudge...i think its because my eyes are closed..so my question is, is there any really good eyeliner that won't do this?
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Guys think they have no chance with me, but they do!
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 8:05 pm
I'm a 15 year old girl.
So to start off you must know that according to people in my school I'm in the "popular" clique. It kinda sucks because whenever I like a guy they think I'm joking or pulling a prank just because of my "status". It really sucks because now people are like you must have really high standards because you don't like anyone! Which is totally not true it's pretty much the exact opposite! Someone please help me, what should I do?
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Help
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 7:50 pm
ok this is what my ex boyfriend.. said meaning going back out.. what does this mean
ik u do maybe when this shit calms down we can try again but idk
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what do guys like to be called?
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 3:41 pm
my boyfriend always calls me beautiful and gorgeous and i never know what to say back except "aw" or smile... what do guys like being called by girls? i asked him and he said he didn't know...but theres gotta be something.
were both 16
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My boyfriend and I had a talk last night about..
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 12:47 pm
My boyfriend and I had a talk last night about how he wants our relationship to go. Ironically, after we spoke about it, we watched That 70's Show and the episode was literally about exactly how he wants our relationship to go. He sent me some of the quotes once he got home. I don't really understand what he wants, so hopefully you can help me understand.
"See! Remember when our relationship was the most fun thing in our lives? And then we put all this pressure on it. Wish we could just...y'know just hang out and forget all about that stuff."
"Donna and I have decided we're not gonna talk about our relationship anymore!"
"It's going to be so great to be with Donna without...
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should i be worried8[[
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 5:18 am
im 16 and hes 18...weve been dating my for 8 months now and were very much in love...and a few weeks ago he gave me his email passwords so i could put up a picture...and i did but i got curious and i looked through his sent messages [i kno shame!] but i found something that realy upset me...there was a message to his ex who had just recently came back from military training [she left already yay!jan 01]and the message said he thought about her and i recall something about dinner and him wanting her to stay...i told him what i did and he wasnt mad at all he said he loved me and nothing could ever change that and that it was just a good good bye...i ddnt ask about the whole dinner part because i believed that he loved me and since he ...
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is it worth it?
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 4:14 am
14/m
theres a girl that I like that im pretty sure likes me, but i only see her once a week. We hang out sometimes on other days but mostly Its only once a week. Im wondering if its even worth it asking her out even if she says yes because I wouldnt get to see her a ton
your thoughts?
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9yrs of loving him 3yrs of being in love
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 3:14 am
There is this guy that I known sence I was 8 years old...I start dating him when I was 15...He was 23..At first he did'nt want to go with me cause I was to young.But off that we were together one whole year. We parted like 2 weeks after cause my mother kept threatning to press charges..So the plan was that we get back together
when I hit 18.2 years pasted and it's like hella tru.He wants to marry me and all.But he want to wait till it hit our aniversary date(My 27th), we had when I was 15(awww)..Right now I'm single and almost 18 on the 30th of this month.......
Yeah I've been mingeling sence time went by.He's in a relationship right now but, plans to break up with his girl friend soon.He's going to his dads wedding in...
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boyfriend&drugs
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 2:36 am
My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years. When we first met he was a "trouble maker" and occasionally did drugs. He has completely changed his life around and no longer is a part of that scene because he knows that I do not approve of anything like that. We went to a party last week with some of his old friends and I got a bad vibe. I asked him to be honest with me and he told me that he did cocaine. What do I do? I don't want to instantly be mad at him because at least he told me the truth when he could have just lied and said he didn't do anything, but I do not want to be with someone who is okay with using drugs. I don't want to say ill leave him if he does it again or anything because then he will never...
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boyfriend not as active.
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 1:31 am
*i'm sorry, this might be a bit long.. but i need to say all of this so it'll make alot more sense.
sooo, i just got a boyfriend... ever since 12/29/08
he's sixteen and i'm fifteen.
what i mean by he's not that active, is not in a sexual way.. but i mean in a relationship way.
before we started going out, he SAID that he liked me.. but didn't really seem like it.
he doesn't text or call me as much as he did before, makes it seem like he was losing interests in me. and whenever i texted him, he only texts back when he WANTS to. makes me feel like i'm just there, because he WANTS me to be there.
before, i couldn't take it anymore.. so i texted him saying that he was confusing, ...
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Refusal to be Vunerable
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 1:09 am
17/f
Recently my best friend and I have stopped talking. We are finished. Previously, we spent approximately eight hours a day together without problems. When I needed her the most she began to avoid me and we had an irreversible fight. I realize it is time to move on.
The problem, however, is that this reinforces my nature to avoid making too close of relationships (friends or romantic). I would never want to feel vunerable or alone after a break up so I put up walls to avoid getting into committed relationships. Is this healthy behaviour? I prefer not to trust people or become overly attached to them. Should I make a conscious decision to stop putting up these walls? Thanks for your advice, I really appreciate it.
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My dad doesn't like me to be around guys
Posted Friday January 2 2009, 11:31 pm
I can kind of understand why my dad doesn't want me alone with guys, but at the same time, I really do need to start to be more independent. The thing is that I am 16 years old and I think I am pretty mature. I haven't really screwed up anywhere; I get amazing grades, make an effort to help around the house, and I'm generally respectful to my parents. I'm sober too, which isn't the case for my brother. They don't trust him very much, but they let him go out with a girl if he wants to. It's a pretty messed up double standard. Lately, there's a guy who I really like and we aren't exactly dating but it's understood that we both like eachother. Anywyas, I want to talk to my dad about this, but talking to him makes me really nervous because he j...
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