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Teen Pregnancy and Finding out the father....


Posted Friday January 9 2009, 10:12 pm

I'm 14,i jus turned 14 actually and at school im basically the biggest slut ever,but ive been trying to change that,well ever since i found out im pregnant.i used protection.i was on the pill,but i guess somehow i got pregnant but the worst part is i dont know who the father is and honestly it could be like 10 guys.no joke.im tryin to determine if i should just get an abortion and not tell my parents or tell them then get an abortion or tell them and have it or just have and dont tell them till its ready to come out!its such a difficult decision and lately my mom has been getting mad at me cause ive been eating so much food.please someone help me!

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What am I supposed to say?


Posted Friday January 9 2009, 8:15 pm

A guy who i have been talking to for the past week keeps on texting me. (even though idk what he looks like, much less what he likes or anything like that.) we've been talking and iv asked him the basic ques. and all what kinda music does he like?, Deos he play any sports or instruments?, his previous relationships. Now we have nuthing to talk about and i just don't know what to say.


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BFF'S COUSIN


Posted Friday January 9 2009, 4:58 pm

My best friend is trying to set me up with her cousin, but i don't know him . she gave him my number and he texts me everyday but I'm not sure what to talk to him about. We don't even go to the same school.

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online love/age for falling in love


Posted Friday January 9 2009, 4:36 pm

All I would like to know is, what is your opinion on finding love online? It could be an actual dating site or just random falling in love, didnt see it coming. Do you believe it can be true love if you have never even met or talked to the person besides online? Or do you think that there is no possible way?

One more question...
Do you believe you can fall in love at any age?

Thanks!!

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deeply confused/stressed!!


Posted Friday January 9 2009, 4:24 pm

This guy at school would look at me in the hallways so i was like ooh hes really cute. and my best friend is friends with one of his friends so she told her friend to tell the guy that i thought he was hott. its been a few weeks now and he hasnt made a move! so im guessing hes just not interested BUT he still looks at me ALL THE TIME. what does that mean?! i dont understand. and now im feeling really down because at lunch, the table that he sits at always stares at me(which he rarely sits at cause he usually goes out for lunch) and its really awkward and embarassing and it must be for a bad reason.idk how it could be though because all i said was that he was hott! they probably think that i dont have a shot which i probably dont. ugh i cant...

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valentines day is coming up


Posted Friday January 9 2009, 4:23 pm

and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend.we've been going out since xmas eve 08. he's 17 nd im 16. please help me think of something I can do for him or give him that he would like if you need any more information just ask ill let you know. thankyou for your time! thanks in advance!

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It's Ruining Our Relationship


Posted Friday January 9 2009, 3:57 pm

So, my boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year. We're both completely serious about our relationship, and we don't plan on breaking up any time soon. But the problem starts at this: He's on the basketball team. Innocent enough, right? Wrong.
The coach works them through the mill every day, and I never get a chance to see him outside of school. Before he joined basketball, he was really a good person to be around, plus he was in the same theater troupe as me. But now, he is always stressed and doesn't want to talk to me as much anymore. And he's probably going to get kicked out of the troupe because he misses so many practices due to basketball.
The thing is, he keeps on saying he wants to quit, but his parents ref...

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Relationships Research Project


Posted Friday January 9 2009, 12:23 pm

I'm doing a project for college on romantic relationships and their characteristics. As part of it, I'd like to ask the following question: Do you and your significent other have a song? If so, what is it and why is it important to you both?

Thank you so much, this will be really helpful.

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dating question pref to guys


Posted Friday January 9 2009, 4:25 am

k so i have this reaaalllyyy good friend that used to have a gf and i had a bf so we didn't hang out that much then i broke up with my bf and started hanging out with him A LOT like almost 4 5 times per week. oh yea his gf lived in another town so they never see each toher ..anyway we became really close friends adn then she broke up with him so we started going out even more frecuently...one day we finally started kissing...then hooked up and we've been like that since almost 2 months ago and he broke up with her prolly 3 ago ...anyway ..so i once told him i didn't want us to make out anymore or go further because i really really liked him, ( meaning like if he is not looking for a relationship with me dont make out with me anymroe cause i...

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17 m Going out with ym best friend's sister


Posted Thursday January 8 2009, 10:00 pm

Hey, I'm a 17 year old male who just today, asked a girl who I really like. Oddly enough she said 'yes' but there is one little snag. She is my best friend's sister. I know that if I talk to him that this would probably okay and i know that if he's not okay with this I wouldn't go through with this but how do i approach him about this, should she be there or no? I just need help deciding how to go about this, I don't want to hide this from him at all so soon would be better than later, thank you so much for your advice in advance.

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Disrespectful


Posted Thursday January 8 2009, 7:29 pm

I love my boyfriend to death, but there's just a few problems... He's completely disrespecful. He takes me out to eat and doesn't even say thank you to the waiter for bringing us our food and drinks. And it's not just that. He works at the local grocery store and my parents went in there to get something and they asked him to help them look for something. He was just like "Duh it's right behind you." He may have been trying to be funny but it's not and it offended my parents very much. I don't want to dump him because I've never had feelings like this for any guy I've ever dated. I've spoken about it with him a million times. I don't know what else to do. I feel like that's my only option. Please Help me!

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If only he didnt....


Posted Thursday January 8 2009, 5:46 pm

Theres this guy that likes me that i like back
but the thing is when he asks me a question i dont want to answer, he thinks i dont like him or im mad at him.
Like he wants to spend more time with me and wants to go to my house
but I cant tell him where I live because my mom doesnt let me out of the house at all and Idk they dont allow me around guys, but I dont want to lose him! He just doesnt understand......

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Posted Thursday January 8 2009, 4:52 pm

15/f

A couple months ago, I was at a party, this guy in my year (a popular, gorgeous, complete manwhore, let's call him C) would ask me a question or smile or say hi or stare whenever he saw me.

So, a few weeks back, my best guy mate, M, who's very good friends with C, mentioned things that C had said about me, for example C had mentioned things he'd read on my bebo profile. A couple days later, M told me that C had said he thought I was really hot and wanted to get with me at a party we were all going to that weekend.

I'd always kind of liked C, I mean, not properly, but the kind where you want to catch their attention. I wasn't taking it too seriously, but I thought I could have a bit of fun wi...

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How can i talk to him?


Posted Thursday January 8 2009, 2:44 pm

well I like this boy alot for like 4 years and my friends tell me i need to talk to him and make a move. But i dont know what to say to him. How can i start talking to him, or what should i say? Because im so nervouse talking to him and we dont really talk that much so how can i start a conversation. And plus he knows i like him.

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To stay or not to stay...


Posted Thursday January 8 2009, 6:21 am

"If you have it [ Love ], you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, It doesn't matter much what else you have...",,,or so the saying goes. You see, I am in this relationship with a different nationality and religion as I am. We are both currently in a country where we are both expatriates. We've been together for more than one (1) year now. We both love each other, we have the normal quarrels that couples have. But deep in our hearts we love each other. We're like bestfriends where we can share each other anything, be there for each other no matter what. We have shared laughter and tears. But the thing is we both know that as soon as our visa expires and we are to go back to our respective countries, that wou...

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I think she doesn't respect me


Posted Thursday January 8 2009, 4:14 am

Male 26

Lately, it feels like my girlfriend is constantly saying hurtful and/or disrespectful things to/about me. And I can't tell if she's oblivious or not about how it affects me.

How do I make it clear that I still love her, but that what she says affects me a lot.

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I don't know what to do? I fell like a traidor and a whore.. =(


Posted Thursday January 8 2009, 12:03 am

well my cousin recently seperated from her husband and went to live with her parents for a while. one day i call her up and she tell asks me to call him and tell him to call her since she ran out of credit on her phone. i call him and tell him to call her but it was already and we began to talk about something that happend a week before. i stayed at there house one night and i slept in there bed with them. i didn't have any intentions of anything but he kinda put his hand in a certain place and i didn't stop him, so on the phone we talk about it and he picks me up and i go to there house, but my cousin wasn't there since she stayed at her parents. so we have sex and i stayed the night. in the morning she drops in and he jumps up the bed and...

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Convinced Me to Like Him


Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 11:42 pm

For a long time I had a friend who I didn't know so well and wouldn't see very often, who really liked me. He told me he liked me but at the time I really didn't feel the same way. In all honesty, I never thought I'd like him and I told my mom about the situation. I really cared about him and knew that he was really hurt because I didn't like him. So months went by. Then we hung out again, and I felt something small for him that day, but I denied it and tried to make it go away. Then we hung out again. My best friend was with us too but she had to leave early. After that I was alone with him for a few hours. It was awkward at first but we started talking and I felt connected to him. I feel like I started seeing a part of him that I had neve...

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I need to get this boy


Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 10:41 pm

I have a thing with a boy. How do I get it to go from casual to serious relationship? Im 15 hes 16

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Virginity


Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 10:08 pm

17/f

I'm a virgin. Is it REALLY that important to lose it to someone you love? I don't plan on falling in love anytime soon. My first kiss wasn't special. It annoyed me at first. My second kiss wasn't special either, but I found the guy attractive and realized that was perfectly fine with me. I'm not about to go have some unsafe rendezvous with a stranger or anything, I'd just like to know.

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